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Tips on Having a Gay (Ex) Boyfriend

(2007, Fiction - Coming of Age, Written by Carrie Jones)
  • Is it age appropriate?

    About our ratings

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    Not age appropriate for kids under 13, age appropriate for kids over 16; suggested age 13.
  • Is it any good?

    2.0
  • Common Sense says

    Like the title, there's too much going on here.

Why We Rated This iffy for Ages 13–16

The good stuff

  • Messages:

    This book centers around a girl whose boyfriend is gay. She is accepting of him though many in their small town are not.
 

What to watch out for

  • Violence:

    Two boys fight. Belle is attacked in the school hallway by a bully.
  • Sex:

    Belle and her boyfriend have had sex. Other characters kiss and fool around.
  • Language:

    Lots of derogatory words for gay people, and other words such as "bitch" and "f--k."
  • Consumerism:

    Not an issue.
  • Drinking, drugs, & smoking:

    Not an issue.
 

What Parents Need to Know

About Tips on Having a Gay (Ex) Boyfriend

Parents need to know that this book centers on a teen girl whose boyfriend tells her he's gay. She recalls having sex with him and eventually kisses a new guy; her ex-boyfriend goes on to have a relationship with another boy. There is swearing, including derogatory terms for gay people. And there is a disturbing scene where Belle is attacked by a bully at her school.

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Families Can Talk About

  • Families can talk about the portrayal of small towns. Belle is tolerant when she finds out her boyfriend is gay, but many in their town are not. Do you think this is an accurate portrayal? Are there any openly gay students at your school? How are they treated?

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  1. Teen Reviewer Age 14
    Lives in Texas
    I rate this title iffy for age 2 and give it 4.0

    mmmmmmhmmm...

    It's a really great book. I guess though you really should know your kid. Or if your kid knows themselves enough they'll get it theirselves like I did... Actually I guess that's cause I knew my mom enough. Ha, ha

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