Billy Elliot (R, 2000)

common sense media says

Terrific story of young ballet dancer has strong language.


parents & educators say
  • 60% say there are positive messages
  • 60% say language is an issue

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this ultimately uplifting dramedy is rated R primarily for lanugage (an edited version was released on DVD with a PG-13 rating, but it's no longer easy to find for rental or sale) -- everyone in the movie uses terrible language all the time. There are also references to transvestism and homosexuality, some discussion of sex among young characters, and a brief glimpse of bare buttocks when one character moons another. Some teens may be upset by the way that family members treat each other -- they're insulting, neglectful, and cruel, and one parent hits a child and threatens another -- but the overall takeaway is a heartwarming one.

Positive messages: Although the characters can be rough and intolerant, overall the movie has an uplifting message of hope, hard work, and sacrifice.
Positive role models: The characters are a rough-and-tumble bunch who make lots of mistakes and often set poor examples (adults and kids alike) -- but Billy works hard to fulfill his dreams, and his dad ultimately proves to care deeply about his son.
Violence: Some family violence (fathers grabbing/striking sons); police fight strikers; some smashing and confrontations.
Sex: Children discuss sex and adult infidelity. A brief glimpse of a bare behind from a distance. One male character puts another male character's hands down his pants. Use of sexual British slang words like "puffer" and "fanny."
Language: Frequent strong language from all characters, including children. Many uses of "f--k," "s--t," "hell," "ass," "crap," "wanker," "for God's sake," and more.
Consumerism: Not applicable.
Drinking, drugs, & smoking: Drinking (by both adult and underage characters) and smoking, references to alcoholism, adult characters tipsy.

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What to talk about

Talk to your kids
  • Families can talk about how the stress of painful external circumstances can affect family members' ability to be kind to one other. Why was the strike so important to Billy's dad and brother? How was that like -- and not like -- the importance of ballet to Billy?

  • Why did Mrs. Wilkinson want to help Billy? Why was Billy's interest in ballet so terrifying to him? What made him change his mind? What do you think of Billy's dad's response when Billy says he's scared?

  • What does it tell us that Billy's father had never been out of Durham, and that Billy had never been to see Durham's famous cathedral?

What's the story?

What's the story?

In 1984 England, the police come to the small mining town of Durham to keep order during a strike. Amidst the tension, 11-year-old Billy Elliot (Jamie Bell), whose main sport is boxing, is pulled into a ballet lesson taught by Mrs. Wilkinson (Julie Walters). Billy discovers that ballet both answers and creates a need in him that he can no more name than he can resist. Billy lives with his father (Gary Lewis), brother, and grandmother; his mother died the year before, his grandmother is forgetful, and his father and brother are on strike. With the adults busy with their own problems, Billy is able to keep his new activity a secret ... for awhile. When his father eventually finds out, he's furious and tells his son to quit. But Billy has to dance -- and it might even be his way to bigger and better things.

Is it any good?

Is it any good?
 

BILLY ELLIOT is well above average -- tender, funny, and touching. Bell is extraordinary as Billy, and Lewis is first-rate as the father who makes an unbearably painful sacrifice in order to give his son the chance he never had. Director Stephen Daldry has a real gift for visual storytelling. A chase through hanging laundry, dance lessons in a boxing ring, and the opening shot of Billy on a trampoline are images that are fresh and memorable.

Movie themes & details

Movie Details
Studio: Universal Pictures
Director: Stephen Daldry
Cast: Gary Lewis, Jamie Bell, Julie Walters
Genre: Drama
Run time: 111 minutes
Theatrical release: October 13, 2000
DVD release: April 2, 2001
MPAA Rating: R
MPAA explanation: language

This review was written by Nell Minow
 
 

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What parents & educators say

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Based on 10 parent & educator reviews:
  • 60% say there are positive messages
  • 60% say language is an issue

Most useful reviews by all members

Toronto Mom
parent of 8 and 10 year old
 
Inspiring & Loving Message
Saw this when it first came out and loved it. We just watched the PG-13 version with our kids and the whole family was really touched by it. It's an empowering and loving story for children. My kids couldn't stop dancing afterwards. I don't see why this movie receives such a strict rating unless the rating is to discourage kids from being exposed to an LGBT-positive message. There is cussing but American children won't understand the UK swear words anyway. The sexual talk and violence are minimal, especially in comparison to other PG and even some G movies.

