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All teen and kid reviews for Thirteen Reasons Why

Age
13
Average rating based on 59 kid and teen reviews:
  • 51% say sexual content is an issue
  • 51% say it's educational
  • 47% say there are positive messages
  • 32% say there's too much drinking, drugs, or smoking
Teen, 18 years old
September 6, 2009
 
I disagree when it said the messages in this book aren't good. Sure, its about teen suicide, and that is a very bad thing, but that isn't what the book is about entirely. In my opinion, the book is about how every little action that you do can affect someones life without you even realizing it. I think it can teach us all that no matter how good someones life looks on the outside, it can be crumbeling on the inside, so just treat each other with kindness and respect. It really helped me out alot.

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Teen, 16 years old
March 8, 2010
 
Perfect in every way
I absolutely loved this book. It's my favorite book of all time. This book is gorgeously written, haunting and just all over great. It deals with topics such as rape, murder, drugs, alcohol, depression and, of course, suicide. Though I know some parents will be a bit protective with letting their kids read this because of the topics but the book is amazing and letting your kid read this will only broaden their horizon and teach them about valuable life lessons. Man that sounded cheesy.

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Teen, 14 years old
February 11, 2011
 
should learn earlier then being too later
I read it when i was 12, and i think it was kinda cool. And it kinda help me act the way i shouldn't be acting. For parents who think its not appropriate for 13 below. Isn't it better to know things earlier? i mean some kids go through it earlier then 13. so its just a thing to think about, people will have to learn/know later on they should be prepared....

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Teen, 15 years old
August 6, 2010
 
A fantastic book.
I love this book. It's tearjerking and heartfelt, and I couldn't stop reading. I think all teens today should read it, but only if they're mature enough to handle the concept. Suicide is a scary subject, but one that should be talked about.

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Teen, 15 years old
September 21, 2009
 
Older Teens Must Read
When Hannah Baker commits suicide, Clay Jensen loses his crush. Things get strange when he finds a package full of audiocassette tapes on his door step. With these, he is guided around town by the voice of the deceased Hannah Baker. Clay Jensen learns the thirteen reasons why she killed herself. This book is definitely a darker one, but it teaches many things to children. Some may say it's a bit harsh, but it's very important. It teaches children not to judge, or at least tells them judging is wrong. It also shows the negative affects of bullying rather than showing humor in negative remarks, violence, and other actions. In the end, the main character is enlightened and helps a student that may spiral into the same problems Hannah had. All of the concerns listed are shown as bad in the book. It's educational and teaches good morals. I read it and I'm 12, but I'd say it's for 13 year olds. Parents should read this and decide based on the material in it and how mature their child is. This is not a novel for children under the age of 10, that's for sure.

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Teen, 18 years old
April 9, 2008
 
so good i read it in a day
This book was really good. There are some things in this book that I would not reccomend for younger teens. But otherwise it was good. It kept you thinking and you were drawn in by the tapes.

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Teen, 15 years old
October 17, 2011
 
my opinion,
i think it can be very confusing, and possibly too deep for younger people, I'm 15 and i could barely fight back the tears at times...

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Teen, 17 years old
July 12, 2011
 
A Harrowing Read that Doesn't Stand Up to Close Examination
Thirteen Reasons Why is wracked with emotion, and can be hard to read the first time, purely because it has the power to devastate the reader. But do not be taken in by this- though the message is good, characters developed, and plot well-timed and executed, I find that I like it less and less each time I read it. After reading, you are supposed to feel sympathy for and be understanding to people with suicidal thoughts. I know people who have attempted suicide, and I feel for them and understand their struggles, but I just could not stand Hannah. Humans need love and attention, so I understand why Hannah put herself in the position to be hurt again and again, but she went looking in all the wrong places. It's an accurate portrayal- often teens don't go to parents or counselors for help - but infuriating (perhaps this is Asher's intention). Hannah's suicide wasn't drawn to be inevitable, which made it all the more tragic tragic, but it was romanticized. Hannah seemed almost a hero for sticking through these trials leading up to her suicide, and Clay loves her through it all. Suicide in and of itself doesn't seem a crazy or dark option- merely one that cannot be taken back. There is a more graphic scene near the end, when Hannah allows a boy she doesn't like to fondle her. Teens drink and party often.

