Im only 13, but I LOVE READING! I picked this book at my school library and i thought it was just about love, nothing sexual. But i recall the first line stated " Sybil had been laid by at least 6 guys" or something similar. I didn't think to go on, but i didn't think i should judge it by the first. But i was wrong. Katherine thinks she has fallen in love and has sex with her boyfriend...and she calls it 'making love'. But the book goes into detail, and describes WAY TOO MUCH information or detail about sex, e.g. how it feels, positioning etc. my opinion is that this book was completely inappropriate for teens my age and even a little bit older. Oh and by the way im not sure how to work the iffy,on and off thing so im sorry!
I know that many parents may have objections with this book, but as a teen -- and having read it myself -- I think it portrays love and sex in a realistic light. Katherine and Michael have a real relationship going on. They didn't just meet and hook up, but they met, fell for each other, took the time to get to know one another, and then took the time to make the decision that they were ready to take the next step and add sex into their relationship. Blume wrote a story that very much said: Teenagers are going to have sex no matter what parents want and think, but instead of going on and on about abstinence, we should be telling them to wait until they are in a relationship they can enough about and not just a random hook up. She also shows that you should be prepared with birth control or other means of protection. Overall this book has a good message about what love is and how you should take responsibility is you want to take that nest step in the relationship. Definitely a book for thirteen and up, maybe 12 is they are mature enough to handle it.
A positive learning experience, but do be aware of your child.
Although there are some graphic depictions of intercourse, it is nothing terrible. All teenagers know about sex and there is no way society can hide it, most teenagers have sex in high school and their parents never find out. This book isn't promoting people to go screw each other, it puts an emphasis on a loving sexual relationship. The only downside is that we are talking about high school students who say forever, but it never turns out that way, which is absolutely heartbreaking.
it's a great book & an easy way to escape the awkward 'sex talk' with your child. i had to research a banned/challenged book and i chose this book and anyone can understand why its challenged but the people that do challenge it focus on the negative and dont look at the benefits some people can get out of this intriguing book. for one its very educational and it can help a lot of girls go through their first sexual relationship. all in all its a great book and i would recommend it to anyone OVER 14 years old
Honest, but not the best. Beware of sexual content.
I didn't like this book. I just didn't find it to be good. The story was pretty lame, but the main issue was the way the sex scenes were described. I did not expect so much detail.
The book was honest though and I think she did a good job with that. But still overall I was not a fan.
i think that most children in this era know about sex but some concerns need to be shown also. under 15 should not read this
I THOUGHT JUDY BLUME WAS A CHILDRENS' AUTHOR
Okay, well I'm 15 years old, and I read this book when I was 14. I loved the book! It is a fairly sexual book, so if you're under 14, I wouldn't recommend reading it just yet. The message in this book is positive, talking about the consequences that come with sex instead of making seem like and easy thing, which it isn't. This book almost, to me, gives off the vibe of when a parent is giving their kid "the talk" because there is some talk about that. Overall: Amazing book, but not for tweens.
love it. sex isnt anything a 12 or 13 year old doesnt know about.and to tell you the truth,im not a virgin and neither is my best friend. i feel that this book helped me through that situation. i loved how she got birth control in it, because manyof the books dont have that written in it and it was interesting to read. GREAT BOOK!
I read this when I was Ten. You have to be quite mature to read this book, it actually teaches you alot. Its a very interesting book. I recomend reading it, at some point.
I Wish I COuld've Found This Book When I Really Needed It . /:
Well . I Read Maybe Two Or Three PAges Of The Book Because My Friends Had Got It . I Wish I Would Have Found This Book Last Year Because I Am Not A Virgin And I Really Didn't Have Anything To Help me When Things Like This Happened . And Well I Say Any Age Could Read It HONESTLY . But I Mean . Mature . If You Are Mature . Then I RECOMMEND This Book . Because What Kid 11+ Doesn't Know About Sex, Drugs, Drinking. Suicide . ? I Lost Mine Virginity When I Was 12 And So Many Other Things Happened Like Doing Marijuana And Drinking . But This Book, From What My Friend Has Said About It, Would Have Really Helped Me . And Then Well I started To Drink And I Was Pressured Into Everything . And I Lost Friends On That Road . And It Seems Like This Book Could Help A Teen . Because It Does Talk About What Happens In Life From What Everybody Says . But I Guess The Sexual Desciption And Such Isn't The Best . I Still Think People Should Read It . It WILL Help .
Sexual scenes may be a little too intense for younger tweens but parents should relax because it is a positive, realistic book.
Obviously this is a book about sex but that doesn't mean it's a bad book. I read in 8th grade which I know is a little too young but I still liked it. It showed sex in a different light than the way the media shows relationships. If you are afraid of the sexual content in the book at least your daughter will know how to make the right decision about approaching sex. Honestly its either learn about loving relationships in this book or watch people hook up on jersey shore and other teen girls getting pregnant. Both Katherine and Michael want to be safe and take precautions. They also know that it is right because they love each other.
lesson learned about boys from a great book forever
even thought the book is talking about sexual intercourse it could teach your child a lesson depending on if the child is bad and stupid enough to try it.Its actually good because if someone is trying to make the same move when Tommy was only with Katherine for sex ,then they could relate because that's what going on these days.
was really inappropriate i stopped reading because of that issue. i am 13 and i thought that this book was just a simple romance but it was very descriptive, overall not a book for teens!