Tools for this page
Print

Anatomy of a Boyfriend

(2007, Fiction - Coming of Age, Written by Daria Snadowsky)
  • Is it age appropriate?

    About our ratings

    (Flash is loading. If this text does not disappear you need to install the latest flash version)

    Not age appropriate for kids under 15, age appropriate for kids over 16; suggested age 15.
  • Is it any good?

    2.0
  • Common Sense says

    First time tell-all tale better for older teens.

Why We Rated This iffy for Ages 15–16

What to watch out for

  • Messages:

    Lovesick teen will do anything to be with boyfriend including lying to parents, but she also turns to them for advice, comfort, and support. Teens discuss and practice safe sex.
  • Violence:

    Police officer catches boy and girl fooling around in parked car.
  • Sex:

    Graphic descriptions of kissing, touching, fondling, oral sex, and intercourse. Discussion of nudity, using birth control, sneaking away to have sex. Teen friend thinks she may be pregnant.
  • Language:

    Use of words "assholes," "s--t," "hell," and "damn."
  • Consumerism:

    Not an issue.
  • Drinking, drugs, & smoking:

    Teenagers drinking at parties. Adults drinking in front of teens.
 

What Parents Need to Know

About Anatomy of a Boyfriend

Parents need to know that this book is filled with graphic descriptions of first intimate experiences. As a senior in high school, the main female character is obsessed with her first real boyfriend and describes in vivid detail their romantic encounters, from kissing and touching to oral sex and losing their virginities. She is also an overachieving student, has applied to colleges with pre-med ambitions, and has strong, healthy relationships with her parents and best girlfriend. In the context of social gatherings, there is some underage drinking and profanity in dialogue for effect. She's a likeable character, but parents need to be comfortable with the frank sex-related content, which could double as a how-to manual.

Did this review help you decide?

Families Can Talk About

  • Families can talk about this girl's obsession with her boyfriend. How does she balance boyfriend, family, school, and friends -- or doesn't she? Families can also talk about how these sex-crazed teens took the time to be responsible by discussing and using safe-sex practices. What does it mean to practice safe sex?

Want more? Get Common Sense recommendations delivered to your inbox.

Our Members Say

Have you read it? Review It!

  • What did you think about Anatomy of a Boyfriend?
  •  I think this book is

    for ages

  •  I also give it

  •  Any concerns?

  •  Any highlights?

  •  Love it? Hate it?

  • or to post a review
See all 13 member reviews

Most Recent Reviews

  1. Teen Reviewer Age 14
    I rate this title on for age 12 and give it 5.0
    • My highlights are:
    • Good role models

    Anatomy of a Boyfriend is a great coming of age book. It gives girls an inside view of what a high school relationship can be like. It's a good book for girls 12 and up. i read it at age 13 and have loved it ever since. It has helped me to pick my relationships and what i do with them wisely. It shows that not all relations ships work out like a fairly tale.

  2. Teen Reviewer Age 15
    Lives in California
    I rate this title on for age 14 and give it 5.0
    My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content

    • My highlights are:
    • Good role models

    This book was REALLy good. Yes they talk about sex and stuff but it gives you her point of view and it doesn't give a fairy tale ending, but it's a hopeful ending showing that this world isn't perfect.

  3. Teen Reviewer Age 14
    Lives in Virginia
    I rate this title on for age 14 and give it 5.0

    I laughed,i cried,Overall Great Book!

    This has been one of my favortive boos i have read. It is so real lif and most of us can relate to it.Reders under 14 shouldn;t read it though because it does describe sexual things in detail but for older teens most of us have done some or most of this.I hated the ending though it made me cry.

  4. Teen Reviewer Age 14
    Lives in California
    I rate this title on for age 15 and give it 5.0

    Great Book- Give it a break!

    I loved this book. It was humorous yet serious, and had a great style of writing. It is however not very appropriate for younger readers as it does revolve around a teen girl's first experiences with a boyfriend, and what stems from said relationship [ie. sex]. That's not to say this book should be avoided- I thoroughly enjoyed Anatomy of a Boyfriend. Let's get real- our media, from the tv, to movies, to the internet is full of less-than-positive messages, especially concerning teens and sex. It's unfortunate, but it's true. Saying this book might act like a "how-to manual" is pretty far fetched- and it's not fair to ban a book or judge an author just because the material or subject matter is more mature. If anything, it's best to get over this fear that teens will lose all innocence from reading this, or books like it. Like it or not, we're growing and learning, and chances are, we know a lot more about this subject that you know, or would like. That's life. And it's rather refreshing to know that there are authors out there who write books that are real. That are about life. That aren't overly cheesy and unrealistic. The message? Just make sure that it's the appropriate age level and you'll be sure to have a great read.

  5. Teen Reviewer Age 14
    Lives in California
    I rate this title on for age 16 and give it 5.0

More Great Stuff For Your Kids

  • Most Popular This Week

    New Moon Is Rising

    New Moon Is Rising

    Fans are gearing up for the 11/20 release.

  • Advice for Parents

    Are Your Kids Obsessed with Twilight & New Moon?

    Are Your Kids Obsessed with Twilight & New Moon?

    Discussion pointers for parents of "twilighters."

  • Must See TV

    Fanboy and Chum Chum

    Fanboy and Chum Chum

    Zany adventures are low on depth but high on imagination.

  • Pick of the Week

    Holiday Websites

    Holiday Websites

    Where to surf, turkey time and beyond.

  • Download This

    The Twilight Saga: New Moon Soundtrack

    The Twilight Saga: New Moon Soundtrack

    Dark, cool tunes OK for kids too young for the movie.

Give Us a Minute, Get a Lot of Common Sense!
  • Age-appropriate best bets for your kids
  • Weekly email alert with the latest picks, reviews & advice
  • Post your own reviews and share them with friends

This will never be displayed to others.
Your email will never be displayed to others.
Your password should be 6-10 characters long.
A screen name protects your privacy
To post a review or comment you must become a Common Sense Member. It's easy!

Set-up your account
This will never be displayed to others.
Your email will never be displayed to others.
Your password should be 6-10 characters long.

Choose a screen name
It will appear when you post your own reviews and recommendations.
A screen name protects your privacy

Tell us your children's ages
You'll see the movies, games, books, shows, music, and sites our editors select just for them. As your children get older, our picks will grow with them!Why we ask for this
We never display your children's names, (or nicknames) to anyone, but you. Providing your children's ages allows us to personalize information on our site, so you get better information, faster.
is
until
(optional)
is
until
is
until
is
until
is
until
is
until
Add another child

We can make Common Sense just right for you. With a little info about you and your family, you'll get the most out of our site.

Set-up your account
This will never be displayed to others.
Your email will never be displayed to others.
Your password should be 6-10 characters long.

Tell us your children's ages
You'll see the movies, games, books, shows, music, and sites our editors select just for them. As your children get older, our picks will grow with them!
Why we ask for this
We never display your children's names, (or nicknames) to anyone, but you. Providing your children's ages allows us to personalize information on our site, so you get better information, faster.
is
until
is
until
is
until
is
until
is
until
is
until
Add another child

Choose a screen name
It will appear when you post your own reviews and recommendations
A screen name protects your privacy
Register to add this school to your profile. You'll be able to see and share reviews from parents, teachers, and kids at your child's school.
I'm already a Common Sense member.
Kids under 13 must use a screen name