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All teen and kid reviews for The Giver

Age
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Average rating based on 167 kid and teen reviews:
  • 41% say there are positive messages
  • 35% say there are positive role models
Kid, 13 years old
February 20, 2011
 
Don't be Afraid to feel.
Comparing my review to others you may be wondering why I haven't decided to put the sexual behavior sign. Well, because it isn't necessary. Why you may ask? Well, this book has been made for kids going through puberty. Don't you understand, sexual thoughts, fitting into your community those ideas are put in the book so tweens can feel empathy towards the main character Jonas. As a becoming teen I can understand in some ways how the main character feels. One most see that this story lets you know its okay for those feelings, one as a human must cope with them. The realsing of people is horrible and many things the community were Jonas lives are but they show the world isn't heaven and as a parent you can't hide a child from it. The longer you try to keep them in a bubble it will be more shocking to them to meet the REAL world. I personally do not understand the mother how disliked the book so much but I feel that she did have her reasons, though they seem quit meaningless to me. You need to decided if the book is right for you're living style. But I'll let you know if it is there is one thing that it will teach you and leave in printed in your skin. Don't be Afraid to feel. To wonder? To challenge the world. For all those great characters such as Gandhi or Martin Luther King, that is what they did.

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Teen, 13 years old
October 26, 2011
 
Unbelivably Enlightning.
I can't belive how shallow the parents on this website are being. I am a 13 year old in my 8th grade year, and I appear to be more understanding than these adults are about this book. The Stirrings are NOT sexually inappropriate-remember that this book is for teens, who are going through puberty. My amazing 8th grade teacher explained the reason why the releasing of unfit children is understandable. "I worked in a Special Ed. class for about 3 years, and throughout that time, I met a child. He was disfigured and nobody liked to be around him. Everyday, he would ask me 'Why? Why would they let me live?' and I realized that he was in intense pain. It would be better to have killed the child, rather than selfishly having him live through life, unable to reproduce, unable to make real friends or live a normal life and constantly in pain." Although I don't agree with killing children, I can understand certain circumstances. Another point she brought up was: "If you saw an animal on the side of the street, it's legs squished to the ground because of being ran over by a car and its stomach bleeding, which of these would you do: Try to save the dog, or put it out of it's misery?" After discussion, our class ended our discussion, most of us deciding to save the dog. She wisely told us, "I would kill the dog. You know why? Because that animal is in PAIN. Even after surgury or whatever, it would still live with that constant pain, for the rest of its life until it died a painful death." This all applies to The Giver. This book is not 'Sick' or 'Inappropriate', its REAL. This book shows us dehumanization-when killing babies is a matter that is disreguarded as important and just a lifestyle. Birthmothers not given any glory is also understandable. In this 'perfect' society, they are taught about things at a young age and they believe it. Lois Lowry is not implying that giving birth is a job meant for the unintelligent, she's just saying that in this 'perfect' society, that is just how people think about it because of false facts. For the parents out there that believe that this book is teaching us children that it is ok to stick a needle in children who are unfit for society, THIS IS NOT THE CASE. Do you parents honestly think that after reading about releasing, we went to our next periods saying that all of the Special Ed. kids should just go die? Of course not. Please open your eyes and give this book the chance that it deserves. Don't be so foolish as to let your children miss out on this literary treasure. This novel is truely my favorite, and I'm sure that many more will come to love it. Keep on writing, Lois Lowry. <3

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Teen, 18 years old
May 25, 2011
 
this novel is amazing and if you disagree, you don't understand the book
first of all, if you have not read this book entirely, you shouldn't have an opinion about it. this book is simple and direct. the storyline is that you need to find out the truth and make your own decisions. freedom is prohibited in Jonas's society which is why he runs away at the end. HE RUNS AWAY. the book does NOT glorify the slightly communistic dystopian ways of the society. the whole point is to reject the mechanical and heartless world that is portrayed. yes, Jonas has somewhat sexual dreams, but that is natural for everyone and the society gives him pills to suppress the urges which adds to the inhuman methods that rule the community. and yes they kill a baby by lethal injection. this is the last straw for Jonas and the main reason he decides to leave the only place he has ever known, saving another baby named Gabriel in the process. you may think this is inappropriate for some, but children see murders, child abduction, rape and killings on the news and in newspapers everyday. at least The Giver can contrast our society with the fictional one created to let readers see the differences and appreciate that what they have been given is the same thing Jonas is fighting for.

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Teen, 15 years old
April 15, 2010
 
One of the most amazing books I have ever read.
I hate Science Fiction, I hate fantasy. And its weird how my two hatreds came together and gave me an amazing story to read. My 7th grade class was assigned to read the book, and while everyone was falling asleep with boredom, I absolutely fell in love with the book. Chapter by chapter. This book can be quite confusing at points and some of the time I had to even ask my teacher what was going on, but all in all this book was great. I don't suggest it to MOST preteens considering my entire class, plus the other 3 classes that read it thought it was boring. It's all pretty much based on your maturity level.This book gives us an idea of how perfect our world really is. I am thankful that I read this book, it open my eyes to a lot of things I have never thought of before. This is surely a book you'll never forget.

