My Big Fat Greek Wedding (PG, 2002)

common sense media says

Perfect sleepover movie for tweens (and moms!).


parents & educators say

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that there is a non-graphic sexual situation, but it is clear that Toula and Ian wait until they are really committed before going to bed together. Characters drink (Ian's parents are introduced to powerful Greek Ouzo).

Positive messages: The importance of family and a connection to traditions.
Violence: Not applicable.
Sex: Lots of kissing and one mild sex scene.
Language: Not applicable.
Consumerism: Not applicable.
Drinking, drugs, & smoking: Characters drink some Ouzo at two festive events -- a couple gets drunk and the room spins.

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What to talk about

Talk to your kids
Families can talk about cultural differences. Do your kids know any families where the couples come from different backgrounds? How have those differences created problems or new opportunities for new, blended traditions? Why does Toula have a hard time telling her family how she feels? How does this family compare to others that you know or have seen in other movies, or to your own? Does your family have a combination of ethnic cultures, and what are some of the issues that have come up in meshing them?

What's the story?

What's the story?

In MY BIG FAT GREEK WEDDING, Nia Vardalos plays Toula, the shy, plain daughter of a loving but overpowering Greek family. Her family believes that Greek girls are here to marry Greek boys, have Greek babies, and cook a lot of Greek food. In the unlikely event that they do not get married, they are expected to work in the family business, in her case, a Greek restaurant. But Toula dreams of more, and with the help of her mother and her aunt, they manage to have Gus thinking that it is his idea to have her go back to school and get another job -- in her aunt's travel agency. Toula begins not just to bloom, but to glow, and attracts the attention of Ian, a handsome teacher (Sex and the City's John Corbett).

Is it any good?

Is it any good?
 

The story behind this film is as remarkable as the film itself. Actress/writer Nia Vardalos created a one-woman show about her Greek family and their response when she married a man who wasn't Greek. Tom Hanks and his wife, Rita Wilson (who is Greek), saw the show and decided to make it into a movie with Nia playing herself. Viewers will fall in love with Vardalos and her family, too. The family is an irresistible force and she is just plain irresistible.

Vardalos and director Joel Zwick balance the specifics of the Greek-American culture with the transcendent universalities of family dynamics. Vardalos and Corbett have a believable sweetness with each other. The movie is riotously funny but heart-catchingly touching and it will make you want to go back and hug everyone you are related to. This is a terrific choice for families with tween-aged kids. The romance is age appropriate and the characters are great role models for how to fall in love and treat each other right. This is one movie where no surprises lurk. Just grab the popcorn, don't answer the phone, and enjoy.

Movie themes & details

Movie Details
Studio: IFC Entertainment
Director: Joel Zwick
Cast: Joey Fatone, John Corbett, Nia Vardalos
Genre: Comedy
Run time: 95 minutes
Theatrical release: April 19, 2002
DVD release: February 11, 2003
MPAA Rating: PG
MPAA explanation: a mild sexual situation and some language

This review was written by Nell Minow
 
 

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Loved It!
I loved this show it was sooooo funny!!! But Probley not for little kids. It will make you Laugh so hard! Two thumbs up!!!

livvy314
teen, 15 years old
 
best movie ever!
i love this movie!! one of my all time favorite movies! i have probably seen it a hundred times! great movie for sleepovers or family night. it has some bad refrences but young kids wont get it so its not a big deal. its a great, funny movie! it also teaches you that no matter what culture or race you are if your in love with someone then that shouldn't stop you.

tealsweety
parent of 14 year old
 

AlinaW.
teen, 16 years old
 
Awesome family movie . . .
Really cute movie about a Greek-American family, and their response to marrige . . . My entire family loved it when we watched it a while back, even my dad and (at the time) 8 year old sister. It was a cute movie to watch on a rainy night!

afranks76
parent of and 1 , 13 , 14 , 14 year old
 

Katy0
teen, 17 years old
 
4 and 1/2 stars
This is an excellent movie. There is a bit of sensuality (mild) and language (also very mild.) The leads are very convincing and lovable.

 
This is definitely a movie the whole family can watch together. There is a strong focus around the struggle between parents and children when dealing with generation gaps of traditions and beliefs. It also taps into the customs and traditions of the Greeks. I highly enjoyed this movie and recommend it to most.

jasonlall9
teen, 13 years old
 
Haha.

123movie
kid, 13 years old
 
I think its great

catnat11
kid, 12 years old
 
Maybe?
The movie was good but not for younger kids i wouldn't let my little sis watch but over all good movie could have been better

Jewel♥
teen, 16 years old
 
It's a cute movie! And without a doubt it's very funny! I think it really is a must see!

SwrilCD87
teen, 18 years old
 
I laughed

ccbluebonnet
teen, 15 years old
 
Good Movie!
I was very impressed with this movie! It was light-hearted and funny. Ha, at the beginning, I had mixed feelings because while it was hilarious, I felt really bad for the main character. Anyway, great movie, I recommend it to everyone!

Sabinka_Inka
teen, 16 years old
 
Great Movie
I love this movie! I have seen it many times. This movie is all about following your heart even when others aren't supportive. It also says you have to have faith because anyone can find love.

MillyMolly
teen, 15 years old
 
I can watch this over and over
I watch this over and over and never ever get bored fo it, I know every line to this moive, its just so funny!

Tsion
parent of 15 year old
 
Funny, But Too Short to Become Invested...
MY BIG FAT GREEK WEDDING is funny, but is too short for us to become emotionally invested in it. We never really care about the characters or situations, and that makes this an inferior romantic comedy compared to SLEEPLESS IN SEATTLE and YOU'VE GOT MAIL. However, it is cute and funny, and a good choice to kids. There is one mild, brief sexual situation in addition to some light innuendos. Ian and Toula drive home every night (he usually drops her off at her house), but one night they go to his apartment, and he invites her in. She considers a moment, then accepts, and we see them kiss passionately (standing up), then she pushes him down on a couch (out of view) and pounces on him. After that scene, we see them in bed together twice (clothed, except that he's shirtless), but no action goes on. The innuendos include stuff like "Greek women are tigers in the bedroom". A man who can't understand Greek tries to say something nice twice, but both times ends up saying something else: "I have three testicles" and "nice boobs". There are a few "a*s"s and "d**n"s.

lewlew5
kid, 11 years old
 
Very funny! I love it!

Katster
adult
 

HillRoad
kid, 13 years old
 
not for kids under 10

Missydooda
teen, 14 years old
 
CUTE!!!
I love this movie!!!! it is really funny and cute. there is a lot of kissing scenes, but no too bad. my nine year old brother watched it too (though he found it boring.) 9 year olds can watch it, they just might get bored. cute movie!

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