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All parent reviews for Graceling

Age
14
Average rating based on 17 parent reviews:
  • 53% say sexual content is an issue
  • 41% say violence is an issue
  • 35% say there are positive messages
  • 29% say there are positive role models
Parent
August 26, 2010
 
Many of the parent and teen reviewers said the sex was vague or downplayed. I do not agree. My preteen was upset by the first sex scene, stopped reading the book and brought it to me, so obviously there was enough detail. He also wanted to know if sex is painful for women, an idea he got from the story. Do we really need to be giving young people this much detail in a culture where we are reaping the whirlwind of unrestrained teen sex? I also resent it that this book gave my child a wrong view of sex. Why should an author have the license to take what should be the privilege and responsibility of the parents to share? This book was how I found the Common Sense website. From now on I will screen books more carefully.

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Adult
December 28, 2010
 
Forgive my (spoilerish) ranting, but this is NOT a good book.
The violence isn't an issue in my opinion. It's a part of the book, it has to be. The main character is 'graced' with killing, she is a killer for her king. What bothers me is the horrible sexual messages here. I am a seventeen year old and I myself almost stopped reading this book because of how stupid it was. The main character, Katsa, is obsessed with wanting control over herself. I suppose it's understandable, one like her, with amazing power and yet caught up in the stifling box that is her life. That, is understandable, even possibly the 'no marriage because I will lose control' thing, but the alternative is NOT to have sex anyways! I can't believe a teenage book even has that in there.. At least a little remorse, a little trouble for committing the ultimate act of sin in our modern society and certainly in one like that would have been nice. Not only is that annoying, but the boy is almost portrayed as weak, and has a line somewhere like 'I'll take you however I can'. Seriously??? Ugh, this book is despicable, even more so because the plot could have been good otherwise.

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Parent of 5, 7, 12, and 16 year old
July 16, 2010
 
Good for older kids, but not for tweens.
As a YA novel, this book is very well written and includes engaginf characters. The nature of the story involves a lot of violence, but it is not seen in a positive light. The sexual relationship between two of the characters was the only real drawback.

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Parent of 14 year old
December 17, 2010
 
Maybe ok for older, mature teens
I have to say that even though I enjoyed the story line and the overall idea of the novel, the obvious sexual overtones and the way the violence was described was gratuitous and more than I think a teen under the age of say 17 or so can handle well.

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Parent of 10 year old
March 9, 2011
 
Messages sent are way off.
Call me crazy but I don't think it is ok for kids to read about sex at age 13. I also really don't like how the main character makes the decision to have sex without commitment. Is that what I hope my children learn?

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Educator and Parent of 5 and 8 year old
March 29, 2010
 
OK for tweens with a few precautions
Very, very good book. Parents need to know that the main characters are sexually engaged, but it is not described in detail. I don't think it is too explicit for the audience it is intended for (young adult). Also, it is very violent, but not gory. Middle school students will like this book if they are sophisticated both socially and academically.

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Parent of 14 and 15 year old
February 28, 2011
 
Great for growing preteens and teens
Graceling is a great book, my two daughters have read it and say it is very good. There are some intimate sex scenes, so it may be good for teens. (not lower than age 10!)

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Parent of 5, 7, 10, and 11 year old
October 27, 2009
 
Better for mature teens
On the one hand the heroine disparages marriage as some sort of oppressive ownership of women. A message I didn't like. On the other there is a message of finding your place in a world where you don't always fit in. Accepting who you are and coming to terms with your giftings and limitations. There was some graphic violence but not excessive, the sex however wasn't graphic.

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Parent of 14 year old
October 11, 2009
 
a mature 11yrs and up
The fact the main characters have a sexual relationship is downplayed and it is clear in context they are of marriageable age in their cultures I really liked that the hero does not simply let this relationship define her or become her reason to exist ..the happy ever after is about her growing up and trying to do some good by following her own path I think it shows a healthy relationship. My daughter read it so quickly she skipped over the fact the couple were intimate and when we talked about it she decided to re-read it so see if I was not trying to trick her I think that speaks to how subtle the sex is compared to how exciting the action is

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Educator
August 26, 2011
 
Awesome!
I loved this book! It is one of the best YA novels I have read in a while, and I read a lot of YA fiction. Katsa is a very likable forward thinking heroine. The whole idea of gracelings and the world Cashore has created is interesting and different.

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Adult
November 29, 2009
 
did not love it
i love the i dea of po and katsa and preferred her to be with po but didnt like the ending at all the endin ruined the effect the climax had on me. I anticipated the ending to have a twist to it but still be happy , instead it kind of fizzled out. i felt sorry for po and i simply hated what happened to him and the fact that she didnt marry him. i also didnt like that the ending was so plain and i was dissappointed in the author to.. although i did love many parts of the book especially fantasizing about po!

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Adult
December 4, 2008
 
OH WOW!
This book was absolutely wonderful; I couldn't put it down. There is one part where two characters have sex, but it's not described AT ALL. It's more just implied. I don't remember exactly, but there were no more than five swear words. I highly recommend this book! And if you get the chance, watch the video for it on Amazon. WaY COOL!

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Parent
October 5, 2011
 
COMPLETELY INAPPROPRIATE
This book would've been good, had it not been for several key parts. One of them is the fact that it encourages the idea of marriage and childbearing as oppressive and undesirable. Yet other than make the moral and responsible choice to obstain from sex, this author tells kids they don't need to make commitments or have any moral obligations, just do whatever you want whenever it's convenient for you. Is this really a healthy or realistic message we want our children to hear? Our children need to know the truth that bad choices lead to bad consequences, no exceptions. Also the bad guy, King Leck is a sicko and a pervert who cuts and tortures animals and children for pleasure and ultimately murders his wife who tries to protect their 10 year old daughter, who he wants to molest and he goes to great efforts to persue his young daughter. That is more than a little disturbing. Had I known this book contained this I would never have let my 11 year old daughter read it and I am completely appauled that she got it from her school library. If moral values are important to you at all, you will not choose to let your child read this book. I am very sorry that mind did and i'm extremely disappointed in this author and will avoid her in the future.

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Parent of 15 year old
March 13, 2010
 
ITS ONE OF THE EBST BOOKS FOR VHILDREN I'VE EVER READ IT VERY GOOD. WITH MESSAGE AND ALL

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Parent of 13, 15, and 17 year old
February 23, 2010
 
Wonderful adventure and fantasy, great writer
Warning SPOILERS ahead.....I loved this book. There is violence, but also a lot of discussion about how to avoid using violence. The main character is used against her will by her King as a means to subdue his subjects, but she does not want to use her 'grace' this way and plots to thwart his plans and escape from his control. The sections that mention sex are very vague. Mostly the main character tries to protect people with her skills. I think this book would be fine for most twelve year olds

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Adult
March 22, 2012
 
Graceling
I thought this book was well rounded, the people who downplay this book for certain attributes need to calm down and just not read. I loved this book, the action was perfectly balanced in my perspective and the sexual scenes were limited and very short. If you downplay this book for those reasons just don't read it, you don't deserve to.

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Adult
April 19, 2010
 
tweens are omgish
love it

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