A Lot or a Little?
What you will—and won't—find in this book.
The fact that this book was so popular will certainly give readers something to think and talk about. Parents can also use this book to open up conversations about online friends and dating. See our discussion guide below for more specific conversation ideas on both of these topics.
Readers will find positive messages about the importance of friendship and accepting yourself.
Positive Role Models
Many wonderful characters, including some very supportive, nurturing parents. Readers may also appreciate that Tiny, while overweight, is still shown pursuing a love life. One Will Grayson suffers from depression and is on medication for it, a depiction that's handled compassionately but isn't used as an excuse for his behavior. On the other hand, the main teenage girls are somewhat mean and egocentric, and they don't compare well to the guys.
Sex, Romance & Nudity
One of the book's protagonists has an online romance with another teen boy; many references to masturbating and sex, and a humorous scene in an adult video store. Some fantasized IM sex; but in "real life," the characters never progress further than kissing.
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Pretty much all of them: "s--t," "motherf----r," "bitchsquealer," "goddamn," "tw-t," "p---y," "c--k," "c--ksucker," "f--k," "s--tbag," "piss," "balls," "bastard," "dumbass," "asshole," "hell," "c--t," and more.
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Products & Purchases
References to drinking Red Bull and Miller Lite.
Drinking, Drugs & Smoking
Will and Tiny drink beer at Tiny's house; they drink shots at a club they get into with fake ID; a few additional references to drinking.
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Parents Need to Know
Parents need to know that this is the first gay-themed YA novel to wind up on The New York Times best-seller list. It features a gay-friendly school and town and gay characters, including a very out-and-proud character nicknamed Tiny Cooper. Tiny breaks stereotypes by being both overweight and capable of having a love life. Another character, one of the Wills, is taking medication for his depression, a depiction that's handled compassionately. Parental relationships are idealized but heartwarming. While nothing more than kissing happens physically, there's lots of graphic sexual language, and one scene is set in a porn store. The book includes other strong language as well, which might make this book a better fit for older teens.
Is It Any Good?
This book offers lots of humor, lots of music, and fantastic over-the-top moments that we all can only wish would happen in real life. Some of the story is related in IMs and texts, which adds realism and energy. This is the first gay-themed book to wind up on The New York Times children's best seller list, and it's easy to see why.
Readers will certainly get caught up in the book's fun premise -- and even find themselves moved by this clever collaboration about coming-of-age in a gay-friendly big city. Tiny Cooper is a great character; his heart of gold -- and his amazing performance -- are truly unforgettable. Plus, who doesn't love a happy ending? Even if it's not exactly believable...
Did we miss something on diversity?
Research shows a connection between kids' healthy self-esteem and positive portrayals in media. That's why we've added a new "Diverse Representations" section to our reviews that will be rolling out on an ongoing basis. You can help us help kids by suggesting a diversity update.