Me Before You

Movie review by S. Jhoanna Robledo, Common Sense Media
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Common Sense says

age 14+

Touching but manipulative romantic drama about life, death.

PG-13 2016 110 minutes

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age 15+

Based on 19 reviews

Kids say

age 13+

Based on 44 reviews

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age 14+

A missed opportunity to send a positive message instead of a horrible one

Spoiler alert! In my opinion, the movie could have been a wonderful opportunity for sending a message of hope and love against the difficulties of life. But it has not been so. Nowadays we are living in a freedom era where every choice, whether going on struggling in a wheelchair or not, is personal and subjective. Even the hard choice to put an end to our own life cannot be judged but can only be accepted. In this freedom, the choice to live or not is the ultimate border between fight and give up. The message that arises from the movie is that a life in a wheelchair is not a worthwhile life. This is definitely not true. Life in a wheelchair is indeed more difficult than the normal one and disabled people can find happiness anyway. Think at some examples in real life. My favourite is Alex Zanardi. He won when he was a driver and he won even after having lost his legs. Listen to him talking is really enlightening. Outside, in the real world, there are a lot of these 4wheels-heroes. Maybe some of them have thought about suicide, but I think that the greater part of them decided to fight against the world to reach their dreams. Coming back to the movie, there is an off-key point: when love arrives, so nice and so pure, you really believe it will adjust everything. Then, at the end, you will find that the title is perfect. But I think that real love is not selfish. Real love is not "me before you" but is "you before me" and it is effective only if we think in this way togheter. Ending the movie with a different message could have been an opportunity to send a positive message about the strength of love that can help you coming out from a strong and difficult situations. With real love near you, even facing the daily hard reality can give you wings to reach your dreams.
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age 13+

Touching but Problematic

While Lou and Will's love story is touching and sweet, and made a helpless romance-lover like me cry on more than one occasion, the story also implies that life is not worth living if one is disabled, and promotes suicide as something selfless rather than awful. I have had experiences with suicide, and it is not anything of the kind, I can assure you. It was all-in-all a lovely movie and a nice way to spend time, but I'm not the biggest fan of some of the messages it displays.
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