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Perfect (by Natasha Friend)

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Poignant read perfect for mom-teen girl book club.


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What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this book is a powerful read -- the depiction of troubled 13-year-old Isabelle Lee will touch a nerve with adolescent girls. Isabelle's bulimia is caused by her mourning for her father. Besides graphic descriptions of bingeing and purging and some experimentation with laxatives, there are painful scenes of Isabelle's observations of her mother and sister, each also desperately mourning in silence.

Positive messages: The dangers of bulimia are clearly drawn, but more than the physical horror of the illness, the book explores the emotional trauma caused too.
Positive role models: Both strong and weak adult role models. Mother figure needs support and
is unable to recognize danger signs in teen daughter. An aunt and
therapist are able to help the main character and other family members.
Violence: Graphic descriptions of throwing up after bingeing. Experience with Ex-Lax.
Sex: The main characters talk about body image, specifically about the size of their thighs and their ability to fit a bra.
Language: Not applicable.
Consumerism: Not applicable.
Drinking, drugs, & smoking: Mention of parents drinking gin-and-tonics.

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What to talk about

Talk to your kids
  • Families can talk about the effects of bulimia and laxatives on the body.
  • How does it damage your teeth and digestive system?
  • What are other harmful long-term effects?
  • Parents can also talk about Isabelle's distorted image of her body. How do you think mourning for her father contributed to Isabelle's eating disorder? How did the rest of the family mourn?
  • What kind of support does this family need to move forward? What should you do if you or someone you know shows signs of an eating disorder?

What's the story?

What's the story?
Ape-Face, otherwise known as April, or Isabelle Lee's 10-year-old sister, catches Isabelle in the midst of making herself throw up. She tells her mother, who then enrolls Isabelle in group therapy for eating disorders. Isabelle's thoughts are always on the death of her father and her frustrations with her mother's insistence on keeping these painful thoughts on the inside. In therapy, Isabelle is surprised to be joined by Ashley, the most popular girl at school -- of course everyone thinks she has it all. They bond over their bingeing/purging and start socializing together outside of group therapy. Ashley invites Isabelle to sit with her at the "popular" table at lunch.

Though silent in group therapy, Isabelle takes to journal writing and begins meeting with Trish, the counselor, individually. Trish helps Isabelle open up and talk about her sadness and the problems at home. From there she looks for ways to connect to her sister and help her mother.

Is it any good?

Is it any good?
 

In PERFECT, Natasha Friend has created a character who will make readers cry and cheer as she struggles and then slowly faces her problems. These problems reflect her mother's inability to accept the father's death, her sister's desperate need to talk about him, a new relationship with the most popular girl at school, and most of all, her own sadness she's repressing in damaging ways. Readers may not have the same problems as Isabelle, but watching her ability to face them and move on will be inspiring.

With its realistic dialogue, difficult moments of self-discovery, and harsh critique of relationships, Perfect is a very quick yet unforgettable read. The graphic nature of this book may make it hard for some young teens to read alone. However, it's an excellent choice for a mother-teen daughter book club.

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Book Details
Author: Natasha Friend
Publisher: Milkweed Editions
Publication date: October 10, 2004
Number of pages: 172
Hardcover price: $16.95
Paperback price: $6.95
Read Aloud: 12
Read Alone: 12

This review was written by Pam Gelman
 
 

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TasteTheFailur ...
teen, 16 years old
 
Loved it(:
I liked it. It was very informative of what hundreds of kids go through.

super mello
teen, 17 years old
 
a great reed for all teens
"Perfect" gave a really believable depiction of a girl suffering from bulemia. i found it extremely readable. it made me empathize with isabelle in her recovery.

Prissy_g
teen, 15 years old
 
OK, I guess...... : I
This book was OK. It just informed you on how to be Bulimic and what to drink so you can Puke better, it gets you thinking about doing that, It was kinda a waist of time.

 
A step to a new life!
This is a very good book because i did the same thing before i read this book and it made me want to change

hotterthanyou
teen, 15 years old
 
Realistic book for young women
I love this book!!! it shows a girl with an eating disorder in a realistic point of view with actuall problems. Most teen girls do have body image problems, and this shows a troubled girl getting the help she needs.I read this when i was 11 and it showed me that you need to be comftorable with yourself. All teen girls should read this book, it does not glorify eating disordes, it shows the ugly side of them, which girls should know.

Diane4
teen, 15 years old
 
my review
i loved this book! it was recomendet to me by my la/ss teacher. he liked it and saw my style and thought tht i would like it. well i guess he was rite. this book ig better for girls in junior high or middle school all the way throught high school.

maddy940
teen, 17 years old
 
AWESOME!
I think this book is okay for girls any age above 11. i know eleven seems young, but they should know. as far as the book goes, it was absolutely great! the author really brought out the characters point of veiws and it was just,"perfect!" i definitely recommend this novel! but, probably not for boys!

Madatronl123
teen, 15 years old
 
Great message
this book really helped me through some tough times, friend portrays the mind of a tween girl perfectly I could really relate to this book, I recommend this to all teen girls, from 11 to any age really

sn0wlover
teen, 15 years old
 
i loved it
I think it is a must read for mature kids 11 and older. Although, it has a few gross scenes, it is very touching. It is about a girl struggling to overcome bulimia.

unperfectgirl
teen, 16 years old
 
great for older preteens and teen s even moms would like it
i love it i'm not the thinest or prettist but i find isabelle inspiring to keep your head high even through tough times

kookykat
teen, 14 years old
 
A Review with Advice
Role models aren't so great in this book. Forcing yourself to throw up is not a good way to deal with depression. It is never explained if Isabelle deals with her bulimia or not. It may send messages to young girls that have bulimia that you should just ignore it. Although it was not that positive. Perfect was educational about what some girls go through. If you have a problem like Isabelle's don't put yourself what she went through.

leyley10
teen, 14 years old
 
i think ive read this book 7-10 times

 
Hot Book
This book is the best that i have read in my 11 years of living!!!!!!!!!! I am serious

morg711
teen, 16 years old
 
Perfect.
Overall the book is really good. It makes you aware of what's out there.I enjoyed it. I think if your child is mature and can handle it....everything should be just fine.

irish_chic3197
teen, 15 years old
 
Perfect by Natasha Friend
I personally loved this book, and next I'm going to read Lush. This book shows the dangers of bulimia, and shows how the main character grows and conquers it. It is a book for growth, strength, and learning to have self confidence.

flower1
teen, 15 years old
 
Perfect for teens
I loved this book. It is interesting, it gives a good message, and i found myself wanting to read more and more. I recommend this book for teen girls.

trustybook
teen, 14 years old
 
trustybook
this book is perfet

peacefreak84
teen, 15 years old
 
This Stuff s for Real
PERFECT by NATASHA FRIEND made me realize that some kids are actually like this. Young girls have lost their parents and are insecure about their bady image. It is intersting to read along with Isabelle about her struggles with her dad, mom, little sister, and group. Also cheerful when you read about when she does things that she normally wouldn't do. or make progress in her disorder.

bookwormwriter
teen, 15 years old
 
Really thought provoking
I really liked this book, and it taught me a lot about bulimic girls. It would be a confusing book, if I were younger than about 11, but I really liked it when I read it. I recommend it, but I also recommend that parents discuss the book with the reader. Happy reading! :)

mariarocx
teen, 13 years old
 
Perfect
I think that this is a great book for teens or 13 year old's because it is what they would understand. When they read this story they would understand the issues and the problems that this young lady is going through! I am saying this because i am thirteen and i clearly get the state of what happened to this thirteen yearold and how it affected her life very much.

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