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I Am Sam
- Review Date: May 19, 2003
- PG-13
- Genre: Drama
- 2002
Common Sense Media says
Moving film with great acting seems too contrived.
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What parents need to know
Parents need to know that this movie has the requisite one f-word, now standard in PG-13 movies, and some other mild language. There is a stong reference to adultery. Lucy's mother is a homeless woman who deserts her after she is born. Some children (and adults) will find the custody conflicts and discussion of parenting issues upsetting.
What's the story?
In I AM SAM, Sam Dawson, a mentally challenged man who wipes the tables at Starbucks, decides to fight for custody of his daughter, Lucy (Dakota Fanning). Although Lucy's mother, a homeless woman, leaves right after Lucy is born, Sam does just fine at first, with help from an agoraphobic neighbor (Dianne Wiest). Sam also gets some help from an entourage of retarded pals, and all goes along pretty well until Lucy, at age seven, begins to surpass Sam intellectually. When Family Protective Services try to take Lucy away, Sam gets intense lawyer Rita Harrison (Michelle Pfeiffer) to help him. And sure enough, she learns from Sam to take time to smell the roses and play with her own son.
Is it any good?
If only the filmmakers had trusted the material and the audience a little more, then I am Sam would not feel so manipulative and dishonest. But by making anyone who thinks that maybe a child needs more than a retarded parent can provide look like a monster, they turn the characters into cardboard. The glowing last scene, with Sam performing in a role that is clearly beyond what he has been shown to be capable of, is just phony. Yeah, I cried, but I was annoyed about it.
But Sean Penn gives a first-rate performance here, and Michelle Pfeiffer holds her own. In smaller parts, Dianne Wiest, Richard Schiff, Mary Steenburgen, and Laura Dern are all very fine as well, and the soundtrack of Beatles songs recorded by some of today's best artists, is a genuine treat. The real miracle of the movie, though, is tiny Dakota Fanning, who gives a performance of such sincerity, subtlety, and delicacy that she almost carries the entire movie herself.
What families can talk about
Families can talk about what Sam should do to give Lucy everything she needs. What problems are they likely to have as she gets older? What did Rita learn from Sam, and why was it only Sam who could teach it to her? A number of the people in the movie struggle with parenting issues -- there has never been a court proceeding in history that permitted such discussion of the family lives of all the participants and witnesses. How do you see those struggles in the families around you?
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Brilliant (though sad) film; Penn, Pfieffer, and Fanning shine.
I Am Sam tells the story of Sam Dawson (Sean Peen), a mentally challenged man who works at IHOP. He is given the surprise of his life when he realizes that he must take care of a child (he accidentally got a homeless woman pregnant when she slept with him). He names the child Lucy Diamond Dawson (Dakota Fanning), after a Beatles song. On her 7th birthday, authorities take away Lucy, thinking that she will have a more successful life if she is parented by someone who isn't mentally challenged. Sam must now fight for his right to maintain custody of Lucy with help from his lawyer Rita (Michelle Pfieffer).
This movie contains strong language for a PG-13. There are several utters of "b*tch", "hell", "g*ddamn", and one use of "f*ck". The movie also contains some sexual content (Rita's husband has sex with other women, Sam gets a homeless woman pregnant by accident, a hooker comes on to Sam in a restaurant) and heavy commercialism for IHOP, The Beatles, and Nickelodeon.
Despite its confusing ending (we don't learn whether or not Sam regains custody of Lucy), I Am Sam is a wonderful movie that I whole-heartedly recommend to everyone.
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I was moved two blocks.
Full of good messages... and bad language. A moving film, too. Will teach kids about the hardships of actually being retarded. One use of f--k and multiple uses of god---n. For those who are dating, this is an absolute date movie.
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i love this movie cos of the message it passes across to everyone.it is a movie that teaches parents to love and create time for their children and all cost.it teaches love (healty)and the power of true friendship
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favorite movie
favorite movie. I cried so much in this movie. He is such a great actor.
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Awesome movie. Language may be too mature for kids
This movie brought me to tears. Sean Penn is such a great actor; everyone in that movie did a wonderful job.
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Commonsensemedia FAILS!
I can't believe how common sense media missed the consumerism!
Product placement is everywhere! They talk about how iHop is the best, He buys "Huggies" diapers (Que zoom in on label), He works at STARBUCKS, (Zooms in on every starbucks logo in the store, talk about how everything in starbucks is a good tasty choice) I've only seen a small bit of this movie so far, but the consumerism is DEFINITELY noticeable! The reviewers really messed up on this one!
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A good messages
BAD WORDS BAD i lets my 11 and my 15 year old wach it but i will wait till my 5 year olds see it till there 7.Some kid will get the messages and some will not BUT it is a good movie for ALL family.The role models thay work hard and keep going on.
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I liked this movie mainly because of the way it portrays people who are mentally disabled. I feel that when people think of the mentally disabled that they automatically think that they are incapable of many things. This movie shows that there are many fully functioning people who are mentally disabled. Another message that I took from the movie is that sometimes people get wrapped up in their work and lose sight of things that are important to them such as their children or their marriage. And sometimes it takes a step back to see the bigger picture. A good movie about love and the great lengths that people will go to retain it.
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great movie!! :)
so i personally think this movie is FANTASTIC, although i'm not to crazy about the language, it's still a great movie, and if you can look past that then well that's good. also it is very emotional so b/c of the language and the fact that it's emotional, i wouldn't recommend watching it with younger kids.
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absolutly amazing
this is a sweet, heart warming film, with an amzing cast and phonomonal acting! the language is pretty heavy, but teens will understand the content.
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| Studio: | Warner Bros. |
| Director: | Jessie Nelson |
| Cast: | Dakota Fanning, Michelle Pfeiffer, Sean Penn |
| Genre: | Drama |
| Run time: | 132 minutes |
| Theatrical release date: | January 25, 2002 |
| DVD release date: | June 18, 2002 |
| MPAA rating: | PG-13 |
| MPAA explanation: | language |
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