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All parent reviews for Grand Theft Auto IV

Age
13
Average rating based on 105 parent reviews:
  • 39% say language is an issue
  • 33% say there's too much drinking, drugs, or smoking
  • 31% say sexual content is an issue
  • 30% say violence is an issue
Adult
April 4, 2009
 
Understand the Logic Behind It
People, people, people, you have to understand one thing about this game first before you write anything in reference to it: this game is meant to be a harmful outlet in a harmless setting! What I am trying to say is that the game is supposed to be violent because that is what we are as humans: VIOLENT, FURIOUS CREATURES. Why do you think children fight over toys? Why do men lie and cheat and steal? It is the crater to our morality, our innate human nature, the primal instinct to serve the id, the "selfish" center of the human psyche. You must realize, that Grand Theft Auto IV is only playing on the fact that this id is one of the most controlling factors of our lives; our own primeval instincts usually serve to be the most useful (anyone heard of fight or flight? The base center of human survival?). Essentially what Rockstar Games is doing is allowing us to use GTA IV as an outlet for our uncontrollable human nature; so why is it bad for children? IT IS NOT (if said children can distinguish this as a harmless, fantasy context rather than reality). Children need an outlet for their own primal selves as well (kid punching a pillow: releasing his anger, preparing himself for the next hour, and a new day). Letting out violence is what we as humans must do in order to survive, and what better way than staring at a box, a harmless screen comprised of billions upon billions of triangles, colors, and scripting codes, where all of our violent intentions can come true, so that we can fully release the tension, the blinding furies of life? Grand Theft Auto IV is an excellent game, and once you start playing it, you do grasp one major concept: everything we do has consequences. Say for instance, you break into a car on the game: well, the alarm was set, and goes off, and a cop happens to notice this. You have two choices: you could either run, and have the cop follow in pursuit, where you are likely to be caught by some means of governmental force (i.e. search helicopters or even the S.W.A.T. force), or you could stay put, get arrested, and follow through your sentence (which in the game is called getting "BUSTED," where you lose all your possessions, a large portion of money, and are siphoned of all your time for the next couple of days [in game time, that's quite a while]). So really, are we dealing with the next "killing sim" as some parents like to call it? Or has Rockstar finally provided such an imaginary context in which we can express real and tangible emotions and outbreaks of our own humanity, providing we can discern the imaginary from the real (which is another case of perception of it's own), finally producing a resolve to everything we experience throughout our lifetimes? The message is there, but it can't make you listen to it. That's up to you.

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Parent of 14 year old
October 16, 2009
 
Good for Kids 12 and up
I, as a mother of one child think this is fine for children over 12. My child got this game for his 12 birthday, and I was skeptical at first. I had heard this game was horrible, but once i saw my son play this, I found it wasn't as bad as I thought. It turned out that ESRB rated this M mostly because of cheats, which allow there to be more gore and blood, make random AIs literally only speak in profanities, make many characters smoke or do drugs, and make people walk around in bikinis, even though it completely destroys your save file. Another thing is that the "strong sexual behavior" can only be found one of two ways. One, is to use the game breaking cheats, or to complete the game, then find a random object, then bring it to one of 30 predetermined places. So in my opinion, this should be rated a high T, or a low M.

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Adult
September 15, 2009
 
It's possible to be 14 and be above this game.
Yes there is a lot of violence, cursing, blood/gore, drugs, sex (partial nudity), pretty much everything bad you can put into a video game. The thing is, you can be 14 years old and above all that, so long as your moral values are in check. As long as you know that you shouldn't run away shooting at cops chasing you, that you shouldn't have sex w/ prostitutes, that you shouldn't do or deal drugs, and that you shouldn't steal or blow up every car in sight, you can play this game. Basically the player needs to grasp the fact that the stuff in this game needs to stay in this game and not leak out into the real world. It's fun to be bad sometimes, that's why you play the game, but does that make it right and should you do it in real life? As long as you know the answer to that question is no, then you can play this game.

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Adult
November 14, 2008
 
The Game
This game is good. And mabey it could be a good lesson CRIME DOESN'T PAY!! And secondly parents should stop yelling at its creators its just a game. third chances are the same damage could be happing to your kids at SCHOOL. I went through this But the damage is done. 4th Tell Johnny not to kill that person, NOT to smoke crack, NOT to have sex with a prostitute. Just stop blamming it on the creators.

