Bride Wars (PG, 2009)

common sense media says

Wedding comedy amuses but has inconsistent messages.


parents & educators say
  • 38% say sexual content is an issue

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this comedy, while mildly amusing and generally age-appropriate for older tweens (who are sure to want to see it), plays up stereotypes about women with its emphasis on shopping, consumerism, and conflict between friends. The main characters are fairly two dimensional, and they seem much more caught up in having the perfect wedding than in having a strong marriage. That said, the language is mild ("ass" and the like), and the sexuality is on the milder side (kisses, a brief glimpse at a bra and panties as a character changes) -- though a bachelorette party scene includes shirtless male strippers. There is a notable amount of drinking (tequila shots, especially), and prominently featured brands include the Plaza Hotel, Apple, Tiffany, and Vera Wang.

Positive messages: Best friends seem more interested in their wedding days than in their actual marriages, and they let wedding planning get in the way of their friendship.
Positive role models: The main characters are fairly two-dimensional and definitely play up gender stereotypes related to shopping and consumerism.
Violence: A quick pushing and shoving fight between the two brides.
Sex: A couple of scenes of the actresses in hot pants or bras. Several kisses between the engaged couples, who live together and are seen sleeping/cuddling in bed. Male strippers (all shirtless) are shown in the bachelorette party scene.
Language: "Mother Eff" (not the whole word, just "Eff"), plus some insults like "jerk," "ass," etc.
Consumerism: Brands featured include Apple (several Macs and iPods), Tiffany, Vera Wang, The Knot magazine, Bloomingdale's, and Dolce & Gabbana. It's also practically a commercial for The Plaza Hotel.
Drinking, drugs, & smoking: Adults drink alcohol at various wedding receptions, and the brides-to-be and their friends get drunk on tequila shots at their bachelorette party. One character seems to be tipsy most of the time.

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What to talk about

Talk to your kids
  • Families can talk about how the movie portrays its two main characters -- why do they make their weddings into such a big deal? Why can't they just have two separate ceremonies in different places?

  • What did trying to have a dream wedding cost Emma and Liv -- emotionally and financially? Is it a good message to send girls that everyone "deserves" a fancy wedding at the Plaza? Why are weddings such a big deal in general?

  • What role does the media play in making us think that the wedding is as important as the marriage?

  • Parents, talk with your tweens about what a wedding really signifies -- and what happens after the big day. The bachelorette party scene might also prompt a discussion about stripping. What's the appeal? Why does it play such a prominent role in movies/TV shows about bachelor and bachelorette parties?

What's the story?

What's the story?

Best friends since childhood, middle-school teacher Emma (Anne Hathaway) and high-powered attorney Liv (Kate Hudson), share one common dream -- a June wedding at Manhattan's storied Plaza Hotel. When both women get engaged the same week, they immediately hire the city's best-known wedding planner (Candice Bergen) to secure two dates in June. All is satin and lace until the brides-to-be discover that the Plaza accidentally booked both of their weddings for the same date -- meaning that one of them has to switch her venue, or they'll be hosting competing nuptials (guess which way things go?). For most of the movie, the lifelong BFFs turn into archrival bridezillas out to sabotage each other's weddings while their fiancés (Chris Pratt and Steve Howey) sit around looking helpless and confused.

Is it any good?

Is it any good?
 

BRIDE WARS is more of the same romcom fluff that Hudson -- whose career high is still her early, Oscar-nominated role in Almost Famous -- has been stuck in since How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days. Hathaway, however, has been getting more acclaim thanks to roles in grittier fare like Rachel Getting Married, so it's hard not to consider this wedding flick a major step down. Not that the target audience -- young girls and engaged women -- will care. Weddings and all their myriad details -- fondant cakes, designer gowns, letter-pressed invitations, personalized everything -- are a huge obsession for many women, and bridal junkies in the audience will definitely get their fix.

For what it is -- a 90-minute reverie for young girls who dream of the "perfect" (read: super expensive) wedding -- the movie does provide some laughs (like the scene portraying how Liv and Em's still-unmarried friends take the news of their double engagement), and even a message. Just what that message is, however, is debatable. On the one hand, there's the obvious idea that a wedding is worthless without the right groom and your best friend by your side. But there's also an inescapable sense that a wedding (or the marriage that follows it) isn't quite worth it unless it comes packaged in Tiffany blue.

Movie themes & details

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Movie Details
Studio: Twentieth Century Fox
Director: Gary Winick
Cast: Anne Hathaway, Bryan Greenberg, Kate Hudson
Genre: Comedy
Run time: 90 minutes
Theatrical release: January 9, 2009
DVD release: April 28, 2009
MPAA Rating: PG
MPAA explanation: suggestive content, language and some rude behavior
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Based on 16 parent & educator reviews:
  • 38% say sexual content is an issue

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zasderfght
teen, 14 years old
 
Bride wars is a cliched-driven mess
Bride wars was a complete waste of time and money. It was cliche, predictable, tedious, and boring. It starts out average at best, then immediately goes downhill. Despite maybe two or three funny scenes, the film is terrible on every level. Don't let the advertisements or trailers fool you. It's godawful. For sexual content, there is a scene that involves a male stripper (nothing sexual happens), but women dance provocatively. A woman is seen wearing a bikini at a summer beach party, but is partially crucial to the story. A guy says "I wish everyday would be take your hot girlfriend to work day". A man says "Your arrested for being too sexy". A man calls his girlfriend sexy multiple times. For violence, there's a brief "cat fight" but no one gets hurt or injured. For profanity, it's very raunchy for a PG film. The b word is used at least twice along with one anatomical and scatological term. There are positive role models and messages which is kind of the film's point.

