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Breathe My Name

(2007, Fiction - Contemporary Fiction, Written by R. Nelson)
  • Is it age appropriate?

    About our ratings

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    Not age appropriate for kids under 15, age appropriate for kids over 99; suggested age 15.
  • Is it any good?

    4.0
  • Common Sense says

    Teen copes after sisters die at mom's hand.

Why We Rated This iffy for Ages 15–18

The good stuff

  • Messages:

    There are some true horrors in this book, however there is also forgiveness, positive coping, and recovery. We see teens who have great capacities for communication who still make stupid mistakes. Those mistakes are handled by very present adults in an appropriate manner.
 

What to watch out for

  • Violence:

    A mother kills three of her daughters and attempts to kill a fourth; we see how the bodies of the dead children looked. A girl is almost choked to death and a man is killed when he is hit in the head. The blood and how his bludgeoned head looked is described.
  • Sex:

    Sex is discussed, often jokingly, in typical adolescent ways. A teen girl and boy are involved in heavy petting and bed sharing at a motel. Teens talk about a book where the characters "diddle" each other.
  • Language:

    Mild swearing, including "s--t." Usually used in reaction to a difficult situation.
  • Consumerism:

    Most product placements are used in the description of a scene, including Saturday Night Live, CNN, XBox, VW Bug, Hundai, Google, and Walmart.
  • Drinking, drugs, & smoking:

    Adults drink alcohol.
 

What Parents Need to Know

About Breathe My Name

Parents need to know that this is a book you may want to read before your kids do. A mother kills three of her children and attempts to kill a fourth. Parents should also be aware there are instances of serious mental illness, sexual situations, some product placement, and issues of adoption, forgiveness, coping, and trust in this very heavy, often disturbing book.

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  1. Teen Reviewer Age 15
    I rate this title on for age 13 and give it 5.0

  2. Teen Reviewer Age 16
    Lives in New York
    I rate this title on for age 14 and give it 1.0

    No hook.

    There was absolutely nothing worthwhile about reading this boook except for the pleasure of finishing it. It was a drag from start to finish. The main character seems untouchable. Throughout all of these horrible events in her life you never find out what she is THINKING! In order to write a novel, you need a good basis of characters. It is obvious that the author didn't know her characters well enough to tell us what they were thinking. I mean the girl is tied to a chair and almost killed and all R.A. Nelson gives us is an "gee, i'm scared." This book falls flat on many different levels including the emotional one.

  3. Adult Reviewer
    Lives in Texas
    I rate this title on for age 14 and give it 5.0

    You Have To READ THIS!!

    It was an amazing book. Kind of hard to follow at first but stick with it. You will not be disappointed.

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