 
A must see for adults - children will benefit from the movie and discussions afterwards.
For children, I believe the importance of the grand message outweighs the detractors of adult language. Children can not be completely shielded from foul language, and the colorful terms used in this movie can be made an item for discussion. This is a powerful and uplifting work of art, and can have a positive effect on adults and children. Just be prepared for a few discussions before and afterwards - that in itself makes the experience more fruitful.

Calimom
adult
 
The musical from this movie has hit Broadway now with rave reviews. My kids wanted to see it very much, so I screened this movie to see if it's appropriate material. What a fabulous story! There are so many good messages - about believing in yourself, being willing to take risks, being willing to try things that you're not good at. Even the hard-nosed father is willing to ultimately shed his convictions in order to help his son achieve his dreams. There is also a subplot of accepting a friend who has a very different lifestyle than your own. You must watch this with your kids, and be ready to explain labor unions, scabs, and strikes. You will need to discuss homophobia, especially the stereotypes surrounding it (i.e. in the movie the adult males all believe male ballet dancers are gay). You will also need to weigh in on your family's choice of language vs. the family in the movie. Lots of foul language in this film. My son is a dancer, and also discovered his love of ballet very young. The movie is remarkably true in its depiction of a kid who just has to jump and move, and who tries to pick out melodies at the piano. My son was exactly like this. The screenplay must be based on some firsthand knowledge. Lucky is the person who discovers what he loves at a young age, and is willing to persevere and pursue it. Even luckier if he gets extraordinary opportunities like Billy does. Very inspiring story. Note: you really must use the subtitles option with this one to understand the thick accents.

king hulk
parent of 11 year old
 
i loved it i am not a big dancer kinda guy but after you see this awesome film it will change your mind for ever!~!!!!!!!

apple13j1
teen, 16 years old
 
This is one of my favorite movies of all time. This is a little bit sad, but overall a really great movie with a great message. It's rated R for strong language.

s s
adult
 
fine for kids 10 or 11 and up if you warn them there's swearing, and if you talk with them about the issues as they come up

Dreamerlily
teen, 15 years old
 
I hate curse words, but I LOVED this movie
Billy Elliot is amazing! Really, it doesn't matter if your kid's 13 or 18, I promis you they hear worse words/see worse things on the bus riding to school or in the hallways (personal experience) Even if you hate dancing, your bound to like this. They break steryotypes by making Billy (they dancer) straight and Michael (his friend) gay. And if you get the chance, see the musical, its just as good I swear~.

 
Full of "Electricity"
One of my favorite movies, this is a truly inspiring story about (sorry for sounding corny, but it's true) following your heart. Billy is an athletic boy with a good heart and a sharp tongue. I especially enjoyed this one scene where his best friend shows affection for him and it's so admirable how Billy lightly turns his friend down with such maturity, it was undeniably sweet. There's also Billy's relationship with his family, especially his brother and father. His brother treats Billy terribly, even in one slightly humorous scene where Billy wishes him a good night after his brother uses fowl language towards him. But in the end his brother is able to show affection for his brother. And the relationship Billy has with his father is tear-inducing, with his father overcoming the struggle to accept his son for his choices. Although the movie has some fowl elements, it is sweet and full of lovable characters. The fowl elements being some violence, heavy cursing, scenes that usually hint sexuality (such as the scene with Michael touching Billy, or a pillow fight Billy has with Debbie that younger-aged kids might find uncomfortable). But all in all, it's a great film and very funny and witty. If this seems like a good movie to see, then definitely go and see it. And if not, that's okay. (May I just add that it definitely does not deserve its R rating, seeing that it steers more towards PG 13.)

