Love Actually (R, 2003)

common sense media says

Romantic and entertaining -- for older teens.


parents & educators say
  • 41% say sexual content is an issue
  • 32% say language is an issue

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that the movie's R rating comes from some very strong language, sexual references and sexual situations, including prostitutes and adultery, and humorous nudity. A character's history of sex, drugs, and rock and roll is played for humor. There are some tense and sad scenes. Some audience members may object to the portrayal of the American President (Billy Bob Thornton) as a crude bully. One of the movie's many strengths is its matter-of-fact portrayal of loving inter-racial friendship and romance.

Positive messages: Love is all around.
Positive role models: Strong, loving diverse characters.
Violence: Some tense and sad scenes (a funeral for the wife of one of the main characters).
Sex: Sexual references and situations, nudity.
Language: Some very strong language including "f--k."
Consumerism: Not applicable.
Drinking, drugs, & smoking: Drug humor, drinking and smoking.

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What to talk about

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Families can talk about how the characters handle their feelings of loss, longing, and fear.

What's the story?

What's the story?

The interwoven stories of LOVE ACTUALLY all take place in the weeks before Christmas. They include a Prime Minister (Hugh Grant) who is drawn to the outspoken girl who delivers his tea, an 11-year old (Thomas Sangster) who wants to attract the attention of the coolest girl in school, a man in love with his best friend's new bride, a waiter who is sure that all his dreams of romance will come true if he goes to America, a thoroughly married man (Alan Rickman) whose flirtatious secretary is making him wonder how thoroughly married he is, a rock star (Bill Nighy) angling for a comeback with a cheesy Christmas single, a heartbroken writer (Colin Firth) who can't stop thinking about the woman who cleans his house, even though they don't understand each other's languages, and a couple who meet at work as movie stand-ins assigned to increasingly (and hilariously) more intimate poses.

Is it any good?

Is it any good?
 

Love Actually is as stuffed with goodies as the Christmas stockings for those at the very top of Santa's "nice" list -- and it is just as entertaining, too. Richard Curtis, who wrote Four Weddings and a Funeral and Notting Hill for the first time directs his own screenplay with heart and style. It helps, of course, that he has a dream cast, including newcomer Sangster, a real-life cousin of Hugh Grant and already a first-rate actor and a knock-out screen presence. Each of the actors creates complete, endearing, vivid, and vulnerable characters that we will remember long after we have forgotten most "stars" who spend two full hours onscreen in the latest multiplex fodder.

This is a movie about taking big chances (both hopeful and hopeless), about making big gestures to show our love, and about big, big feelings that may make us crazy and miserable but remind us that we are alive and why we are alive. In addition, any movie that manages to include a child dressed as a Nativity lobster, a Bay City Rollers song played at a funeral, love-emergency lessons in both drums and Portuguese, and Hugh Grant dancing through the halls of 10 Downing Street to the Pointer Sisters is worth seeing at least twice.

Movie themes & details

Movie Details
Studio: Universal Pictures
Director: Richard Curtis
Cast: Hugh Grant, Laura Linney, Liam Neeson
Genre: Romance
Run time: 135 minutes
Theatrical release: November 7, 2003
DVD release: April 27, 2004
MPAA Rating: R
MPAA explanation: sexuality, nudity and language

This review was written by Nell Minow
 
 

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What parents & educators say

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Based on 22 parent & educator reviews:
  • 41% say sexual content is an issue
  • 32% say language is an issue

Most useful reviews by all members

missmurder19
teen, 18 years old
 
Great movie, but more for young adults...
Love this movie! It is one of my all-time favorites. Just be wary of the sexual situation scenes and the swearing. It is a perfect movie for Christmas (or anytime!), especially for families with older teens. It's just a feel-good movie.

ocie14
teen, 14 years old
 
Little iffy for young teens, but awesome movie
A fantastic movie. Some scenes are VERY inappropriate, but just skip past them for kids, they aren't important. Also, the bad language can be ignored. Happy messages about love and kindness. Verging on corny, but it is a chick-flick so...what do expect? If you're older than 14 this is a great movie to see.