 
No appropriate for tweens
I took my 12 yr old daughter to see this and it was the most embarrassed I have ever been. It was a cute movie till the bachellorette scene. Men dancing around in hot shorts with dollar bills haning out. Drinking and swinging on stripper ropes. Provokitive dancing, dress, and actions. That 5 minute scene ruined the whole movie.

 
Shouldn't Be PG
I personally thought it was adorable, nonetheless fairly predictable...Although it should not have been rated PG. The dance scene at the bar and the bachelorette party stripper are not kid-friendly.

EricCarrRulez
teen, 14 years old
 
Hysterical.

MovieFan777
teen, 16 years old
 
Bridal Supremacy To The Max
Bride Wars is truly a wedding comedy you will want to enjoy over and over. This is all because of Anne Hathaway, and Kate Hudson's performances. And the only reason this film bombed at the box office is because people don't understand that these short of wedding situations actually sometimes happen. So ignore the critics and give this delightful comedy a try!

Posimalfi94
kid, 12 years old
 

Cartoon Raindrops
teen, 16 years old
 
I loved it!
i thought it was very funny however the batchorlerette party was a bit inaproriete for young childen.

AlisonRox
kid, 12 years old
 
Funny but stupid.
It was a pretty mediocre movie - nothing too special. It was quite funny. The sexual behavior wasn't that bad, but there was a stripper in the bachelor party and women dance in a provocative but no intense sex scenes happen. There is a funny cat fight scene which I laughed at openly. I was watching this with a few classmates and they were all like 'PUNCH HER!'. The drinking is moderate but the brides and their friends get drunk at the bachelor party. The language is pretty mild. Overall, this is a funny but stupid movie.

Miria and Joey
kid, 11 years old
 
bride wars rocks
it is brilliant and will never no be good it is a true love stoy and that is what some people at the age of 10 like me like to be prepared for later in life when i watch more romantic one's when i am in my 30's!

bebefefe
teen, 14 years old
 
It was good but not for kids!
Overall, great movie to see with your girlfriends. But if you're thinking of letting your child watch it, think twice! The movie is overall not that inappropriate but there was a lot of drinking which doesn't seem to be a problem if you're kids are already around that or if it's okay to watch it.But the language is on and off, some of the actors may use words that for you are not okay for your children to hear, and the bachlorette party scene was not okay for kids to see in my opinion. But have fun with your friends and watch it with them!

 
Ugh...
Pointless chick flick. Not for younger girls and boys will flee. I just don't see the point in teaching petty, ridiculous, selfish behavior that is displayed by two over-dramatic, caricatures of women.

walrusgirlie@y ...
teen, 13 years old
 
funny for girls who are age-appropriate.
I LOVED this movie,because my aunt is in the middle of planning her wedding though there is an inappropriate scene at a batchelorette party, as long as you skip it, it is really good and funny.

 
bw
Swears B----, a--, mother eff, and some loud yells A woman jumps on a nother and wrestle a man says sex, some bad dance moves and kisses and bras podect placement dresses drinking people being sabitoged, but they make up

chrisakeith
parent of and 12 , 15 , 18 year old
 
Funny but should this only be PG?
A funny movie. I thought Anne Hathaway was a more believable character than Kate Hudson but they played off of each other pretty well. Overall, the movie was enjoyable. I was disturbed for the 2nd time lately that I had taken my 9 year old son. Since when is "Mother-F" and "G-D**n" in PG movies? I also don't remember the male strippers in The Chronicals of Narnia, Speed Racer, Kung Fu Panda or Journey to the Center of the Earth, all PG movies. Marley and Me and now Bride Wars has changed what PG movies now represent. Be careful if you have young children and think this movie will be appropriate because it is PG.

Smiles663
kid, 13 years old
 
Iffy
Bad role models, selfish messages, and too much product placement makes this movie a difficult bump in the media road. It is a funny flick, but is overcome by bad messages. I watched it in 3rd grade (WAY to young), and had trouble processing what was happening. I look upon it like an over complicated catfight of a commercial. If your looking for a funny marrige movie, go with the proposal. That ones WAY better.

carmenita1324
kid, 13 years old
 
It was funny, but there was a scene with male strippers and a strip tease. If those five minutes were not included, it would be better.

 
Fun for a girl's night out, but not a kid!
This movie made my friend and I laugh, but I sure wouldn't take kids. Unless you're ready to explain to them why the male dancers are stripping, the female is swinging from a rope and they are grinding together, I wouldn't bring anyone under 15 for sure. I really question the PG rating. There are just a couple of swear words, but enough drinking that would make me uncomfortable to have a young person along.

shelbyt33
kid, 11 years old
 
I saw this movie with my friend , on DVD just one bad word and and 1 odd scene but still an ok movie for kids 10+ but when we where watching her 7 year old sister was watching it and we where fine with it so...

mason123456
teen, 14 years old
 
average chick flick. halfway decent.
its not that bad of a movie for kids to watch i think id let a 7 year old watch it (if they wanted to). if you care about "consumerism" there is a lot of that and the two brides yea they seem a little selfish sooo that sends a bad message.

rosie23
teen, 14 years old
 
Lazy
They were really lazy in making this film. In the scene where Halloway pushes opens the glass doors before takling Hudson you can clearly see the camraman in the reflection of the mirrors behind Her. I'm not kidding!

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