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The Ex

(2007, Rated PG-13, Comedy, Starring Amanda Peet, Zach Braff, Jason Bateman)
  • Is it age appropriate?

    About our ratings

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    Not age appropriate for kids under 13, age appropriate for kids over 15; suggested age 14.
  • Is it any good?

    2.0
  • Common Sense says

    Uneven Braff comedy OK, but lacks excitement.

Why We Rated This iffy for Ages 14–15

What to watch out for

  • Messages:

    Tom is a maverick who says it like it is, even when he's shoving his foot down his mouth and offending others. He also taunts and stalks a kid (who gives him the finger) and lies about an incident at work. Chip is a sociopath bent on destroying Tom at any cost, even if it requires lies, deceit, and outright violence.
  • Violence:

    Fairly brutal fistfights between Tom and Chip, plus a basketball game among men in wheelchairs that's pretty intense. One character pushes another down a flight of stairs.
  • Sex:

    Tom and Sofia come on to each other, with varying degrees of success. Kissing, groping, and much innuendo about one character's generously sized genitals. Some graphic description of sex acts and unusual positions. Allusions to past conquests and tips from a married man on how to get more action. Pornographic material shows up on a laptop. A man sits naked in a chair with a towel across his lap.
  • Language:

    "F--k," "s--t" (used by both adults and a child), "dips--t," "slut." The words aren't used frequently, but pointedly.
  • Consumerism:

    Tom works at an ad agency, so some products are labeled (though for the most part, they're made up).
  • Drinking, drugs, & smoking:

    Some drinking during toasts and similar events -- and, once, after a character loses his job, he drinks scotch during the day.
 

What Parents Need to Know

About The Ex

Parents need to know that this is a crass comedy aimed at 13-year-olds who like jokes at others' expense. A character in a wheelchair is ridiculed, a cartoon character is a racial stereotype, and there's lots of innuendo about a character's large genitals. There's a generous helping of "f--k"s and "s--t"s, along with scenes in which a husband and wife negotiate when and how to be intimate beyond basic canoodling, two men talk about what makes a wife willing to have sex with her husband, co-workers gossip how a physically disabled man pleases a woman, and more. Plus, an elementary-school-age kid gives Tom the finger and swears, and the two main male characters do lots of fighting and trash talking.

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Families Can Talk About

  • Families can talk about how the media sets up expectations about parenting roles. Do movies and TV shows gloss over the difficulties of parenting, or are they portrayed with clichés? Also, how is Chip's physical handicap handled in the movie? Do people have preconceived notions about those who are impaired? What are they, and how can they be dispelled? How is Braff's character in this movie different from many of the more-vulnerable characters he's played in the past? What do you think made him branch out?

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Most Recent Reviews

  1. Teen Reviewer Age 14
    Lives in Florida
    I rate this title iffy for age 2 and give it 3.0

    The ultimate throw-away comedy!

    I went into this not expecting much, but I came out of it very much pleased. This is a very cute little comedy that deserves some attention. Parents, be warned; there is some very iffy sex talk, slapstick-ey fist fights, and some very quirky scenes that are unpredictable and may cause kids under 12 to squirm in their seats. Anyway, this was a great movie to see once and then keep in the back of your mind forever. Take your teens and prepare yourself for 90 minutes of comedy gold made just for teens. Keep an eye out for an Amy Adams (Princess Giselle of "Enchanted") cameo!

  2. Teen Reviewer Age 15
    Lives in Massachusetts
    I rate this title iffy for age 2 and give it 1.0

    VERY BAD!

    This movie only had one funny part and that was one that was in all the camercials for it. There was some adult material but over all I would say that it is ok for 12+

  3. Adult Reviewer
    Lives in Kentucky
    I rate this title off for age 17 and give it 0.0

    Get Rid Of It!!!!!!!

    Get rid of it, it stinks and not fit for people under 45

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