Corinne26
parent of and 3 , 6 , 9 , 11 , 14 , 18 year old
 
Wonderful! Great for older teens, not for younger teens/tweens.
Both my 16y/o and my 12y/o saw it, but it was far too mature for my 12y/o. There is a great deal of sex/sexual situations in the movie, as two characters are stand-ins for a very sexual movie, and it took a great deal of explaining to my second daughter.

Speedy1108
teen, 15 years old
 
Perfect for the family just fast forward through the bad parts
Its a movie about love and my dad fast fowarded through the dirty parts so I didnt see them. We usually get netflix in the mail but that day we didnt so we watched this and it's touching just be sure to fast forward through the dirty parts and everything should be ok!!!

 
Wonderful...
I love this movie--it always warms my heart. Yes, there is plenty here that could be offensive, but it IS rated R, and it is NOT a children's movie! The love and heartbreak in this movie reflects the situations that people often find themselves in. Well, with the exception of the couple that meets because they are stand-ins for porn actors. There is nothing that I don't love about this movie!

AimeePiexx
parent of 3 year old
 
perfect but not for little ones
its amazing but not for kids

Lizziesays
parent of 7 and 13 year old
 
Great movie for adults, but please note that THIS MOVIE IS RATED R and it deserves this rating. It's a sweet, heartwarming movie, but with definite adult themes and plenty of explicit sexual situations. If this offends you, don't see this movie. And definitely do not let your children watch this movie! (But we loved it!)

coullk
adult
 
Not appropriate for any age group.
Hated it!!! The language and sexual content was so offensive that we left the cinema after the first 20 minutes of the film.

 

 
title
Very touching film - and fun to watch :)

FinnMcCool
parent of and 11 , 12 , 18 year old
 
Charming holiday fun for adults
A charming, if shallow, holiday film that would be perfect but for the porn film vignettes (which are very funny, but make the film inappropriate for teens.)

loeloeonthegogo
kid, 12 years old
 
love it
This one of my very favorite movies, everything about it shined and I love the fact that it was about love....in general...love between families and love between couples and love between father and son and just love. I especially liked Thomas Sangster because he was adorable and his accent was so sweet....I loved Colin Firth, and I loved Johanna's singing "All I Want For Christmas..." Her voice is just amazing. I was wowed.Super funny, and yeah sure there was langage, but come on, get real, any ten year old curses already anyway, so quite honestly, it's not gonna scar them for life. And yeah, there was sex, but if you don't like it skip over it. Great movie for 11-up, and to watch with your friends at a Christmas sleepover.

Kathyhermy123
teen, 18 years old
 

 
Love Actually -goofy romcom for ADULTS
Love Actually is certainly a crowning achievement as far as romantic comedy/feel good movies go. The film is full of great messages and heartwarming storylines about love, confidence, family relationships, friendship, and the Christmas season. The entire film has a goofy, and genuinely sweet tone that appeals to viewers. That being said, it is not without some intense content! Parents be warned, sex is all over Love Actually. From a subplot involving two sex-scene stand ins, to explicit dialogue, to an alcohol and drug-fueled threesome, there is little left unexplored (or left to the imagination). Language is strong and frequent, alcohol and drugs are both used and discussed. There are mature themes and subplots that deal with loss, complex relationships, and classism, among other issues. The characters in this film can all serve as role models in one way or another, but note that it isn't always immediately apparent. Bottom line, excellent, excellent film -but only for adults.

lexialex1999
kid, 12 years old
 
older tweens and teens
some VERY innapropriate scenes!! good for slumber parties! deserves that R!

 
WHOA!!!!!
WHOA!! Bring out the earmuffs,earplugs, the whole thing!! I don't care what school you go to this movie was one of the dirtiest, foulest, most profane I have ever seen. A couple story lines where good but, at one point there is a point blank shoot of a couple having sex. A man is cheating on his wife. I think parents should really step back and think about their kids and the exposure they've had so far. Sure the language is bad, but kids nowadays have heard far worse. Its the sexual themes and overtones that make me turn on the red lights for this movie. To tell you the truth, I wonder why I was even allowed to watch it.......

gab.m
teen, 17 years old
 
I'm a teenager and love this movie to bits!

Tlps mum
parent of 10 year old
 
Romantic real life type of tale. Loved it but not really for children as swearing etc

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