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Thirteen Reasons Why (by Jay Asher)

common sense media says

Disturbing suicide novel examines bullying, indifference.


parents & educators say
  • 35% say there are positive messages
  • 30% say it's educational

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this bestselling novel is about a teen girl's reasons for committing suicide, which she articulates in audio tapes she sends to 13 people, mailing them on the day of her death. The book includes discussion of rape, voyeurism, underage drinking, sexism, revenge, and survivor's guilt -- and at least one of Common Sense Media's parent reviewers worries that Hannah's revenge tapes were a "romantic takes on the outcome of suicide." There are messages here about the importance of treating people with kindness -- and of the price of inaction -- that parents and teachers may want to help teen readers think and talk about.

 

 

Educational value: Inspired parents and teachers could use this book to talk about teen suicide -- and also the destructive nature of bullying, gossip, and indifference. See our "Families Can Talk About" section of this review for some discussion starters.
Positive messages: Hannah's message is to "be careful how you treat people, you never know
how it will affect them." Readers will also realize that inaction --
whether to stop a crime or a rumor or talk to a troubled student,
friend, or child -- can be just as damaging as deliberately inflicting
pain.
Positive role models: Readers will feel sorry for Clay, who had a crush on Hannah and is horrified to be one of the 13 reasons she killed herself. Through tragedy, he learns to reach out to others.
Violence: A girl is raped, a girl describes how she gave in to a rapist's sexual advances, a teen is killed in a car crash, a girl commits suicide, there's a fight among a couple of teens, some property is vandalized.
Sex: There is sexual innuendo, kissing, and inappropriate touching -- a boy grabs a girl's butt.
Language: Some swear words typical of teen banter among themselves.
Consumerism: Types of cars and food products mentioned.
Drinking, drugs, & smoking: Lots of underage drinking.

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What to talk about

Talk to your kids
  • Families can talk about the topic of suicide. Do books and movies that tackle tough topics like this one glamorize suicide and other dangerous behaviors, or do they provide an important outlet -- and opportunities for discussion?
  • Hannah warns her listeners to "be careful how you treat people, you never know how it will affect them." Is this something that teens need to be reminded of? Do you see a lot of bullying and indifference at your own high school?

What's the story?

What's the story?
When Clay Jensen receives audio tapes in the mail, he's horrified to hear his dead crush's voice coming out of the stereo. Hannah lists 13 reasons why she killed herself and the 13 people responsible for it. Clay is wracked with guilt as he waits to hear how he could have been involved in her tragic decision.

Is it any good?

Is it any good?
 

First-time author Jay Asher's story presents the dark side of teen life: drinking, sex, rumor mills, suicides, cries for help, inept or absent adults, and the mean spirit that surrounds the general high school student body. Here everyone's a victim, an enabler, or a perpetrator, and some of the characters are all three, including Hannah Baker. Her tapes and reasoning are, at times, just as selfish and mean as those she accuses. And while we see some of the 13 not showing much remorse, the majority are already burdened with "should haves" when Hannah's tapes arrive.

Teens will identify with the sometimes-oppressive culture of high school. For any teens who've had dark thoughts of their own, the aftermath of Hannah's decision and the conclusions Clay reaches will hopefully make them think again. But this book has messages that will reach all teens: Hannah warns that we must "be careful how you treat people, you never know how it will affect them." Readers will also realize that inaction -- whether to stop a crime or a rumor or talk to a troubled student, friend, or child -- can be just as damaging as deliberately inflicting pain.