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Teen, 15 years old
May 27, 2010
 
great book!
reminded me of a twist in time. if you like exciting or adventure stories this is not the book for you. made me think of how lucky i am to live in a society where you can make decisions. the book didnt really end thats the only bad thing about it

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Teen, 18 years old
May 5, 2010
 
im not excited about it! ITS SUCH A DISGUSTING SOCIETy! its such a good book when hes wtith the giver but it s such a disturbing community and how they put such a burden on one person! THATS MAKES ME UPSET. BUT I RECOMMEND IT. PEOPLE SHOULD SEE WHAT A PERFECT WORLD WOULD BE LIKE. ITS NASTY NO UNIQUENISS!!!!!!!

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Teen, 13 years old
June 14, 2011
 
I love it
This is the best book I have ever read. Really, this book has a deeper meaning. Lois Lowry has crafted a beautiful novel, and given us something all to think more deeply. :) <3

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Teen, 15 years old
May 3, 2010
 
Sorta bad
The book was not very well written. It had a poor ending that did not make sense to me. The book is sorta interesting, but not really.

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Kid, 13 years old
December 31, 2010
 
Know your kid
I loved this book but younger kids may find the scene where jonas witnesses his dad kill an unwanted infant disturbing. The characters are victim to a world with no choice or freedom. Citizens are rejected(executed) for unfair reasons such as being a twin or getting too old. Book shows that a "perfect" world is not really perfect though it may appear to be at first

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Teen, 15 years old
May 29, 2010
 
the giver is an amazing book with surprises around every corner but some surprises are a bit disturbing for children.

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Kid, 13 years old
September 17, 2011
 
Good book
Great book. I read this when I was in sixth grade (i'm in seventh now) and i expected it to be boring, but it was great, with positive messages.

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Teen, 15 years old
June 25, 2010
 
This is the worst book I have ever read! This book makes no sense to me.

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Teen, 17 years old
April 4, 2011
 
CREEEEEEEEPPPY!
Ok so me and my five friends had to read this book for school. As we were reading we all found it creepy. I'll admit it was an awesome conversation peice I mean none of us could stop talking about it. But! none of us wanted to keep reading it. The stirrings and the weird world were just to odd and weird for us. I would not reccomend it.

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Teen, 14 years old
May 16, 2011
 
good for mature kids.
great book, along with its counterparts. however, if your child is not mature, read it first and decide what to do

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Teen, 16 years old
April 9, 2008
 
PLEASE IGNORE THE NEGATIVE COMMENTS
NO book on planet Earth can portray the great message of this one. There is nothing in appropriate unless you don't allow 1 small natural infatuation. Jonas(main) has a small dream where is female friend seems attractive to him but NOTHING ELSE! I swear! This book get 5 thumbs up!

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Teen, 16 years old
April 9, 2008
 
I just finished reading it today!
I laughed, I cried, and I looked at life in a different way when I read Lois Lowery's The Giver. Jonas doesn't seem like an ordenary pre-teen, and he lives his life much differently then I do. But when he meets The Giver, his whole life is flipped upsidedown. I think that this book is very good, and should be shown to the world. There is warfare, death, sexual content, and some content that younger people may not understand. But out of all the books I have read, I think that The Giver is one of my Top 3. Lowery has captured me once again and didn't let go until I read the last words. Huzzah fo The Giver!

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Kid, 12 years old
June 8, 2011
 
My thoughts, your thoughts, awkwardness and stuff.
My opinion on the book: Wonderful books for middle school classes. It starts some pretty intense and interesting conversations. My opinion on your opinions: I really disagree with a lot of you. It's a very well written book. For all of you saying "AH IT'S SUCH A MESSED UP BOOK LIKE THEY KILL THE BABY AND THAT MAKES KIDS WANT TO KILL BABIES!", try reading the book. Sure, communities ways are both violent and disturbing, and even sickening, but it teaches a very important lesson: No world can really be perfect. The stirrings chapter was a little, errrr.... awkward to talk about, but ya know, if the kids reading this have gone through or are going through puberty, it's less awkward than you think. "I wanted to BATHE her!" I still lol at that.

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Teen, 18 years old
April 9, 2008
 
I love this book!!!!!!!!!!
This is a breathtaking, beautiful, edge-of-your-seat, page turning book.this book is bout a boy living in a community with no choices. A group of people basically chose evryone's lives for them. It is a wonderful book for kids ages 12 - 15. I love all of Lowery's work. I have read almost all of her books and all of them are must reads.

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Teen, 17 years old
April 9, 2008
 
One of the most thought-provoking novels ever
I read this book as my 8th grade novel and it really made us rethink our society. The main character goes through many feelings that we felt while reading the book, just on the opposite side. The novel isnt exactly suitable for those under the age of 12 or 13, because i dont think they'd understand the deeper meaning of the novel. Im sure adults would enjoy the Giver as well.

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Teen, 16 years old
April 9, 2008
 
A new book to put on any middle school teachers reading list
I first read this book when I was seven or eight, I didn't get it. Don't get me wrong, I loved the book, I didn't get the meaning behind it. I got it assign again in seventh grade and it was one of those uhhhhh I've read this before. I couldn't put it down. The author's depiction of a dystopia through the eyes of a tween makes the message hit home for any reader 11-18. A smoothly run perfectly balanced government on the outside, murder and corruption on the inside. Definitely recommend to any teacher or kid looking for a book with a good message.

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