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The Wedding Singer

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    Not age appropriate for kids under 12, age appropriate for kids over 14; suggested age 13.

  • Is it any good?

    3.0
  • Common Sense says

    Not the most original comedy, but many will enjoy.

Why We Rated This iffy for Ages 13–14

What to watch out for

  • Messages:

    You wouldn't necessarily want your kids acting like many of these characters.
  • Violence:

    A few punches thrown.
  • Sex:

    All talking and teasing, some of it at locker-room level.
  • Language:

    At the border of PG-13/R territory.
  • Consumerism:

    Heavy promotion (on the VHS tape) of a double-disc soundtrack and plentiful trailers for other New Line Video releases. In the movie itself a kid runs around costumed as horror character Freddy "Nightmare on Elm Street" Krueger, from the same film studio.
  • Drinking, drugs, & smoking:

    Everyone gets extremely drunk when upset, even the supposedly-responsible hero (who sarcastically urges another character to drink heavily and then drive home).

What Parents Need to Know

This review of The Wedding Singer was written by Charles Cassady Jr.

Parents need to know that raunchiness, expletives, and occasional drunk-and-disorderly situations keep this movie well into the range of PG-13; it might be too much for some tweens.

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What’s the Story?

Set in 1985, THE WEDDING SINGER stars Adam Sandler as Robbie Hart, a mullet-wearing singer-songwriter in New Jersey who performs love songs at weddings with his band, which includes a cross-dressing Boy George impersonator. Robbie's great talent isn't his singing, however, but rather his peacemaking. At receptions he smoothly defuses embarrassing, alcohol-fueled blowups between angry in-laws, and he helps bitter best men sober up. Apparently Robbie's being orphaned at age 10 motivates his ideals of marriage and tranquility. Thus it's a shattering blow when his own fiancee is a no-show at the altar. Now it's responsible Robbie's turn to lapse into drunken bitterness. The friends he's made at the party center help him through the bad time, especially Julia (Drew Barrymore), a waitress engaged to junk-bond dealer Glenn (Matthew Glave). Robbie uses his business connections to help plan Julia's wedding, and in the process the two fall in love. Robbie sees clearly that the Miami Vice-fixated Glenn is a self-centered rat who cares more about his DeLorean auto than he does for Julia.

Is It Any Good?

The Wedding Singer never stops nudging viewers -- mostly via pop-music references -- that it's set in 1985. Fashions are inspired by Michael Jackson, unspeakable haircuts derive from the group Flock of Seagulls, Billy Idol cameos as himself, and a new $800 tabletop device called a CD player gives great sound (only nobody knows what CDs are).

Sandler is a perennial kids' favorite thanks to recurring shtick as a grown man who (mis)behaves like a little boy. This comedy nicely lets Sandler mature a little bit onscreen, partially by surrounding him with characters significantly dumber and less upstanding than Robbie is. Robbie isn't pretentious or stuck on his own gallantry. He's polite in turning down sexual overtures from a Madonna-wannabe (Christine Taylor), and he even tries to convince Glenn to treat Julia better, before he realizes that he himself and Julia are a perfect match. It's not the most original comedy, but it's cute, and Robbie's situation could inspire the start of a discussion about ethical choices.

Movie Details

Studio: New Line Cinema, Director: Frank Coraci
Run time: 95 minutes
Theatrical release: 9/14/2004, DVD release: 9/14/2004
MPAA Rating: PG-13 for sexual content and profanity

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  1. Teen Reviewer Age 16
    Lives in Virginia
    I rate this title on for age 13 and give it 5.0
    • My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content
    • Inappropriate language
    • My highlights are:
    • Positive messages
    • Good role models

    A Classic

    I love this movie! The Wedding Singer is fantastic and very well done. I can't say enough good things about this movie. Their are so many scenes that you'll find yourselves watching again and again! The language is not so bad, there are a few awkward scenes about how to kiss properly and stuff like that, but really it's not bad at all! I TRULY RECOMMEND THIS MOVIE!

  2. Adult Reviewer
    Lives in Ohio
    I rate this title iffy for age 13 and give it 3.0
    • My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate language

  3. Adult Reviewer
    Lives in Florida
    I rate this title on for age 0 and give it 5.0

  4. Teen Reviewer Age 15
    Lives in Massachusetts
    I rate this title on for age 0 and give it 4.0

    ADAM SANDLER ROCKS! AND HE'S A GREAT SINGER!

  5. Adult Reviewer
    Lives in New York
    I rate this title on for age 0 and give it 5.0

    A surprisingly sweet & funny movie!

    This movie far surpassed expectations. It is one of my (and my wife's) favorite movies. Yes, it is rough around the edges, but the sweetness of the main characters, and the delightful love story is so charming that other objections melt away. Yes, there is sexuality, a bit of physical violence, and some foul language (some of it so comical that it's irresistable!). But, for the most part, on-the-edge behavior is portrayed as NOT cool, leading to unhappiness, where sweetness, restraint, and sincerity wins overall. Highly recommended, but not for under 13.

  6. Kid Reviewer Age 11
    Lives in Connecticut
    I rate this title on for age 0 and give it 5.0

    i loved it 5 stars

    funny sweet amazing !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  7. Teen Reviewer Age 14
    Lives in New York
    I rate this title off for age 0 and give it 3.0

    ok

    good movie but lots of bad stuff. it includes the f-word twice and many others.

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