Parents need to know that this story alludes to a young teen girl engaging in sexual activity with boys, and she also has a more innocent sexual encounter with a girl. An older sister mentally and physically abuses her sibling, but while the scenes are tense, most are brief and there are no graphic descriptions. There is also mention of a teen drinking beer and an alcoholic father abusing his wife. Use of curse words is minimal, and the worst words are twisted in form (such as "frucking"). The main character suffers the trauma of losing her mother at a young age and witnessing her older sister's sudden death.
Positive messages:An unstable teenager is mentally and physically abusive to her younger sister, but her actions are not condoned. This character also steals money, drinks a beer, curses, and convinces her younger sister to run away from home. To survive her troubled family life, the younger sister turns to sex as a means of escape but eventually realizes it's not worth it and stops. Despite terrible odds, the younger sister relies on her inner strength (and her hope for a better future) in order to survive.
Violence:A teen is physically and emotionally abused by her unstable older sister. While the younger sister's flashbacks of abuse are not overly graphic, they're quite powerful because she describes the abuse in a stark, "just the facts" manner. Non-graphic descriptions of an alcoholic husband beating his wife.
Sex:Teen sex is implied but not described in detail. Two girls (best friends) kiss and fondle each other's breasts in a very brief scene.
Language:Variations on curse words: "frucking," "faresehole," and "sheeeeet." These words are used outright: "damn," "bitch," "hell," "crap," "screw," "ass," "piss."
"When She Was Good" is a pretty good book. I enjoyed it, but there is some violence, language, and sexual content that makes it for older, more-mature audiences only.
"When She Was Good" is a pretty good book. I enjoyed it, but there is some violence, language, and sexual content that makes it for older, more-mature audiences only.
"When She Was Good" is a pretty good book. I enjoyed it, but there is some violence, language, and sexual content that makes it for older, more-mature audiences only.
The most perfect and inspiring book i have ever read.
I loved this book so much, i was given it as a book to read this year as a 9th grader and I LOVED it. the only reason i gave it a chance was because everyone in my class was talking about how confusing it was and only a person like me could understand it. So i started reading it and i finished the whole book in one sitting, it was like...i was reading a story that i could relate too. I plan to buy this book and keep enjoying it for years to come and pass it down to my kids when they reach the Oh so hard teen years and i know that when i get older i will forget all the troubles i had as a teen and not understand anymore, but i am very positive no matter what issue my teen is having this book can give them guidence to help not only others but theirselves also.
As for the sexual content...what about it? Im sure that we all had that "friend" when we were younger that we had feelings for. There was nothing wrong with that because i had the same feelings as Em but it never reached that level. And the situation that Em was being harrassed by male teenages/friends/complete strangers for sex struck something close to me. The same happened to me and I felt that Em was me and I was Em. We both had the courage to stop it once and for all and to move on with life after it happened. Dont you think that messages like that are missing in books now? I sure think so, and i believe any child that even enters middle school needs to read this to find themselves even a little to know that its okay for this to have happened to you but whats better is to move on and push forward to have a better life then what was handed to you