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Book Details
Author: Jay Asher
Publisher: Razorbill
Publication date: October 8, 2007
Number of pages: 309
Paperback price: $16.99

This review was written by Terreece Clarke
 
 

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What parents & educators say

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Based on 23 parent & educator reviews:
  • 35% say there are positive messages
  • 30% say it's educational
  • 26% say sexual content is an issue

Most useful reviews by all members

xx1214babyyxx
teen, 18 years old
 
I disagree when it said the messages in this book aren't good. Sure, its about teen suicide, and that is a very bad thing, but that isn't what the book is about entirely. In my opinion, the book is about how every little action that you do can affect someones life without you even realizing it. I think it can teach us all that no matter how good someones life looks on the outside, it can be crumbeling on the inside, so just treat each other with kindness and respect. It really helped me out alot.

crushcrush149
teen, 16 years old
 
Perfect in every way
I absolutely loved this book. It's my favorite book of all time. This book is gorgeously written, haunting and just all over great. It deals with topics such as rape, murder, drugs, alcohol, depression and, of course, suicide. Though I know some parents will be a bit protective with letting their kids read this because of the topics but the book is amazing and letting your kid read this will only broaden their horizon and teach them about valuable life lessons. Man that sounded cheesy.

Ruby29290
teen, 14 years old
 
should learn earlier then being too later
I read it when i was 12, and i think it was kinda cool. And it kinda help me act the way i shouldn't be acting. For parents who think its not appropriate for 13 below. Isn't it better to know things earlier? i mean some kids go through it earlier then 13. so its just a thing to think about, people will have to learn/know later on they should be prepared....

Peroxide Princess
teen, 14 years old
 
A fantastic book.
I love this book. It's tearjerking and heartfelt, and I couldn't stop reading. I think all teens today should read it, but only if they're mature enough to handle the concept. Suicide is a scary subject, but one that should be talked about.

Jess02
adult
 
Excellent Book
I don't see what's terrible about this book. It talks about sucicide, and how she was depressed. Like thousands of teens are today.This book could be very educational, and could teach teens how to choose their actions wisely.

cookie2001
parent of 13 and 15 year old
 
The only redeeming character is a boy that befriended the main character. Ironically the suicide girl wants to make him feel badly after she committed suicide. At the end of the book it depicts this boy as feeling responsible and feeling that he should try to help other lonely kids. So if this book conveys the msg don't say anything that is mean, fine, but the msg should also include if you feel someone might commit suicide seek help from an adult. Responsible adults were absent from this book. It is a depressing book and unfortunately does not present information on how to deal with a suicidal person.

Selbe
teen, 15 years old
 
Older Teens Must Read
When Hannah Baker commits suicide, Clay Jensen loses his crush. Things get strange when he finds a package full of audiocassette tapes on his door step. With these, he is guided around town by the voice of the deceased Hannah Baker. Clay Jensen learns the thirteen reasons why she killed herself. This book is definitely a darker one, but it teaches many things to children. Some may say it's a bit harsh, but it's very important. It teaches children not to judge, or at least tells them judging is wrong. It also shows the negative affects of bullying rather than showing humor in negative remarks, violence, and other actions. In the end, the main character is enlightened and helps a student that may spiral into the same problems Hannah had. All of the concerns listed are shown as bad in the book. It's educational and teaches good morals. I read it and I'm 12, but I'd say it's for 13 year olds. Parents should read this and decide based on the material in it and how mature their child is. This is not a novel for children under the age of 10, that's for sure.

b-balldude04
teen, 17 years old
 
so good i read it in a day
This book was really good. There are some things in this book that I would not reccomend for younger teens. But otherwise it was good. It kept you thinking and you were drawn in by the tapes.

ConnectedMom2010
parent of 15 and 18 year old
 
Every high school student should read this now
Every kid 14 and older should read this book. I think this book applies not only to teenage suicide, but to many other issues facing our children today. Everyone (including adults) can find themselves in this book, whether you are the troubled, the trouble causing, or trouble- enabling. This book will definitely stay with you for a long time after you finish reading - hopefully, it can help you to become a more compassionate and understanding person. I know it has changed the way I look at people and what they may be experiencing. A must-read.

