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Bride Wars

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    Not age appropriate for kids under 10, age appropriate for kids over 12; suggested age 12.

  • Is it any good?

    2.0
  • Common Sense says

    Wedding comedy amuses but has inconsistent messages.

Themes in this movie include:   family relationships, friendship, materialism
updated 10.02.09

Why We Rated This on for Ages 12 and Up

What to watch out for

  • Messages:

    Best friends seem more interested in their wedding days than in their actual marriages, and they let wedding planning get in the way of their friendship.
  • Role models:

    The main characters are fairly two-dimensional and definitely play up gender stereotypes related to shopping and consumerism.
  • Violence:

    A quick pushing and shoving fight between the two brides.
  • Sex:

    A couple of scenes of the actresses in hot pants or bras. Several kisses between the engaged couples, who live together and are seen sleeping/cuddling in bed. Male strippers (all shirtless) are shown in the bachelorette party scene.
  • Language:

    "Mother Eff" (not the whole word, just "Eff"), plus some insults like "jerk," "ass," etc.
  • Consumerism:

    Brands featured include Apple (several Macs and iPods), Tiffany, Vera Wang, The Knot magazine, Bloomingdale's, and Dolce & Gabbana. It's also practically a commercial for The Plaza Hotel.
  • Drinking, drugs, & smoking:

    Adults drink alcohol at various wedding receptions, and the brides-to-be and their friends get drunk on tequila shots at their bachelorette party. One character seems to be tipsy most of the time.

What Parents Need to Know

This review of Bride Wars was written by Sandie Angulo Chen

Parents need to know that this comedy, while mildly amusing and generally age-appropriate for older tweens (who are sure to want to see it), plays up stereotypes about women with its emphasis on shopping, consumerism, and conflict between friends. The main characters are fairly two dimensional, and they seem much more caught up in having the perfect wedding than in having a strong marriage. That said, the language is mild ("ass" and the like), and the sexuality is on the milder side (kisses, a brief glimpse at a bra and panties as a character changes) -- though a bachelorette party scene includes shirtless male strippers. There is a notable amount of drinking (tequila shots, especially), and prominently featured brands include the Plaza Hotel, Apple, Tiffany, and Vera Wang.

Families Can Talk About

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  • Families can talk about how the movie portrays its two main characters -- why do they make their weddings into such a big deal? Why can't they just have two separate ceremonies in different places?
  • What did trying to have a dream wedding cost Emma and Liv -- emotionally and financially? Is it a good message to send girls that everyone "deserves" a fancy wedding at the Plaza? Why are weddings such a big deal in general?
  • What role does the media play in making us think that the wedding is as important as the marriage?
  • Parents, talk with your tweens about what a wedding really signifies -- and what happens after the big day. The bachelorette party scene might also prompt a discussion about stripping. What's the appeal? Why does it play such a prominent role in movies/TV shows about bachelor and bachelorette parties?
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What’s the Story?

Best friends since childhood, middle-school teacher Emma (Anne Hathaway) and high-powered attorney Liv (Kate Hudson), share one common dream -- a June wedding at Manhattan's storied Plaza Hotel. When both women get engaged the same week, they immediately hire the city's best-known wedding planner (Candice Bergen) to secure two dates in June. All is satin and lace until the brides-to-be discover that the Plaza accidentally booked both of their weddings for the same date -- meaning that one of them has to switch her venue, or they'll be hosting competing nuptials (guess which way things go?). For most of the movie, the lifelong BFFs turn into archrival bridezillas out to sabotage each other's weddings while their fiancés (Chris Pratt and Steve Howey) sit around looking helpless and confused.

Is It Any Good?

BRIDE WARS is more of the same romcom fluff that Hudson -- whose career high is still her early, Oscar-nominated role in Almost Famous -- has been stuck in since How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days. Hathaway, however, has been getting more acclaim thanks to roles in grittier fare like Rachel Getting Married, so it's hard not to consider this wedding flick a major step down. Not that the target audience -- young girls and engaged women -- will care. Weddings and all their myriad details -- fondant cakes, designer gowns, letter-pressed invitations, personalized everything -- are a huge obsession for many women, and bridal junkies in the audience will definitely get their fix.

For what it is -- a 90-minute reverie for young girls who dream of the "perfect" (read: super expensive) wedding -- the movie does provide some laughs (like the scene portraying how Liv and Em's still-unmarried friends take the news of their double engagement), and even a message. Just what that message is, however, is debatable. On the one hand, there's the obvious idea that a wedding is worthless without the right groom and your best friend by your side. But there's also an inescapable sense that a wedding (or the marriage that follows it) isn't quite worth it unless it comes packaged in Tiffany blue.

Movie Details

Studio: Twentieth Century Fox, Director: Gary Winick
Run time: 90 minutes
Theatrical release: 1/9/2009, DVD release: 4/28/2009
MPAA Rating: PG for suggestive content, language and some rude behavior

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Most Recent Reviews

  1. Kid Reviewer Age 12
    Lives in North Carolina
    I rate this title on for age 11 and give it 5.0
    • My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content
    • Inappropriate language

    Better for older kids... not so much for children...

    I absolutely LOVE this movie!! It's humerous and is great to watch with the family!!

  2. Kid Reviewer Age 11
    I rate this title iffy for age 8 and give it 4.0
    • My concerns are:
    • Excessive violence
    • Inappropriate sexual content
    • Negative message
    • Negative role models

  3. Kid Reviewer Age 12
    I rate this title iffy for age 11 and give it 4.0
    • My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate language

    FUNNY MOVIE!!!! language might be a little strong. i heard one motherf--ker.

