Flipped (by Wendelin Van Draanen)

common sense media says

Honest story about first crushes -- tweens and up.


parents & educators say
  • 31% say there are positive messages

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that nearly every character, major and minor, adult and child, behaves badly. In some cases they learn better or regret their mistakes; in others (such as the main characters cheating in school) they don't. Because of the romantic subject matter, it will probably appeal mainly to middle schoolers.

Positive messages: This deceptively simple novel about first crushes is a lot like real life -- sometimes too much so. All the characters mess up, usually repeatedly, and mostly through selfishness and lack of understanding and compassion, just like real people. And most of them change -- and change again.
Positive role models: The two main characters cheat in class. Bryce's father is sexist. Several characters say disparaging things about mentally challenged people. Nearly every character behaves poorly.
Violence: Two girls fight over a boy.
Sex: Oblique reference to breasts. Thoughts about kissing, and an abortive attempt at a kiss.
Language: Not applicable.
Consumerism: Not applicable.
Drinking, drugs, & smoking: Not applicable.

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What to talk about

Talk to your kids
  • Families can talk about the characters' behavior.

  • Why do they do the things they do?

  • Is Bryce really a coward? Is his grandfather fair to him?

  • Also, point of view is very important here. Why do the stories the two characters tell seem so different? Are they lying?

  • Do people really see the same events so differently? Why?

What's the story?

What's the story?

In alternating chapters, Bryce and Juli tell the story of their relationship, beginning in second grade when Bryce moves in across the street from Juli. Juli instantly develops a crush on Bryce, who does not reciprocate, and throughout elementary school he tries to avoid her persistent and unwelcome attentions.

In middle school, however, they both begin to notice Bryce's substantial character flaws. Just as Bryce begins to try to change, and to notice Juli's good points, her ardor starts to cool. Meanwhile their families, and their perceptions of their world, also undergo dramatic changes.

Is it any good?

Is it any good?
 

This deceptively simple novel about first crushes is a lot like real life -- sometimes too much so. There is hardly a character, major or minor, adult or child, who is really likable, though a few, such as Bryce and his grandfather, drift toward likability by the end. They all mess up, usually repeatedly, and mostly through selfishness and lack of understanding and compassion, just like real people. And most of them change -- and change again.

The alternating narrators device in FLIPPED adds another realistic layer to this multilayered book. Bryce and Juli describe the same events from their points of view, and they do so with surprising honesty. The differences in their versions come not from trying to hide the truth or justify their own behavior, but from genuinely seeing things differently. They both behave badly, Bryce especially, but they're both able to face that and to attempt the always difficult process of conscious change.

Book themes & details

Book Details
Author: Wendelin Van Draanen
Publisher: Alfred A. Knopf
Publication date: June 27, 2006
Number of pages: 212
Hardcover price: $14.95
Paperback price: $8.95
Read Aloud: 11
Read Alone: 11

This review was written by Matt Berman
 
 

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What parents & educators say

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Based on 16 parent & educator reviews:
  • 31% say there are positive messages

Most useful reviews by all members

RobynEqualsMe
teen, 13 years old
 
THIS IS A GREAT BOOK
i just finnished this book i couldn't put it down!! i hate reading but this book was awesome! love the ending and the dad in the story is mean put it is just telling you looks aren't as important as everone makes them out to be. im 12 and absoultly loved it! parents i would suggest this book for them.

xolax08
teen, 17 years old
 
Flipped
This book is wonderful i love the way juli acts and bryce too i think that juli should trusted bryce again even though bryce through away julis eggs and she made fun ok her uncle david.

