All About Steve

  • Review Date: August 26, 2009
  • PG-13
  • Genre: Comedy
  • 2009
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Sandra Bullock plays a stalker in unappealing romcom.
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What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this offbeat comedy includes some sexual content (Sandra Bullock strips down to her bra, and Bradley Cooper is shirtless in the film's one love scene), as well as humorous but continuous references to sex, dating, and unrequited, obsessive infatuation (i.e. stalking). Language includes frequent use of words like "s--t" and "a--hole," and there's a brief glimpse of adults drinking beer with meals. There's a little bit of mild peril when characters get stuck in potentially dangerous situations, as well as a few cartoonish pratfalls.

  • Although the movie's "stalking" theme is obviously negative, the movie's resolution makes it clear that if you have to stalk someone you love, they don't really love you. The fact that Steve is less interested in Mary after discovering how "book smart" she is also sends an iffy message.
  • Ultimately, Mary realizes that she shouldn't have to change who she is for a man (she doesn't dumb down her behavior or change to be less quirky), but none of the characters is really a role model. Mary is a workaholic who transforms into an unprofessional, obsessed stalker. Steve is only too happy to sleep with a woman he hasn't said two words (until she proves herself too "crazy smart," that is). The news reporters are only interested in ratings and beating their colleagues to juicy stories. Mary's brand-new friends are sweet, but the woman in particular seems ignorant.
  • A group of schoolchildren falls into a hidden mineshaft; later, a couple of main characters fall in, too. A tornado lifts up a car that a few characters just ran away from, and there are a few funny pratfalls by Mary and Steve.
  • Mary basically attacks Steve during their first date. She and Steve are shown shirtless (she's wearing a bra) and make overt sexual references/gestures while making out as they're lying down in the backseat of a car. Although it's technically not a sex scene, the foreplay includes a few verbally explicit moments. Aside from that one scene, there are many conversations about romantic relationships and sexual comments and innuendo.
  • Language includes "s--t," "a--hole," and "p---y," as well as "crap," "dumbass," "Christ!" and tamer words like "damn," "hell," etc.
  • Surprisingly few product placements, but there are a couple, including Twinkies.
  • Adults drink beer with meals in a couple of quick scenes.

What's the story?

Mary Horowitz (Sandra Bullock) is a know-it-all crossword-puzzle editor at a small Sacramento newspaper. Temporarily living with her parents (Howard Hesseman and Beth Grant), Mary agrees to go a on a blind date they've set up with Steve (Bradley Cooper), a cameraman for a cable news channel. Mary immediately realizes that Steve is a catch and aggressively pounces on him, only to turn him off when she won't stop talking. After losing her job for making the weekly crossword all about her new crush, she decides to stalk him as he tracks down news stories with cocky on-air reporter Hartman (Thomas Haden Church).


Is it any good?

 

Without denying the considerable comic talent of Bullock and Cooper (for proof, see their far better comedies The Proposal and The Hangover), this film is neither funny nor romantic. Instead of seeming nerdy cute like so many male protagonists in romantic comedies, Mary just seems stunted and desperate. It's disingenuous to believe that a walking encyclopedia who loves words so much would be so shallow. One meaningless tussle in the back of a car does not a romance make.

Bullock, so charming even in her lesser films, can't save this nearly unwatchable mess. Cooper does his best acting either put-upon or crazed, and Church earns the movie an extra star for actually eliciting a few laughs. His ambitious, arrogant reporter is a caricature, sure, but he's a welcome break from the train wreck that is Mary and Steve.


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What families can talk about

  • Families can talk about obsessive relationships. Is Mary a stalker? Do you think that it's OK for the movie to find humor in that situation? What would be the consequences in real life?

  • How would the movie change if the main characters' genders were reversed? Would it be just as funny, or would it seem scary if a man was doing the stalking?

  • Does the movie send a negative message to "book smart" young women, or is it a positive one?


This review was written by Sandie Angulo Chen
Kid, 10 years old
June 17, 2010
 
the girl who has been waiting for 40 years is about to get what she wants

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Adult
November 21, 2010
 
This movie sucked!!!!! And the car scene is R' ish because he has no shirt on (but pants) and she has a skirt and a bra thats all!!!And they are making out for like minutes. And the movie is not funny nor romantic

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Adult
October 26, 2010
 
Romantic comedy?? I think not. Not romantic and I certainly didn't find it funny. Sandra Bullock is MUCH better than this movie.

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Teen, 14 years old
July 13, 2010
 
Depends....
They do give some iffy messages like cussing is sometimes okay.

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Kid, 13 years old
December 26, 2009
 
For the Dry Humored
Really funny. The only sexual scenes that everybody is worried about are fine! They are sexual, but in a funny way. Like she gives notice to the twinkie in the van. I love it. If your kid has a very kiddish sense of humor, like Monsters vs. Aliens, or Shorts- then I would say they wouldn't enjoy it. But if they are dry humored or like films like Legally Blonde, or Miss Congeniality then it will be fine. I am 11 and I personally loved it!

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Kid, 13 years old
September 5, 2009
 
ok first of all the little kid who keeps trying to reveiw it whos like 7 dont listen to a crap of wat shes gotta say! shes like 7 and she says its anapropite for 16 year olds! LOL....

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Kid, 13 years old
July 9, 2011
 
funny and not that bad
This movie had a lot of funny parts in it. I would recommend it for ages 12 or 13 and above.There is no nudity in this film. Only twice in the movie there is suggestive content.

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Educator and Parent of 10, 12, and 14 year old
February 15, 2010
 
Not typical romcom
I liked this better than most reviews, (spoiler alert) because it doesn't have a traditional romcom ending--i.e.wacky, obsessed girl wins boy. Here, Mary -- and others-- realize that a kind, smart, even quirky girl is worthy of friendship, and that hav ing friends might be more important then having the "ticket to normal" boyfriend. And she's funny.

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Teen, 18 years old
January 29, 2010
 
Great!!!!!!!!!!

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Teen, 14 years old
November 6, 2009
 
never seen the movie but really want to

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This review was written by Sandie Angulo Chen
Studio:Twentieth Century Fox
Director:Phil Traill
Cast:Bradley Cooper, Sandra Bullock, Thomas Haden Church
Genre:Comedy
Run time:99 minutes
Theatrical release date:September 4, 2009
DVD release date:December 22, 2009
MPAA rating:PG-13
MPAA explanation:sexual content including innuendos.

This review was written by Sandie Angulo Chen
 

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