This is a great family rom com that will leave you and your loved ones smiling at the end. I highly recomend it! As far as language, sex, violence, drugs, drinking, smoking, ect. , there's not much. There are a few mild uses of the words ja***ss, d**n, hell, and s**t. there are also a few sexual references including a see-thru shower curtin, a scene where a man is wearing nothing but a towel wrapped around his waste, and a man walks into the room while a lady is only wearing skimpy underwear. as far as violence, drinking and drugs, a few men get in a brawl at a bar, and a girl gets very drunk at a wedding. other than that it is a fairly appropriate movie. :)