Abigail_Wilson
kid, 10 years old
 
Much like others
Juilianna isn't afraid to fight for what she believes in but, Bryce is...this book is a lot like the book StarGirl i have read. You should read both! ;) :D

ab_231
teen, 14 years old
 
I LOVED THIS BOOOOOOOOOOOOOK! i love how it was set up! it was cool becuse you can't find many love storys with kids this age in it i highly recomend it girls and guys!!!!!!!!!!!!!

flipped14
teen, 15 years old
 
Perfect for middle schoolers.
I LOVED THIS BOOK. It's a story for kids throughout middle school i read it in my 8th grade year and i couldn't forget about it. During that year i was looking for books that really targeted my age, not book that involved 16-18 year olds, so when i found this book i was surprised, because not many books were like this. It really showed how growing up is and how middle school goes. It had a real life approach to it unlike some other book which made me love it. It also showed what was happening from both Julie's and Bryce's point of view so you can see how their feelings change. I would recommend this book to all kids in middle school, it's about crushes, rumors, and how things change, but it is told in a very real, almost old fashioned way. Its a very life changing book about how we see and treat others.

hannahlopez34
parent of 10 year old
 
BUY BUY BUY
parents buy this book for your kids. amazing. i love it.

annesbanannes
teen, 17 years old
 
I simply love the book (the film, too). I like reading the same scenes from different points of views and seeing how Bryce sees some events in a completely different light. I guess you can really relate to the characters and that's what makes it so great. :-)

Molly2006
kid, 12 years old
 
I love this book it is on of the best books i have ever read.

Sky Could Be Blue
teen, 16 years old
 
Amazing book. Absolutely love it and it teaches children to look at the mentally challenged as people and not "retards". Hilarious misconceptions between guys and gals. Adorable storyline. Great message: don't just fall for guys based on their looks. I read it in middle school and re-read it in high school. I just hate how Juli's family is "amazing" and Bryce's is "horrible" it makes the book too black and white.

bluetiger24
teen, 13 years old
 
perfect for tweens
I love this boook sooo much! The stroyline is great, and the only bad thing is a few times when someone swears. The characters aare friendly and it's a great story to read such as for a book club or other.

Janlynn55
kid, 13 years old
 
Good Book
LOVE. IT. Good Book!!!!!

brookeNterence
teen, 17 years old
 
Good book for guys to read
i love this book because it has a lot to do with drama and how this girl fights for what she really loves and cares for i would recomend thsi book for anybody to read i personally think that guys would enjoy reading it to

twilightjunkie1
teen, 16 years old
 
I really liked the book. My friend told me to read it and i enjoyed it very much. It's a really good book for pre-teens. The only thing I thought was bad was the band name. Also Juli's brothers and friends weren't the nicest and most charming people around. Beside that, Bryce's dad was kind of rude about Juli's home and family. I really loved the book. A fun and easy novel to read.

lilmissfrankie
kid, 12 years old
 
ehhhhh
it wasnt that good but for 9 and up

IzzyNYC
kid, 13 years old
 
Horrible
It's a horrible and annoying book. The girl decides to tackle the new boy, she helps him CHEAT on a test, and she ATTACKS an obviously nice girl that the new boy is dating. And in the end, the boy falls in love with her for absolutley no reason.

tokoycute
kid, 13 years old
 
gret book
this book was great! i loved it this book was great with some suspence!

musicgirl242
kid, 11 years old
 
Awesome book.
I read this and LOVED it! It has a bitter sweat ending though. The relationships in this book remind me of "A Midsummer Nights Dream".

BellaPotter1999
kid, 12 years old
 
good book

 
Great story about values and first love
Underneath the story of a budding tween love are lessons about values. We see the consequences of anger, pride, judgment, and discrimination. We see the benefits of forgiveness, open-mindedness, and love. And through the honest reflection of the two main characters we probably see ourselves. A great story to share with your tween - we listened to it as an audiobook in the car and talked about it.

smartngirly
kid, 13 years old
 
Very very VERY good book! :-)
OMG BEST BOOK EVER!! I LOVE IT!! SO REALISTIC!! I CAN'T BELIEVE IT!! IT IS MY NEW FAVE BOOK!! ANYBODY FROM 10-12 WILL LOVE IT!! IT IS WONDERFUL!! READ IT!! IF YOU LIKE IT READ MONSTER HIGH!! JOIN MOSHIMONSTERS!!

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