  4. I rate this title on for age 12 and give it 4.0
    • My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content

    Great chick flick

    OMG sooo funny! The 2 ladies who r going 2 get married get in this big fight and do all this hilarious stuff to each other.

  5. Kid Reviewer Age 12
    Lives in Tennessee
    I rate this title on for age 11 and give it 4.0

    great for tweens and up

    I loved bride wars i thought it was very funny but there was some language

  6. I rate this title on for age 12 and give it 3.0
    • My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content

    I loved it!

    i thought it was very funny however the batchorlerette party was a bit inaproriete for young childen.

  7. Teen Reviewer Age 13
    Lives in California
    I rate this title iffy for age 9 and give it 3.0
    • My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content
    • Inappropriate language

    Shoudnt be PG

    It was boring and predictable. We all fell asleep

  8. Parent Reviewer
    I rate this title on for age 14 and give it 2.0
    • My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content
    • Excessive consumerism
    • Drinking, smoking, or drug use
    • Negative message

  9. Teen Reviewer Age 13
    Lives in Indiana
    I rate this title iffy for age 8 and give it 4.0
    • My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content
    • Drinking, smoking, or drug use
    • My highlights are:
    • Good role models

    HILARIOUS MOVIE!!! A little IFFY for Kids Under 8

    Language wasn't THAT bad. And yes, the bachelorette party was a bit IFFY but other than that just fine. I mean one time they showed a girl in her underwear, but personally, I don't think that matters we all wear underwear!!! lol Well anyway, hilarious, great movie!!!

  10. Teen Reviewer Age 16
    Lives in California
    I rate this title iffy for age 12 and give it 3.0
    • My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content
    • Excessive consumerism
    • Drinking, smoking, or drug use

    Shouldn't Be PG

    I personally thought it was adorable, nonetheless fairly predictable...Although it should not have been rated PG. The dance scene at the bar and the bachelorette party stripper are not kid-friendly.

  11. Kid Reviewer Age 11
    Lives in Pennsylvania
    I rate this title on for age 10 and give it 3.0

    Not too muich to say!

    It is a good movie, but not my favorite. I don't have anything else to say.

  12. Kid Reviewer Age 12
    Lives in Illinois
    I rate this title iffy for age 12 and give it 2.0
    • My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content
    • Inappropriate language
    • My highlights are:
    • Positive messages
    • Good role models

    Bride wars is a cliched-driven mess

    Bride wars was a complete waste of time and money. It was cliche, predictable, tedious, and boring. It starts out average at best, then immediately goes downhill. Despite maybe two or three funny scenes, the film is terrible on every level. Don't let the advertisements or trailers fool you. It's godawful. For sexual content, there is a scene that involves a male stripper (nothing sexual happens), but women dance provocatively. A woman is seen wearing a bikini at a summer beach party, but is partially crucial to the story. A guy says "I wish everyday would be take your hot girlfriend to work day". A man says "Your arrested for being too sexy". A man calls his girlfriend sexy multiple times. For violence, there's a brief "cat fight" but no one gets hurt or injured. For profanity, it's very raunchy for a PG film. The b word is used at least twice along with one anatomical and scatological term. There are positive role models and messages which is kind of the film's point.

  13. Kid Reviewer Age 11
    Lives in Florida
    I rate this title for age 10 and give it 4.0
    • My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content

    Not for kids younger than 9!

    Pretty good movie i thought it would way worse. Only problem was the the bachelorette party and the police guy! but im a chick flick fan and this was a chick flick!

  14. Kid Reviewer Age 10
    Lives in New York
    I rate this title on for age 10 and give it 5.0
    • My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content

    you always think for your self

    this movie is funny romantic epic i think that some parts were kind of really not for the movie it through me off a little but if i was a crittic i would give it 5 stars

  15. Kid Reviewer Age 10
    Lives in Georgia
    I rate this title on for age 17 and give it 1.0
    • My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content

    hall

  16. Teen Reviewer Age 15
    I rate this title on for age 13 and give it 4.0
    • My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate language
    • Negative message

    I loved the story, it was very cute and had an adorable ending, but the part where the couples lived together before marriage was dissapointing. Also, the bachelorette party was very innapropriate and didn't help the story at. But, it was a sweet movie...

  17. Teen Reviewer Age 15
    Lives in California
    I rate this title on for age 11 and give it 1.0
    • My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content
    • Inappropriate language
    • Drinking, smoking, or drug use
    • Negative message

    Ok for tweens

    They don't say anything too bad, I just thought it was a horrible movie. Expected everything and was just horribly made. I love Anne Hathaway, but this was stupid.

  18. Adult Reviewer
    Lives in Utah
    I rate this title on for age 13 and give it 3.0
    • My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content

    Predictable plot w/ some humor

    Has funny moments and it's very predictable, but I think that's what they were going for. Minor swearing, but one scene at the bacholerette party was a little awkward. Probably should have been a little closer to a PG-13. Not for younger kids.

  19. Teen Reviewer Age 14
    Lives in New York
    I rate this title on for age 10 and give it 4.0
    • My concerns are:
    • Negative message

    It was a great movie

    It was a great movie. Ann Hatherway and Kate Hudson were great in this movie. You should see it with your best friend. You will be laughing

  20. Teen Reviewer Age 14
    Lives in Georgia
    I rate this title iffy for age 13 and give it 4.0
    • My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content
    • Inappropriate language
    • Drinking, smoking, or drug use

    Ok, this movie was pretty hilarious! I thought it was a great chick flick for 13-14+, but no younger. There is a scene at a bachelorette party that involves extremely suggestive dancing by Hudson and Hathaway.

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