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3 Willows

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    Not age appropriate for kids under 11, age appropriate for kids over 14; suggested age 12.

  • Is it any good?

    4.0
  • Common Sense says

    Brashares' novel charms even without magical pants.

Why We Rated This iffy for Ages 12–14

The good stuff

  • Messages:

    Polly eats 15 cookies and feels "like she was going to barf." She tells herself that is not behavior for a wannabe model "unless she actually barfed on purpose." She goes to modeling camp and starts skipping meals so she loses a lot of weight. "She felt empty and small, and she liked that feeling." She keeps worrying about how she looks. In the end, however, she decides that "She was never going to be a model ... To want it was the same as hating herself. That was the truth." Polly works hard as a baby-sitter. Jo is mean to Polly and says hurtful things. Jo's parents go through a divorce. Polly notes that the thong underwear Jo convinced her to wear with leggings "was not comfortable, no matter what anybody said." Jo is excited to stay alone overnight at her house without a curfew. She invites her co-workers over to her empty house without her parents' permission. Her co-workers ignore her after she upsets one of the cool waitresses. The book ultimately has several positive social messages about being a good friend and staying true to oneself.

What to watch out for

  • Violence:

    Not an issue.
  • Sex:

    Not an issue.
  • Language:

    "Hell," "bitch."
  • Consumerism:

    A few mentions of specific Ivy League colleges and brand names such as Seven, iPod, 7-Eleven, Slurpee, and Kiehl's hair creme.
  • Drinking, drugs, & smoking:

    Jo tries to get her older co-workers to come over to her empty house by telling them "the liquor cabinet is full." Jo knows she would get in "huge trouble" for raiding the liquor cabinet but she does it anyway. Polly's mom makes herself drinks such as gin and tonic. Polly discovers her mother passed out and must take her to the hospital. The doctor tells her her mother is an alcoholic and must go into an alcohol treatment center.

What Parents Need to Know

This review of 3 Willows was written by Stephanie Dunnewind

Parents need to know that this book from the author of The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants ultimately delivers positive messages about doing what's right, making good choices, taking chances, and accepting oneself. Along the way, the three young teen protagonists deaI with a borderline eating disorder, an alcoholic parent, a fickle cute boy, and the tribulations of fitting in with the popular crowd. The book name-drops characters from the author's Traveling Pants books but is targeted at a younger audience than that young adult series.

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  • Families can talk about Polly's choice to start dieting and her obsession with models. Imagining herself as a model pictured in magazines distributed all over the world, she believes "you could see so much more of the world when you were flat than when you were full ... I'd like to be two-dimensional, she thought. That was what models got to be." What do teens think about the idea of being reduced to a two-dimensional picture? How does Polly's attitude change over the course of the book?
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Book Summary

First things first: There are no magical pants in Brashares' newest novel, despite 3 WILLOWS' tagline: "The sisterhood grows." Like many girls, three old friends -- Ama, Jo, and Polly -- wanted to emulate the famed Sisterhood, still a neighborhood legend despite moving away to college. "It's the best reason I can give for a lot of terrible-fitting jeans in our middle school," Ama notes. Instead, the motif that ties these friends together is their planting of three willow trees in elementary school. Now, during their last summer before high school, the girls must figure out if they will grow together or grow apart as they each face their own challenges. Jo gets a job -- and a new boyfriend -- while her parents go through a divorce; outdoors-hating Ama must hike and rock climb; and sweet Polly decides to become a model, despite her short stature and buck teeth. Are their bonds strong enough for high school -- or is their friendship something that belongs in the past?

Is It Any Good?

Brashares' strength is creating believable characters imbued with true-to-life faults. The 3 WILLOWS teens are not all beautiful, rich, and confident. Her insights into relationships with friends and family will garner a nod of agreement from many teens. When Polly's mom tries to make her feel better for being "weird," Polly confesses that she doesn't want to "interesting." "Maybe it was okay when you were grown up and in control of it, but being interesting in high school was no fun at all." Jo feigns indifference to her father's announcement about her parents' divorce, only to get angry at her father's relief. "Maybe she was a jerk to act like she didn't care, but he was a jerk to buy it."

The book starts a little slow and some of the lessons are predictable. However, teens who enjoy books about friendship will find these new "sisters" worth knowing.

Publisher’s Details

Publisher: Delacorte Press, Publication date: 1/13/2009
Number of pages: 320, Price: $18.99 (hardcover)
Read Aloud: Teen, Read Alone: Teen

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  1. Teen Reviewer Age 14
    Lives in California
    I rate this title iffy for age 12 and give it 3.0

    I am a die-hard sisterhood fan so this book kind of annoyed me. These characters didn't have any of the same charm as Tibby, Lena, Bridget, or Carmen. I'm the same age but I couldn't really relate to any of the events in the story. I also thought that making out with a random stranger on the bus was pretty irrational behavior for 14 year olds, most of the people I know would never do that. It wasn't anything special really, but it wasn't too bad.

  2. Teen Reviewer Age 14
    Lives in California
    I rate this title iffy for age 12 and give it 3.0

    I am a die-hard sisterhood fan so this book kind of annoyed me. These characters didn't have any of the same charm as Tibby, Lena, Bridget, or Carmen. I'm the same age but I couldn't really relate to any of the events in the story. I also thought that making out with a random stranger on the bus was pretty irrational behavior for 14 year olds, most of the people I know would never do that. It wasn't anything special really, but it wasn't too bad.

  3. Teen Reviewer Age 14
    Lives in Kansas
    I rate this title iffy for age 12 and give it 4.0

    A Pretty Good Book

    I did enjoy this book, but some parts were a little slow. The letters were all flashbacks and kind of confusing at times. Basically, if you can watch PG-13 movies, there won't be anything in this book you haven't seen or heard before.

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