Death at a Funeral (R)

Goofy burial digs up family secrets; not for kids.

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Movie details
  • Studio: Sidney Kimmel Entertainment, Sidney Kimmel Entertainment
  • Directed By: Frank Oz
  • Cast: Matthew Macfadyen, Rupert Graves, Alan Tudyk
  • Running Time: 90 minutes
  • Release Date: 08/17/2007
  • Video/DVD Release Date: 02/25/2008
  • Genre: Comedy
  • MPAA Rating: R
  • MPAA Explanation: language and drug content.

Parents need to know

Parents need to know that although this British farce is a comedy, its adult themes -- mortality, mourning, in-law stress -- probably won't appeal to kids and younger teens. Which isn't to say that the grown-up characters act much like adults. In fact, they behave at their very worst (which makes for funny setups, but hardly stellar examples for impressionable young viewers). Sibling rivalry, sexual secrets, drug use, and more are all in the mix, and there's also plenty of profanity ("f--k," "s--t," "wanker") and a couple of shots of a bare butt (in a nonsexual way).

Families can talk about what happens when relatives gather for rituals -- anniversaries, weddings, birthdays, or, in this case, funerals. Why do they seem to bring out the worst in people (though everyone's supposed to be on their best behavior)? Is the atmosphere at these events really that pressured? Or does mayhem like this really only happen in the movies? What are funerals really for? How are they usually depicted in movies? How is this different?

Message

Social Behavior:

Blackmail, pill-popping, and sibling rivalry galore. An older man tries to pick up a much younger woman at his father's funeral, another waits to pounce on his ex, and four men restrain -- and nearly kill -- a guest. Some homophobic jokes and scatological humor.

Consumerism:

Drugs/Alcohol/Tobacco:

A few guests are fed hallucinogenic drugs (one forcefully, the other accidentally) posing as Valium.

Violence

Men brawl in the middle of a solemn event; a woman attacks a guest once she discovers the scandalous secret he's harboring.

Sex

Nudity, though not of a sexual nature (a man's backside is in full view, once in closeup). No sexual encounters, though there are plenty of allusions to them. Two bodies are placed, fully clothed, in a compromising position.

Language

Nearly everyone swears a blue streak, including an octogenarian character. All the typical expletives are used, plus some British terms: "f--k," "s--t," "damn," "wanker," etc.

Common Sense says

What's the story?

Reviewed by S. Jhoanna Robledo

Apropos of its title, DEATH AT A FUNERAL opens on a somber note, with a hearse pulling up to an ivy-clad house where a grieving son, Daniel (Matthew Macfadyen), awaits. A casket is carried into the house, where the seriousness is dismissed when it's opened ... and Daniel says, "Pardon me. That's not my father." So begins the uproarious ride that director Frank Oz offers in this hilarious -- though far from perfect -- British comedy. An ensemble picture by virtue of its premise -- there's a funeral, and everyone's showing up, personal baggage in tow -- the film brings together many characters, all of whom, in the end, are transformed by the not-so-solemn event. Among them are Daniel's wife, Jane (Keeley Hawes), who sees his father's death as a chance for her and Daniel to finally escape her in-laws' home; Robert (Rupert Graves), Daniel's much more successful (and as a result, self-obsessed) novelist brother; and Howard (Andy Nyman), a hypochondriac schlub whose proximity to death only accentuates his fears. There's also Martha (Daisy Donavan) and her fiancé, Simon (Alan Tudyk), who's worried about being around his future father-in-law and inadvertently takes a tranquilizer that's apparently something else. Plus foul-mouthed Uncle Alfie (Peter Vaughan), who's incontinent, and Martha's ex, Justin (Ewan Bremmer), who's pining for her. And then there's Peter (Peter Dinklage), the stranger who shows up with an atomic secret to share.

Is it any good?

3
With so many eccentrics in attendance, each one loaded to the gills with quirks, Death at a Funeral is an embarrassment of comedic riches -- but it could have benefited from some editing. The laughter literally never ends, even when it's forced. The scatological bits, though reliably laugh-getting, seem grossly out of place and, worse, unnecessary. If Oz had cut an oddball character or two and a few extra gags, he'd have had a classic. That said, near the end -- when yet another twist is thrown in for good measure -- even resistant moviegoers will be pummeled into submission. You can't help but laugh, and out loud.
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Parents and kids say

All Reviews

There are 9 reviews.

4


Posted on 11/04/08 by lin2211 Kid contributor, age 16

Refreshing dose of British humor

This movie is definately one of the funniest movies I have seen. I recommend it to anyone over 13. There is some cursing but nothing a teenager hasn't heard before and comic nudity and drug use (nothing too bad).
3

Posted on 03/20/08 by Anonymous Adult contributor
5


Posted on 03/13/08 by Way2Dramatic Kid contributor, age 16

I don't think I've ever laughed this hard

I only bought this because I had a coupon for $5 off it, but it is easily one of the funniest movies I've ever seen. It isn't too terribly bad, as far as current movies go. There is swearing, but it isn't constant, some sexual dialogue, but nothing explicit, and almost all the characters like Valium, one of them takes hard drugs thinking it's valium. This movie is incredibly funny, so watch it-- it's good for a laugh.
4


Posted on 03/07/08 by DisneyFan Adult contributor

Loved It!

My husband and I are very partial to English films, so there was nothing in this movie that surprised either of us. Plus, we'd seen previews, so we knew what we were getting ourselves into. We thought it was a funny movie--not for kids, but good. It was just long enough--sometimes a movie just needs to get in and out--not linger for 2+ hours! Older teens would be fine with this movie!
2


Posted on 10/26/07 by D Karen Adult contributor

Humor at what cost?