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Teen, 15 years old
December 9, 2010
 
Read this for sure!
I absolutely loved the book. I could not put it down in finished it in a mere two days! Although the book has some descriptive parts, it sure is a keeper. I liked the way the author used tape recorders and had the kids in the book know it was an old thing because the book would always seem newer. If they used texting, a new communication invention could have been invented the very next day without the characters even knowing it. Suicide is a hard topic to talk about and i think Jay Asher hit it just right. Lots of kids could probably relate to scenarios in the book. I would highly recommend it.

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Teen, 16 years old
September 25, 2011
 
READ IT
I think this book is one all teenagers should read to deal with angst and suicide awareness but it involves some very adult subjects that a teen has to handle maturely.

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Teen, 15 years old
September 21, 2011
 
Amazing! :)

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Teen, 14 years old
February 16, 2011
 
LOVE IT!
Love the book. It left me scarred with the fact that someone could face so much in just about 17 years of her life It made me cry. But like Ruby29290 said it's better to know earlier then later on in life so you could be prepared. This is one of my fav books though!

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Teen, 17 years old
December 5, 2010
 
Horrible Read
This book is horrible. The main character is extremely weak and if you CAN list 13 reasons to off yourself...you're living a pretty good life. The story just gets ridiculous and it's full of drama. Not realistic, rather disturbing, and just idiotic. I've gone through very similar things in my life and I wasn't as idiotic as the main character.

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Teen, 15 years old
December 14, 2010
 
(:
this book is a great book. im 13 and despite the cussing and bad role models its a great book. and im not using the excuse of "everyone does it" but it is true 1 out of 5 kids in each school ends up killing his or her self. and i think everyone should stop judging people who have thought about it, and actrallly help those who feel the need to.

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Teen, 14 years old
April 29, 2011
 
For mature teens
The book is a page turner and is quite dramatic story about a girl who commited sucide. Hannah the main cahracter decides before she dies she will make a set of cassette tapes, that tell one reason she killed herself, and she mails these tapes to each person on the list of who is on the tapes.

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Teen, 15 years old
March 6, 2011
 
Thirteen Reasons Why <3 amazing book(:
I bought this book a while ago and read it in just two days. One of the nights I stayed up til 1 in the morning reading it. Very hard book to put down. Now, I was 13 when I read this [14 now, just turned 14 couple months ago]. All the things in it like swearing or sexual stuff and all that, isnt quite that bad. I mean, some parents might be concerned about it, but its pretty basic stuff. some more detailed than others though. Thirteen Reasons Why really gets you thinking. Plus, Jay Ahser makes it an easy read. [italics for Hannah's narrating and regular for Clay's]. In fact, I might just read the book again, I really love it. I would definately recommend this book to anyone. Maybe not 12 and under but if your 13 or up you should check it out. Very strong message and very well written. Simply..amazing<3

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Kid, 10 years old
December 5, 2011
 
not for younger children or boys
Thirteen reasons why is a really good valuable book I'm doing my book report on it and no, I'm not commiting suicide but i am commiting plagorisim one of the reviewers had a really good summary and i copied it word for word almost. It does have many things not for children under 10 unless they've already been taught and are mature enough to handle. it includes things like rape, innaproriate touching and lots of drinking. I think it's a must read for all tweens and teens even young adults would probably enjoy it. Have any of you guys read twilight? This book really is not suitable for boys way to many "girl" things in it. thats all it's my best read of the year.

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Teen, 16 years old
June 29, 2011
 
Book that will BLOW your mind.
Amazing

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Teen, 15 years old
December 15, 2011
 
anna review

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Teen, 16 years old
March 7, 2011
 
Very Well Written
This book is incredible! i borrowed it from a friend when it first came out and read it in a day. About 6 months later the story stayed with me and i had to go buy my own copy, its that good! Since then i have read it a couple more times and still enjoy it each time.

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