Return to Sender

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Intense story about illegal immigration and friendship.
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What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this story explores illegal immigration in a sympathetic way, and that readers come to know the hearts and minds of both the Vermont family and the Mexican family. Parents also need to know that the issues and moral dilemmas facing the two main characters (Tyler and Mari) are heavy -- they both worry constantly and are wrought with fear and anxiety. As a result, the story is serious and heavy. Parents also need to know that Mari's mother went missing and was sold into slavery, though eventually rescued by Mari. Also, immigration laws are not fully described and enforcers are presented negatively.

  • Explores the issue of illegal immigration from both the farmer and worker perspectives. Immigration laws are not fully described, there's a lot of worry about getting caught, and enforcers are presented negatively.
  • A central worry for both main characters is breaking the law and
    getting caught. The grandmother tells a "white lie" and Tyler fibs to
    his mom. These "white lies" are presented as purposeful. Also, hiring
    the illegal immigrants is explained by parents as "not wrong in God's
    eyes" and "sometimes a country has laws that have nothing to do with
    what's right or what's best for most of the people involved."
  • A character dies suddenly of a heart attack and another is involved in a tractor accident in which he gets pinned under it and injured. Both events happen before the start of the story.
  • One sexual reference: "he finally got laid."
  • Mild: "Ohmigod," "hell," "damn."
  • Oprah is mentioned, as is McDonald's and Coca-Cola. The youngest sister watches Dora on TV, and the family shops at Walmart.
  • A mention of fraternity boys with a 12-pack. Also, on Mother's Day, the family buys beer and a bottle of champagne, which makes the grandmother's cheeks turn pink.

What's the story?

Eleven-year old Tyler worries about losing his Vermont farm after the sudden death of his grandfather and a tractor accident leaves his father unable to work. Tyler is desperate to save his farm from being sold. But after his father hires a family of illegal Mexican workers, Tyler wonders if saving the farm is worth breaking the law. Soon Tyler meets Mari, the eldest daughter in the Mexican family. While initially wary of each other, Tyler and Mari soon form a unique friendship that opens their eyes to the lives of the other. Both kids worry about their families and their future, and come to realize that they are forever connected through their shared struggles.


Is it any good?

 

RETURN TO SENDER is a compassionate narrative that puts a human heart to the hot-button topic of illegal immigration. The story portrays the desire for a better life and how hard work is the means to achieve it. The author captures the intense emotions of both farmer and worker, and tells the story through the questioning innocence of children. However, the main characters -- both 11 years old -- are strapped with enormous emotional burdens and life's adult responsibilities, and the story is laden with their fear and worry.

Parents and educators will find this an important and significant read, but the question remains if kids will actually enjoy reading it.


Explore, discuss, enjoy

  • Families can talk about their own perspectives of illegal immigration. How do you feel about illegal workers being hired to aid farming communities?

  • Did Mari's story help create understanding and sympathy for illegal
    workers?

  • Did you relate to Tyler's worries?

  • Do you think it's possible
    to be a patriot and also support illegal immigration?

  • Families can also
    talk about the role of immigrants in U.S. history. Do you know any
    relatives that came from other countries? How did they get to the U.S.?
    What was their story?


This review of Return to Sender was written by
Educator
March 25, 2013
 
Great book club choice!
I used this book with gifted readers in grades 3 & 4 and it was a huge hit. The kids found the plot gripping and the storyline opened their eyes to a world they were unfamiliar with. This book was also exceptional in that it supported higher level thinking skills, as well as encouraging compassion and empathy. The moral dilemmas raised in the story were far from simple and really got kids to think deeply about whether laws are always right, what one should do when one feels laws are wrong (they connected this to what they had learned about the 1960s civil rights movement and struggles to end segregation), etc. The audio version of this book is also very well done.
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Educator and Parent
October 11, 2012
 
Friends Beyond Borders
Return To Sender by Julia Alavarez is a touching children’s novel that won the Pura Belpre Award. It is about a young boy, Tyler, who comes back from his aunt and uncle’s house and discovers that his parents have hired some “undocumented” workers to help with work on their farm because Tyler’s dad was recently a victim in a farming accident, and his older brother was off to college. One of the workers has three children, one of which was born in Mexico, and happens to be Tyler’s age. Mari, who is also the oldest as well, tried to befriend Tyler. He deals with an internal battle of whether or not to be her friend because he is unsure if his family is breaking the law. They eventually become friends, spending time together star gazing and visiting with Tyler’s recently widowed grandmother who is still in mourning over the loss of her husband. The book is very age appropriate that helps children discover themes like family, honesty, friendship, hope, and change. For the most part, Julia Alvarez, portrays her themes explicitly. It is easy to tell what the points and principles she is trying to get across. To understand these themes, we look into questions like, “What is this work really about...Why did the author write this work? “(Temple,Martinez, & Yokota, 2011, p. 41). Rebecca Lukens says themes are a “source of insight into people and how they think and feel” (Temple et al.,2011, p.42). Alvarez does a great job of explaining her themes through her character development. Good character development is a very good strong point of this story. Tyler is characterized by his relations with others. “Often book characters are portrayed as being out of harmony with their own group” (Temple et al.,2011, p.35). Tyler feels awkward and unsure about his family hiring this family. He is uneasy about his family, his relationship with this girl Mari, and what he should do about these feelings. Mari is developed through a sense of herself and her own feelings. She has a lot of internal conflict also between herself and thoughts about her relationship with her sisters, dad, Tyler, and the other people at the school. Julia Alvarez does such a great job portraying these characters by the style she uses. “Style is not what is said, but how it is said” (Temple et al., 2011, p.47). She uses letters from Mari (to her missing mother) and third person narration through Tyler’s viewpoint. This way the reader can examine two points of view, thus giving both characters a strong sense of personality.Also, this gave her a “broad range of choices on what to show the reader” (Temple et al., 2011, p.46). Because of this, students can use their literature in many different ways when relating to the character(s) and also when using it to cope with their own emotions on the issue(s) at hand. Overall, I think Julia Alvarez did a good job writing the book to address children’s thoughts on the topic of immigration. She did her best trying not to make it one sided or political. I'm sure many children have benefited from this story. Temple, C., Martinez, M., & Yokoto, J.. (2011). Children’s Books In Children’s Hands. Boston, MA: Pearson.
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Author:Julia Alvarez
Book type:Fiction
Genre:Contemporary Fiction
Publisher:Alfred A. Knopf
Publication date:January 13, 2009
Number of pages:336
Read aloud:9 - 9
Read alone:10 - 10

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