Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind

  • Review Date: September 27, 2004
  • R
  • Genre: Drama
  • 2004
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Common Sense Media says

Imaginative, loopy romance is for adults only.
greenON: Content is age-appropriate for kids this age.
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What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this movie has extremely strong language and very explicit sexual references and situations. Characters drink and smoke cigarettes and marijuana.


What's the story?

Joel (Jim Carrey) is a shy man whose heart is broken when impulsive and free-spirited Clementine (Kate Winslet) leaves him. When he finds out that she's going to have all of her memories of him erased, he decides to do the same and consults Dr. Howard Mierzwiak (Tom Wilkenson) of the Lacuna corporation, who talks him into the procedure. Joel brings everything that reminds him of Clementine and dictates all of his memories of her into a tape recorder. Then Stan (Mark Ruffalo), the Lacuna technician, begins the process of erasing Clementine's memory from Joel's brain. Mary (Kirsten Dunst), Lacuna's receptionist, mails out postcards to Joel's friends asking them never to mention Clementine again. But erasing someone from the mind is one thing; erasing someone from the heart is another. As Stan zaps the memories from Joel's brain, Joel realizes that he does not want to let Clementine go after all. There are memories he wants to keep. And then we are inside Joel's brain (or were we there all along?), as he and Clementine race to find a place to hide, where the memories will be kept safe. Or are those new memories? And is that Clementine who is advising him on how to hold on to her or is it his memory of her?


Is it any good?

 

This fabulously imaginative and deliciously loopy romance is the sweetest movie yet from the magnificently twisty mind of writer Charlie Kaufman, who plays with the themes of identity, time, memory, and attraction in a slightly off-kilter world that seems oddly homelike and familiar. Shot in a style that is both gritty and dreamy, the movie's insinuatingly casual tone gently nudges the concepts along so that it almost begins to make more sense than real life.

Carrey and Winslet risk making their characters as maddening to us as they are to each other and are ultimately as irresistible, too. Ruffalo, Wilkenson, and Dunst are impeccable, providing a bittersweet counterpoint of imperfection and longing. Director Michel Gondry matches Kaufman's script with understated but brilliantly original imagery of memory and forgetting.


Explore, discuss, enjoy

Families can talk about which memories they might think about erasing and which ones they will always make sure to keep. They might also like to look up the meaning of the word "Lacuna," talk about some of their favorite quotations and read some of the brilliant poetry of Alexander Pope.


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Adult
April 9, 2008
 
good movie if you want something complex..
Sometimes we're in the mood for a romance that isn't so sally-met-harry and little more unpredictable... this is definitely one of them. A good movie that keeps you thinking-- good acting. For more mature audiences..

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Adult
April 9, 2008
 
incomprehensible
What were these two excellent actors thinking. This is a stupid, ill conceived somewhat sour movie. COmpletely missable.

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Teen, 14 years old
February 23, 2010
 
I really didn't have a problem with it...
Coming from an average, well raised fourteen year old girl, I didn't have much of a problem tolerating the content. It's not like any of it is new....there's a bit of smoking marijuana, nudity....well, most teenagers have seen that before most likely in heath class or movies. I think that it was creatively brilliant and had fantastic directing/acting, so my recommendation is: give it a shot, close your eyes at the nudity if you want (it's not too graphic, I promise), and you may actually like it. :) Hope I helped :)
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Teen, 13 years old
April 13, 2009
 
BRILLIANT!!!!
This is, by far, the best work that Jim Carrey has EVER done; even better than "The Truman Show." Also turning in a rather fabulous performance is one of my favorite actresses, the marvelous Kate Winslet. Charlie Kauffman once again proves his brilliance in this, zany, eccentric, and undeniably sweet romantic comedy-sci fi-thing. The film begins at the end, one of the brilliances of it, so my review may prove to be confusing, but one of the films' many strengths is the way that it takes sucha complicated idea and make it easy-to-follow without being simple or shallow. Here goes nothin': Jim Carrey boards a train and meets Kate Winslet, and they sprak a relationship. Then the film goes forward (or backward?) in time to where he and she broke up. While attempting to win back Winslet's Clementine, Carrey's Joel realizes that there's something fishy going on. Led by her friends to a company that erases minds called Lacuna (Brilliant, isn't it), used primarily for bad relationships. Joel decides to have the same done, but begins second guessung himself as they start the procedure. And that's only the beginning. We then go inside Joel's mind, where a conscious version of himself desperately tries two things to keep them from erasing Clementine forever: 1. Wake himself up or 2. Hide her in memories that they'd never think to look in. *BREATH* Isn't that positively labyrinthine? And as that story continues and we learn more about Joel's early life, we learn that the relationships at Lacuna are just as messed up as the people that they treat. This is definitely one of my favorite films, and would reccomend it to anyone who is a teenager. Personally, I think that Common Sense overreacted with the whole 17+ thing for there was some suggestive material (brief drug use, sexual content without nudity) but it was nothing that I hadn't been exposed to before nor do I think that many teens haven't. So run, don't walk, to see "Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind," you definitely won't be sorry.

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Teen, 13 years old
April 9, 2008
 
eternal sunshine of absolutly no mind
this movie sucked. It has no music through the entire thing. Anybody could watch it! just don't.

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Teen, 16 years old
April 9, 2008
 
An excellent film that should have been nominated for more than what it was
I think it was only nominated for like two awards (my memory is hazy from that Academy Awards celebration). But obvisouly, I just watched it for the reason that I had to wait a bit before seeing the movie. But I didn't really think there was that much wrong with it (it was certainly better content-wise than "Crash"), but really the most apparent concerns are the language and sexual situations. Other than that, this is a brilliant movie that is quite fun and original.

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Teen, 16 years old
October 2, 2010
 
Meet Me in Montauk
Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind has been one of my favorite movies for a long time. Other reviewers below have talked about the various bits of foul language and sexual content that happen in the movie, so I'll advise you to believe what they say below instead of just repeating it here. I'd rather take this space to convince you to see it instead of reading reviews about the film online. This Michel Gondry-directed gem of a movie is all about heartache, and the notion of erasing painful memories from the mind. Charlie Kaufman's script rings with honesty and unconventional romance, and Jon Brion's score lends a beautiful air of melancholy to the picture. As for the acting, Jim Carrey proves that he is better at dramatic roles than he is comedic ones, and Kate Winslet herself earned a Best Actress nomination for her role as the mixed-up Clementine. After I saw this movie for the first time, I felt like laughing and crying simultaneously. Years later, I still remember that one scene on the beach at night. It's just that memorable
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Studio:Focus Features
Director:Michel Gondry
Cast:Elijah Wood, Jim Carrey, Kate Winslet
Genre:Drama
Run time:110 minutes
Theatrical release date:March 12, 2004
DVD release date:September 27, 2004
MPAA rating:R
MPAA explanation:language, some drug and sexual content

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