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You Don't Know Me

(2005, Fiction - Contemporary Fiction, Written by David Klass)
  • Is it age appropriate?

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    Not age appropriate for kids under 12, age appropriate for kids over 0; suggested age 12.
  • Is it any good?

    4.0
  • Common Sense says

    Teen copes with abuse with humor and fantasy.

Why We Rated This on for Ages 12 and Up

What to watch out for

  • Messages:

    A teen shoplifts and is caught, and adult fences stolen goods.
  • Violence:

    John suffers increasingly severe abuse at the hands of his mother's boyfriend, beginning with smacks, escalating to a beating with a belt, ending with a beating severe enough to require a hospital stay and reconstructive surgery. A gun, a riot at a basketball game. John briefly considers suicide.
  • Sex:

    A couple of make-out scenes, not graphic. An oblique reference to masturbation
  • Language:

    Some moderate swearing.
  • Consumerism:

    Not an issue.
  • Drinking, drugs, & smoking:

    The mother's boyfriend gets drunk on whiskey, the punch at a high-school dance is spiked.
 

What Parents Need to Know

About You Don't Know Me

Parents need to know that the protagonist deals with serious abuse at the hands of his mother's live-in boyfriend. Alienated and angry, he briefly considers suicide.

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  • Families can talk about how John deals with the abuse. How could he have gotten out of his dilemma? How do his problems affect his view of the world?

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  1. Teen Reviewer Age 15
    I rate this title on for age 13 and give it 4.0
    • My highlights are:
    • Positive messages

    Its a vary good book. i can connect with the kid because i have been in many of his situations.but the face that it shows a teenagers prospective is a vary good feel of life.

  2. Teen Reviewer Age 17
    I rate this title on for age 13 and give it 5.0
    • My highlights are:
    • Positive messages

    Loved it

    I like the fact that this book shows just how horrible the life of a child who is being abused is. It's very emotional for me, I was abused as a child and could really connect with John.

  3. Adult Reviewer
    I rate this title on for age 12 and give it 2.0

    fine for tweens

    i didnt think it was very good. i thought it was kinda boring and confusing because of the way he would say things.

  4. Teen Reviewer Age 13
    Lives in New Jersey
    I rate this title on for age 11 and give it 1.0

    interesting

    this book was interesting. but it wasnt the best book. i give it a 6 or 7

  5. Kid Reviewer Age 12
    I rate this title iffy for age 12 and give it 2.0

    only read half of it but okay so far

    the book was okay.... most of it is confusing as its aimed for 13+. all my family(who are 13+) want to read it and guess wat they loved it . and my mum felt so sorry for "john" after the 1st chapter!!!!! overall that i have read its quiet boring not recormended for under 12!!!

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