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Adult
February 14, 2010
 
Inapprioriate, yet misunderstood.
First off, let me start by saying I first experienced the Grand Theft Auto (GTA) series at the age of 6, and haven't stopped playing it. And as a high school student, I can also tell parents that anything your child experiences in this game, is nothing he/she isn't accustomed to after elementary~mid-junior high, depending on your area. Which happens to be a lot of areas. In GTA, you will not have a single play-through without hearing the 'F word', or go without violence. Just like walking through the halls of an average American middle/high school (give or take the violence). I am in no way saying that this is appropriate for younger audiences. Though, my bottom line is, if you're going to shield kids from this game, don't send them to public school. Unless they have trouble differentiating reality from a game. I think the game is okay for 10+ so long as it's made clear who the bad guy is. I'm no psychiatrist, but I personally believe if I were to teach a child good morals, that this game would only cause he/she to lash out less in the real world, because they are doing so in a safe, non-repercussive environment. The game is fun, and not appropriate. That is why kids like it. But then again, anything you see on GTA is reported only a bit less graphically in the news. Everyday.

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Parent of 9 year old
March 15, 2011
 
Fine for anyone who comprehends real-life "right" from "wrong"
The Grand Theft auto series does not MAKE people "go bad". This game does have gratuitous amounts of violence, sex, drugs, etc. but it is FICTIONAL. I let me 9 year old play this while I'm in the roo because he understands its not real. He knows that violence and crime in real life has [major] censequences. Since playing this game, he has had NO negative life changes whatsoever. A game is NOT real life, get over it people and take some darn responsibility for what you do and stop blaming things that have NO effect on the utmost VAST majority of people who experience it.

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Parent
May 31, 2011
 
Fine for 10 and up, not really too violent...
It contains way too much swearing, but it proves to be a very fun and unless your kids are stupid, very un-impressionable game. You can walk around a live city full of people and drive cars around. The cheats are also an entertaining way to fire up the gameplay. There is no graphic gore, although blood splattering in some cases. When we did a questionaire on kids in a class aged 10-11, 88% put this on their games that they own list. Believe me, they weren't little hoodlums or murderers, they were mainly intelligent young people who were not swearing or beating each other up at breaktimes. So I conclude with: This game should be fine for your 10 year old or upwards and is not really that violent.

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Parent of 11 and 15 year old
April 21, 2011
 
Lots of fun for mature gamers only
Unless someone has been completely in the dark about video games, they should already know that the GTA games are highly inappropriate for children. Violence, profanity and sexual situatuions are just about non-stop and the protagonist, while he might initially be relustant to get back into crime, goes all out once he does. The game is extremely fun to play for mature gamers that completely understand that just about everything in this game is not to be attempted in the real world.

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Adult
April 10, 2009
 
One of the best games of all time. PERIOD.
SUPERB GAME, but NOT FOR KIDS. I can't stress that enough. Lots of Gore, Lots of Violence and Killing, Uses of Drugs, Alcohol, and Tobacco, Prostitution, Lap Dances, Porn Shops, Lots of Sex and Suggestive Themes. But other than that, it's okay for kids ;)

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Adult
March 13, 2010
 
All mature kids

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Adult
April 9, 2008
 
Its just a game.
Parents need to remember that video games are, well.... games. Children are not going to hire protitutes for sex or do drugs just because some thug in a game does. The content in this game is iffy, but odds are, your child already knows how this is how the world is (in some rare places). The "damage" has already been done on your child. Don't worry your child is not going to become a pot-smoking murderer. This game gives them a chance to use their imagination so they dont go out and do the real thing. In the game, it shows you how drinking and drving is bad and how a bad concious can hurt you. Just let your children get this game. Don't act like they haven't heard the "f-word" or don't know what a prostitute is. Everything will be fine.

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Adult
April 8, 2011
 
ITS AN AWESOME GAME!

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Parent
April 4, 2012
 
LET YOUR CHILD PLAY
This game is one of the best video games ever. I agree, you shouldn't shelter your children from what the world is really like and this is the perfect way to introduce it.

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Parent
March 8, 2012
 
The reasonable and logistic side of parenting.
I am the father of two boys, one is 11, the older brother is 13. I have played this game before, and yes, I think it has to be, the very best games to come out of Rockstar Studios yet. Yes, it is true that this game contains explicit content, such as violence, and its abuse of drugs. The thing is about some parents, they shield their child from everything, and the matter of fact thing about it is, all of them (99.9999% of the age over 10) know about this stuff. There is no use shielding your children, but rather expose them to it and show them the wrongs in it. My youngest son started playing this when he was 10, and I told him and reminded him the rights and wrongs in the explicit content was featured. I am an educator, and saw this game as an chance to show my children what is right and wrong, and the thing is, all of the kids can already tell what is right from wrong, unless they have god-awful parents. Kids want to play this game because of its sheer awesomeness. It is an insanely fun game, with just inappropriate content. You have to stop shielding your children and give them more responsibility and trust, and they will ultimately respect you for it. This won't turn your children into mindless psychotic killers like the media says it will. It is intended purely for entertainment purposes. All boys above 10 are old enough to start learning the difference between fantasy and reality, and this is an perfect chance to do so. I recommend this for ages 10 and up, and most boys are mature enough to know not to do the things featured in the games. Just remember, these games are for sheer fun, and they don't ruin your kid's brains with trash.