yotamdo
kid, 11 years old
 
Great movie!
My MPAA rating: R for Brief Violence, Sexual Content, And Frequent Strong Language

 
But what do you mean about the cursing? Kids swear all the time in real life so what's wrong with seeing it in a film, it's not as if they haven't heard it before! Unless things are very different in America, I've never been there...seems unlikely though. Anyway Billy Elliot is absolutely brilliant, I would advise everyone to watch it even if you hate ballet! There's something in it for everyone

qtnn
parent of 10 and 11 year old
 
Great for conversations with precocious tweens & older
The kids usually like (but don't love) our choices for Family Movie Night, e.g. Food Inc. They LOVED Billy Elliot, are trying to convince their friends to watch it so they have someone their age to discuss it with. It's the rare coming-of-age story that doesn't focus on sex. In fact, though it's a concern of those around him, Billy is focused on following his dreams. The beauty of the movie is its balancing act - exploring dark subjects from the perspective of a kid, alternating gritty realities with Billy's hearty dancing, all without spoofing the characters. Even my daughter commented on how even side characters had "something to care about." LOTS of foul language but not done in a way that kids would emulate. Several mentions of sex but the Irish accents are so strong that my kids mostly missed them. They thought "fanny" was "bunny." Do turn off closed captioning when Billy goes to the little girl's bedroom. Do watch this one with the kids... treasure trove of stuff they will need and may WANT to discuss with you.

 
"I cried, laughed, and was DEEPLY INSPIRED by this film!"
This movie is set in England in the mid 80's. It is an inspring movie about a boy that is willing to do whatever it takes to follow his dream. Nothing a teenager hasn't seen. BEWARE OF THE F-BOMBS. Brief oblique references to sex, drag queen. It is a must see for 13 and up. 10-12: iffy and 9 under: OFF LIMITS

15KPM
teen, 15 years old
 
Amazing Movie!
There is very bad language throughout, coming from the mouths of children. There is also some homophobic comments but they do eventually learn to accept it. In general, this is a very good movie!

alexa kell
kid, 13 years old
 
good movie
well i learned a couple things. 1. a puff means in england 2. bill's friend is a puff. 3. boys cant do ballet. touching movie. might offend some boys. and i am not a phobe. very much used ba- and b- and f-. i was supriesed to see billy cuss and hes only like 12. i reccommend it for 12. 11 if they know thier words, 10 if they know what gay is and thier words and it may make kids who understand cry (i know it did to me)

eggman
teen, 16 years old
 
great
great movie, lots of language but if u promise ur parents u wont repeat it it shouldn't be a problom. some violence that may frighten younger children. goooooooooood movie.


kid, 12 years old
 
A Great Family Movie
Billy Elliot is a great movie with positive messages. It is a heartwarming portrayal of a great story. Yes, theres quite a lot of swearing but just tell kids not to use them words and besides some words might not be understood in place like the USA because its british slang.


teen, 14 years old
 
A Great Family Movie
Billy Elliot is a great movie with positive messages. It is a heartwarming portrayal of a great story. Yes, theres quite a lot of swearing but just tell kids not to use them words and besides some words might not be understood in place like the USA because its british slang.


kid, 11 years old
 
A Great Family Movie
Billy Elliot is a great movie with positive messages. It is a heartwarming portrayal of a great story. Yes, theres quite a lot of swearing but just tell kids not to use them words and besides some words might not be understood in place like the USA because its british slang.

popornrox
kid, 13 years old
 
It is a great story line for 16 and over!
I thought it is a great story line and a great message, but I saw it on the Broadway musical and it used so many bad words, practically one in every sentence! I do not recommend this to kids until they are at least 16 because this was not appropriate!

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