Okay, so going into this movie you should know that it is about REAL people and that their lives weren't easy - so that's where the warning for bad language, bad role models, sexual (very lightly) implied, and violence come from. I went into this film explaining to my child that some people actually live like this, and that this is their reality. I also hi-lighted the positive role models in Micheal Oher's story who "choose" to help him and therefore probably change the whole course of his life for the better. Positive message that one person can make a difference and by doing so make things better.
You have to make your own decision regarding what you child is ready to watch and there are scenes here that are tricky in terms of language and threats. But this is a great movie for getting kids to think about what they have compared to others who have less and how someone can make really a difference in another's life by doing the right thing. Parents should be aware that at the end of the movie, Leighanne makes a joking, but nonetheless verbally graphic, threat to Michael if he gets a girl pregnant in college that might be a little much for younger kids.
We watched this as a family with my 6-year-old daughter and 10-year-old son. Yes there were minimal disturbing scenes, but overall it was a great family film (very good messages). As far as the cussing, my kids know the words and know not to use them. That is not a huge issue for us. I thought the (very short) scene of Michael going back to hang with his old friends and acquaintances in a gang den was a good way to show what can happen when people choose the wrong friends. Things can get ugly & violent fast with people of low character. Kids need to know this. Whether you show them in a movie now or later is up to you. So for our family, it was a good discussion to have. The only reason Michael got out alive was he was so HUGE to overpower the people (armed with guns) in the room. And the couple kissing each other were the married couple (not the end of the world). Overall, great film, but you have to decide for yourself what your kids threshold is.
I took my 11 and 7 year old girls to see this. Our family's well off in many ways and I often tell my children how lucky they are to have all the gifts that they have. This movie helped them to see the other side of life - about poverty, racism, life as a minority, etc, but also about the qualities of perseverance, hard work and sacrifice. My 7 year old found it intense in a couple places and there were some things that went over her head, but she really liked it. Knowing it was a true story made it even better.
This is a gorgeous movie. The acting, the story, and the direction, can be summed up in just four syllables: unmissable. Every actor was terrific and the story played out very well. I must be honest, I am not usually into these uplifting dramas (when I want to be cheered up, I usually go for a heartfelt comedy), but my friends really wanted me to see this, so I did, and I am glad I did. This is a remarkable film. PARENTS: there are some scenes of intense violence, including a car crash, a fight including gunfire, and football action. there are also both sexual and drug references, and plenty of language, ranging from mild to racially strong. I am surprised at the MPAA for its lack of film rating description. If I were to rate it, I would put PG-13 for some Violence, Language, Sexual and Drug References. Anyway, I absolutely recommend this uplifting film (P.S., it's not a football movie; it has football, but it's not a football movie). Thanks for reading - Movie Man
Although there were concerns, as there are in any movie based upon a true story, my wife and I absolutely enjoyed this movie. It was a heart-warming reminder that in a world of racism, injustice, and government led poverty, there are still people out there who love others in spite of their own views, socio-economic background, or race. Of course, this movie had some really good football shots which touched my Neanderthal side. There's just nothing like football! The major concern I have is with stereotypes. In this movie any person of affluence is white. To my knowledge there were only two persons of color in any position of positive influence. My hope is that this is to better represent the world Michael Oher found himself in with "White Walls." No movie can touch on every subject and do it justice. This was a good representation, and hopefully quite accurate, of a kid with a need that was met by a person willing to think outside the box of her own upbringing and influences.
I wasn't thrilled about going to this movie (another feel-good "chick flick"), but afterwards was very impressed. This is an excellent movie, and not the shallow, feel-good movie I expected. It feels real, deep, and the acting is fabulous. Sandra Bullock gives her best performance in this film, hands down. Of all the warnings given about this film (violence, language, allusion to sex, etc.), the only thing that made me cringe a little is the very beginning of the film, when real footage of Joe Thiesman's injury is shown (probably because I remember watching when that happened and being creeped out by it). Besides that, I found the movie fairly tame. I didn't feel like it tried to be all things to all people (yes, the African-Americans depicted in the film are largely impoverished drug-users, but that's the environment Michael Ohers grew up in, and the the white people are rich suburbanites, but, again, that was the Tuohys' world); it just presented a straight-forward, but very touching true story of real-life heroes.
I loved the movie and so did my family--husband and kids (16 and 11). I consider myself strict when it comes to deciding the appropriateness of movies I take my kids to. The "violence" in the movie is seconds long and not graphic. The affection between the husband and wife is also necessary--isn't that how children learn about what marriage is about? I thought the marriage was portrayed as healthy and stable--a couple who raised successful children. To make a long story short, the positive lessons of the movie far outweigh the minute negativities (that I consider a necessary part of the story).
The first thing that hit me about this movie was how we can be so self absorbed in the little drama's within our own lives, that we often forget to appreciate the little things, like a bed of our own.
I can see the use of the references to "t-ts" and the other mild language as part of the story, but Hollywood just had to add the real trash to the movie near the end with "If you get any girl pregnant, I will get in my car and drive up here and cut off your p-n-s". What is that all about!?! I don't care if that was real life or not, it's disturbing and did not belong in a movie that was so good up to that point. My 13 year boy was turned off to it after that. Why did they have to ruin the end of the movie?
This movie was a lot funnier than I expected it to be. Lots of laughs and a positive message. Cheesy at times, but overall really good. I don't know if tweens/teens would enjoy it as much as I did, unless perhaps they are really into football.
This is a very good movie, not overly religious at all, positive message, not white helping a black, but an affluent helping out one in need. Sandra Bullock is great in her role. Great conversations with my 11 year old daughter about issues brought up. I would not/did not take my 8 year old son. Parents need to make sure kids are mature enough to understand the scene in a drug room fight with guns.
Good flick. If your kids are 14 or older, take them. Some great lessons, our kids rate it five*. Note: communists and socialists may not like this film.
Younger kids may be bored, but this film tells the inspiring true story of Michael Oher. The film is very well done and there is very little objectionable material. An overall fantastic film.
Loved this movie. A little gang violence, and one sexual conversation between a gang member and the main character. However this movie was completely redeemed by the positive roll models. Take your teen girls to see this movie, forget about Twilight. I'm definitely buying it when it comes out, and I don't buy them unless it's worth buying.
S. Jhoanna Robledo missed it. The story was about relationships. More important then the "stuff" you have to go through, what are the results. I would just as soon have it glosses over the many challenges for all concerned because those challenges are given. What is important is that someone did care and that someone did something. The story also doesn't skirt the issue of prejudice, it displays examples of it through out the film. It also showed how one family and each of their members can impact a young person's life.
The fact that this movie is based on a true story makes it even more powerful. You realize just how much one person can change another's life for the better if they reach out.