This is an Oscar worthy film, that should have nominated, it was incredible, there are some sexual situations, so, it depends on your child, as a mature teen, I know that joining the CIA or sleeping with people I barely know, or killing people because of their political or religous beliefs is wrong, and most kids my age would not be interested in seeing it at all, but, if your 13 year old is interested, watch it with them, it's a great movie.