Nothing in your review prepared us for this film. We anticipated a relaxing comedy,however found this film to be a distasteful waste of our time. The characters were an unpleasant mix of misfits, none of which had any redeeming qualities worth watching. The bathroom humor was discusting and over the top. Be prepared for repeated foul language, and homosexual content.
4


Posted on 09/30/07 by Pisces5013 Adult contributor

Great comedy. Not for young kids.

I saw this film and loved it. There was a group of teenagers in the theatre who found the first half to be boring, but were loving the second half when it got to be a chaotic riot. Of course, I would never take young kids to this film, not because of the theme, but because they'd be bored. This type of humor goes over their heads anyway.
3


Posted on 09/21/07 by emmys-mom Adult contributor
0


Posted on 08/30/07 by BoiseNoise Adult contributor

Non-stop filth & blasphemy

Actually, we didn't sit through the whole movie, but left about 30 minutes into it, receiving a refund. Nothing in the reviews had prepared us for the constant barrage of filthy language. In addition to all of the usual obscenities, characters also used that blasphemous profanity that has begun to appear in more R-rated movies recently-- Jesus' name interspersed with the f-word. Very, very offensive to Christians!!! I think there should be some special warning about this level and type of profanity, not just the generic comment, "Language." Moreover, there was nothing truly funny to redeem the film . . . at least in the first 30 minutes. It was just offensive and even tedious.
4

Posted on 08/30/07 by Anonymous Adult contributor

Hilarious and Heartwarming

My husband and I initially saw this movie together and we both laughed and cried. We have a 14-year-old daughter who I felt would also enjoy the movie. She loved it too. Yes, the language is offensive. However, we don't speak like that at home. The drug use was not an issue. I did not feel it was glorified in any way. Our child was never exposed to TV or movies until the age of 8. She is well educated and knows the pitfalls of drug and alcohol abuse. The movie itself had wonderful character development. In the end, the characters could be your next door neighbors. I'd rather my child see a movie like this -- where people seem human with all their foibles -- than a movie that glorifies violence, drugs, sex, beautiful bodies, and the other negative media influences we see way too much of today. Go see it!

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Adult Reviews

There are 7 reviews.

3

Posted on 03/20/08 by Anonymous Adult contributor
4


Posted on 03/07/08 by DisneyFan Adult contributor

Loved It!

My husband and I are very partial to English films, so there was nothing in this movie that surprised either of us. Plus, we'd seen previews, so we knew what we were getting ourselves into. We thought it was a funny movie--not for kids, but good. It was just long enough--sometimes a movie just needs to get in and out--not linger for 2+ hours! Older teens would be fine with this movie!
2


Posted on 10/26/07 by D Karen Adult contributor

Humor at what cost?

Nothing in your review prepared us for this film. We anticipated a relaxing comedy,however found this film to be a distasteful waste of our time. The characters were an unpleasant mix of misfits, none of which had any redeeming qualities worth watching. The bathroom humor was discusting and over the top. Be prepared for repeated foul language, and homosexual content.
4


Posted on 09/30/07 by Pisces5013 Adult contributor

Great comedy. Not for young kids.

I saw this film and loved it. There was a group of teenagers in the theatre who found the first half to be boring, but were loving the second half when it got to be a chaotic riot. Of course, I would never take young kids to this film, not because of the theme, but because they'd be bored. This type of humor goes over their heads anyway.
3


Posted on 09/21/07 by emmys-mom Adult contributor
0


Posted on 08/30/07 by BoiseNoise Adult contributor

Non-stop filth & blasphemy

Actually, we didn't sit through the whole movie, but left about 30 minutes into it, receiving a refund. Nothing in the reviews had prepared us for the constant barrage of filthy language. In addition to all of the usual obscenities, characters also used that blasphemous profanity that has begun to appear in more R-rated movies recently-- Jesus' name interspersed with the f-word. Very, very offensive to Christians!!! I think there should be some special warning about this level and type of profanity, not just the generic comment, "Language." Moreover, there was nothing truly funny to redeem the film . . . at least in the first 30 minutes. It was just offensive and even tedious.
4

Posted on 08/30/07 by Anonymous Adult contributor

Hilarious and Heartwarming

My husband and I initially saw this movie together and we both laughed and cried. We have a 14-year-old daughter who I felt would also enjoy the movie. She loved it too. Yes, the language is offensive. However, we don't speak like that at home. The drug use was not an issue. I did not feel it was glorified in any way. Our child was never exposed to TV or movies until the age of 8. She is well educated and knows the pitfalls of drug and alcohol abuse. The movie itself had wonderful character development. In the end, the characters could be your next door neighbors. I'd rather my child see a movie like this -- where people seem human with all their foibles -- than a movie that glorifies violence, drugs, sex, beautiful bodies, and the other negative media influences we see way too much of today. Go see it!
See all 7 adult reviews>

Kids Reviews

There are 2 reviews.

4


Posted on 11/04/08 by lin2211 Kid contributor, age 16

Refreshing dose of British humor

This movie is definately one of the funniest movies I have seen. I recommend it to anyone over 13. There is some cursing but nothing a teenager hasn't heard before and comic nudity and drug use (nothing too bad).
5


Posted on 03/13/08 by Way2Dramatic Kid contributor, age 16

I don't think I've ever laughed this hard

I only bought this because I had a coupon for $5 off it, but it is easily one of the funniest movies I've ever seen. It isn't too terribly bad, as far as current movies go. There is swearing, but it isn't constant, some sexual dialogue, but nothing explicit, and almost all the characters like Valium, one of them takes hard drugs thinking it's valium. This movie is incredibly funny, so watch it-- it's good for a laugh.
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