Must Love Dogs (PG-13, 2005)

common sense media says

Cute but predictable -- teen girls may like it.


parents & educators say
  • 33% say sexual content is an issue

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that the movie includes repeated references to dating, body descriptions ("voluptuous"), and sex, including a couple of scenes in bed, and one in a shower (here the protagonist is naked, her back to the camera, alone and upset), as well as some party drinking. A woman ends up on a blind date with her father. There is some mild profanity. As its focus is Internet dating, the film also shows how it involves performing, deceiving, and self-deluding. A middle-aged woman "chats" with and attracts the attentions of a 15-year-old, whom she sends home immediately.

Positive messages: Lying on the Internet to get dates, romantic cheating.
Violence: Brief, antic running and falling. A kid gets a bloody nose.
Sex: Sexual references and discussions of Internet dating, some sex scenes, a shot of a woman showering (back to camera).
Language: Jokey sexual references, one s-word and mild profanity like "damn".
Consumerism: Generic/fictional coffee shop and Internet sites.
Drinking, drugs, & smoking: Some drinking.

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What to talk about

Talk to your kids
Families can talk about Sarah's family's meddling in her dating business: they mean well, but the film suggests they are pushy too, such that Sarah worries about being single. How is Sarah distracted by her widower father's dating? How is her choice between Bob and Jake reduced to who seems less "scary" to her? How does the Internet affect the ways people interact, in romance and as families?

What's the story?

What's the story?

Preschool teacher and divorcee Sarah (Diane Lane) doesn't want to think of herself as desperate, but her family -- widower dad Bill (Christopher Plummer), a bunch of brothers, and a couple of sisters, including Carol (the excellent Elizabeth Perkins) -- press the point. With Carol's prodding, Sarah enters her data into a dating site. Though her first "match" is her father ("This is disturbing on so many levels," she groans), she persists, meeting with a number of bad matches (sad guy, cocky guy, preoccupied guy), until she finds Jake (the way-too-smart-for-formula-comedies John Cusack). Also recently divorced, he loves Doctor Zhivago (because it's about "a love so real it hurts even after you're dead") and crafts wooden skulls (boats) for a living. He's clever, speeds through his dialogue ("You are kind of 'voluptuous,'" he notes, observing a dubious description in her Internet ad, "in a minimalist kind of way"), and worries about how he comes across. He is, in a word, perfect guy.

Is it any good?

Is it any good?
 

Burdened by a familiar premise (Internet daters are desperate), MUST LOVE DOGS constrains its excellent performers. Sarah wants most to avoid the fate of one of her father's girlfriends, the dazzling Dolly (Stockard Channing). She sees the Internet as a new horizon ("It's part fantasy, part community," she gushes, "And it lets you pay your bills naked"), but thinks again when she meets in person one of "chat" partners, a 15-year-old boy who's developed a serious crush on her.

Perhaps because he's so young, this kid has conviction, though he duly leaves when instructed ("Do your homework," says Dolly has she loads him in a cab). Sarah's route to her relationship is more roundabout, even though Jake is obviously the right choice. Cusack's refreshingly odd physical and verbal rhythms only make you want to see more of him. And why does Jake spend even a minute with the nubile, cheap-joke-in-a miniskirt Sherry (Jordana Spiro)? He's so obviously Sarah's right choice that the rest of the movie looks like wheel-spinning.

Movie themes & details

Movie Details
Studio: Warner Bros.
Director: Gary David Goldberg
Cast: Dermot Mulroney, Diane Lane, John Cusack
Genre: Comedy
Run time: 98 minutes
Theatrical release: July 29, 2005
DVD release: December 20, 2005
MPAA Rating: PG-13
MPAA explanation: sexual content

This review was written by Cynthia Fuchs
 
 

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What parents & educators say

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Based on 6 parent & educator reviews:
  • 33% say sexual content is an issue

Most useful reviews by all members

MikaylaaMadisonn
teen, 16 years old
 
pretty good

 
"Must Love Dogs" is pretty much "must see"

 
i cried!
This is a sweet love story for husbands & wifes to see.

geeksgetthegirl3
teen, 17 years old
 
WOW!!!
This was a fantastic movie!!!I saw it with my mom and we both loved it!!!!Tremendous!!!

katiemay017
teen, 17 years old
 
Very Good movie 13+
I like this movie alot. although in the middle i find it pretty sad when John Cusaks character sees her kissing another guy and everything gets messed up. It is a bit predictable, but that can be good sometimes. Great movie to watch when ur in the mood to watch a romantic film. there are a few scenes with hints of sexuality. but its isnt that bad

mirolex
adult
 
OK for 16 & up, not preteens
Sarah's older sister is trying to help her get back into dating after a divorce. The internet dating angle is probably close to real, shows good & bad results (e.g.- one date being her own father who found it rather humorous). Close family, but maybe a little pushy concerning her personal life. Yes, basically it's a 'chick flick' but my husband enjoys it, too.

Eluminahta
educator and parent of 16 and 17 year old
 
I enjoyed the movie. It was kind of predictable but that can be comforting sometimes. Use your discretion as a parent before allowing your teen to view it. J.E.N.

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