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Parent of 18 year old
April 20, 2011
 
at least 15+
this game has a pretty bad message. not recomended for preteens

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Parent of 9, 13, and 17 year old
April 16, 2011
 
Fun for adults, too graphic for kids
The game takes away boredom and lets adults do things that in real life we would never dream of doing (like stealing, murder, and the character dying and coming back to life). As an adult I do play the game do turn off when the younger generation comes in. Not recommended for young people. It's a partial reason for violent kids in todays society.

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Adult
April 9, 2008
 
I'm getting tired of this site's bs
Look... This is GTA so yes its not for young children. But the reviews I'm seeing are BS. I saw a review that said you can kill babies, theres not one child in Grand Theft Auto. The reviews in this site lie an incredible amount and do not actually review the game. They just critizise it, These games are great and they by no means REWARD you for killing people, you go to jail for it. You kill people by choice or missions, so the content of the game is really only should be judged by the player. Cause only you choose to go into strip clubs or have sex. Leave the game alone stupid ignorant people.

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Adult
July 9, 2011
 
Let your kids play this game......But with you involved.
I disagree with many of the comments about this game. I was 15 when GTA 3 came out. At the time, it was the most controversial game to date. I played GTA 3 all the time. When GTA Vice City came out when I was 16, I played that. I am 25 now. I have been playing violent video games since I was a young child. I have never commited a violent crime, killed a hooker, driven while intoxicated, ect. I was and still am a very good studnet. I am in grad school now. If you would listen to Jack Thompson then I should be in prison for commiting a violent crime due to my violent video game enjoyment. Why am I not in prison? Let me tell you why. I have intelligent parents who did not shelter me from the world we live in. They let me play video games, listen to "dirty" music, and they even openly discussed sex! "OH MY GOD! You must be a broken person! Your parents ruined you!" NOPE! My parents explained things to me. They would talk to me about the differences between reality and fantasy. I was not sheltered because sheltering your children is useless. One day, your child WILL leave home and will not be under the parents umbrella of protection and influence. What decisions will they make if the "Big Bad Scary World" was always closed off to them? Will they stick to their parent's strict ideals of censorship? Or will the dive right into the debauchery the world can offer? Now, I wouldn't let a 5, 6, or 7 year old play this game. Their minds are not yet developed enough to process the difference between fantasy or reality. It would be hard for a parent to explain this to a young child. But as for a 12 or 13 year old, it can be done. But, THE PARENT MUST BE INVOLVED! The parents need to explain what is wrong with the game; that the game is just fantasy! This game could be a good tool to use with teens. The role models in the game could be used to teach a teen. Yes, it really could! A role model is not always a person you look up to. A person/thing could be used as a role model of negative behavior. But, once again the parents need to be involved to teach this. I believe many parents do not want to take the time to teach life lessons. The parents will let the teachers, sports coachs, or whoever else to do the parenting for them. Many parents will let their young child get concussions at football practice and be rewarded for running into another human being; but they will not let their child play video games. Fake violence is worse than real life violence, aggresive behavior, and life long injuries? I think not. If your child wants to play this game and is above the age of 11 then let them. But, teach them that this game is fantasy. Teach them about the consequences of killing cops. Teach them that paying for a hooker will most likely get them a visit to the clinic with a nasty case of the Clap. Do not keep your child in the dark. Open the world up to them. Open the world up but with disclaimers and warnings. Don't be one of those parents that shelter your child. They will not turn into the next school gunman because of a stupid video game. The children need YOU to be there, to explain the complex world we live in.

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Parent of 17 year old
March 9, 2011
 
very fun but also mature
there are many bad sexual things about this game most common hookers and strip clubs but also in house you can find xxx magizines used condoms and many other pornographic things. Only let your kids play it it you know they can handle it

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Adult
July 26, 2011
 
Great Game
This game is extremely fun and give you lots of things to do around the giant map they provide for you for people who worrie about the content its actualy not as bad as you think you dont have to do any of the missions if you dont want to its a completely free roam game you can just go bowling or play pool or get some food. However if you choose to do the other things there is lots of intense violence and blood cop killing, gang killing, pedestrian killing, exe drunk driving , lots of language, you can ingage in sexual activity with prostitutes and receive "Sexual Pleasure" in many ways although not actual nudity is shown but you can heat whats going on the prostitues were verry light clothing such as, G-Strings, Thongs, and barely anything to cover there chest. all together this is a great game and offers alot but parents need to realize that sometimes the best way for a kid to find out about this stuff is to engae with it in a game so they know its wrong in real life.

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