bookkeeper
teen, 17 years old
 
A Harrowing Read that Doesn't Stand Up to Close Examination
Thirteen Reasons Why is wracked with emotion, and can be hard to read the first time, purely because it has the power to devastate the reader. But do not be taken in by this- though the message is good, characters developed, and plot well-timed and executed, I find that I like it less and less each time I read it. After reading, you are supposed to feel sympathy for and be understanding to people with suicidal thoughts. I know people who have attempted suicide, and I feel for them and understand their struggles, but I just could not stand Hannah. Humans need love and attention, so I understand why Hannah put herself in the position to be hurt again and again, but she went looking in all the wrong places. It's an accurate portrayal- often teens don't go to parents or counselors for help - but infuriating (perhaps this is Asher's intention). Hannah's suicide wasn't drawn to be inevitable, which made it all the more tragic tragic, but it was romanticized. Hannah seemed almost a hero for sticking through these trials leading up to her suicide, and Clay loves her through it all. Suicide in and of itself doesn't seem a crazy or dark option- merely one that cannot be taken back. There is a more graphic scene near the end, when Hannah allows a boy she doesn't like to fondle her. Teens drink and party often.

sardine0212
teen, 14 years old
 
Read this for sure!
I absolutely loved the book. I could not put it down in finished it in a mere two days! Although the book has some descriptive parts, it sure is a keeper. I liked the way the author used tape recorders and had the kids in the book know it was an old thing because the book would always seem newer. If they used texting, a new communication invention could have been invented the very next day without the characters even knowing it. Suicide is a hard topic to talk about and i think Jay Asher hit it just right. Lots of kids could probably relate to scenarios in the book. I would highly recommend it.

MarsBars
parent of 6 year old
 
Teaches a valuable lesson
This was a great book. I wouldn't recommend it for an elementary school aged child, but middle and high school students should definitely read this book. It sends a message to kids on how you should treat people well, and though you may not realize it, every negative thing you do has a negative effect. It can be used to teach tweens and teens to be decent people, not to mention how they should reach out to someone they think might be in trouble.

Jeannie17
teen, 15 years old
 
my opinion,
i think it can be very confusing, and possibly too deep for younger people, I'm 15 and i could barely fight back the tears at times...

broadwayukulele
teen, 16 years old
 
READ IT
I think this book is one all teenagers should read to deal with angst and suicide awareness but it involves some very adult subjects that a teen has to handle maturely.

leelee96
teen, 15 years old
 
Amazing! :)

 
It's truly informative, It's truly true. It's the truth that you need to know about you.
I thought this book was very well written, and being that I'm 18 I dind't find to much wrong with it. Althought it is not something I would recommend for younger ages. I lent this book to some of my friend's when I was done with it and it was interesting to see the mixed reviews, some of them understood why I loved it so much while others couldn't understand what just happened, they had been hoping for a perfectly happy ending in which Hannah had saved herself - which of course if that had happened we wouldn't have a book. I myself was hoping maybe she went back to her home town and just didn't tell anyone. But the book is very informative it covers a subject most authors tend to shy away from and doesn't just mention it. The book is full of teen problems - I mean not every teen may have a peeping tom, or a party every weekend - but a lot of us go through points in our life where we're harrassed by someone, or are feeling down and just need to be told that we're special to somone. I really enjoyed it and although it may have certain thins that are off putting to you, I think the book is a must read for all teenagers. There's never a reason to kill yourself, and everyone who feels that way needs to look for some help, whether it's a friend, or a help line, just because someone says something about you, or people talk about you behind your back, doesn't mean any of it's true.

I izz awsom
teen, 14 years old
 
LOVE IT!
Love the book. It left me scarred with the fact that someone could face so much in just about 17 years of her life It made me cry. But like Ruby29290 said it's better to know earlier then later on in life so you could be prepared. This is one of my fav books though!

Sky Could Be Blue
teen, 16 years old
 
Horrible Read
This book is horrible. The main character is extremely weak and if you CAN list 13 reasons to off yourself...you're living a pretty good life. The story just gets ridiculous and it's full of drama. Not realistic, rather disturbing, and just idiotic. I've gone through very similar things in my life and I wasn't as idiotic as the main character.

ashleygirl68
teen, 14 years old
 
(:
this book is a great book. im 13 and despite the cussing and bad role models its a great book. and im not using the excuse of "everyone does it" but it is true 1 out of 5 kids in each school ends up killing his or her self. and i think everyone should stop judging people who have thought about it, and actrallly help those who feel the need to.

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