I came across this book as an adult and while the book is written for children, the message is a universal one: Selfless love. I couldn't help crying when I got to the end--Silverstein's gentle prose is poetic and inspiring. The book opens a forum for parents to talk to their children about responsible love, giving of self, Mother nature, etc. I plan on buying the book for my godchild when he turns 4; this way we'll be able to talk about the book's message.
Don't know what it is abt this book but it makes me want to cry. My 4 yo loves it but doesn't get the poinancy. If I've had a tough day, I ask him to pick a different book! Overall, good book but if you cry at Kodak commericals, you may want to read this by yourself a few times.
This book is one of my favorites. I like to give it to friends along with a box of Kleenex at Christmas time. To me... the book ignites and provokes many feelings. The tree is a friend and comfort to the boy, but as he grows he has no need for her as a playmate... Now he needs her to provide, but he doesn't just take... she gives, and gives... She loves the boy so much that she only wants to see him happy; the way he was as a child. The boy seems to share his love for the tree his entire life -even when he carves into the tree-. It was symbolic from every angle. As long as a parent can explain the book to a child I think it's perfect for all ages. I read it alone when I was in kindergarten. I always disliked the boy for what he did to the tree; I felt that he was killing her. Now that I am older I see that he always came back to her and they really did love each other. I agree with the initial review that the tree was a bit masochistic... okay... maybe over the top masochistic.
My book comes out Spring of 2012 it's called Dream of the Daffodil also perfect for all children.
If the kids are sensitive about nature or are emotional, this book might appear disturbing as the Tree is a character who speaks and has feelings gets slowly chopped down. The upside to this book is its lesson of selfless love, such as a loving parent's love for a child. A book to read with the kids from time to time as they grow up.