Once (R, 2007)

common sense media says

Sweet, romantic musical hits all the right notes.


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What parents need to know

Parents need to know that although there's a fair amount of swearing in this endearing indie romance -- particularly "f--k" -- hardly anything else would raise a flag for teens and up. In fact, it's one of the few love stories that doesn't require its leads to get naked or fall in bed together. A thief does try to make off with the musician's street earnings, and there's some bitter talk of past breakups, plenty of beer drinking, and flirtation between a married woman and a single man (even though both know she's still married). But the positive messages about love and emotional connection outweigh any iffiness.

Positive messages: The characters develop a wonderful, delicate, and respectful romance; from the onset, they treat each other like equals (a rare thing onscreen). Lots of emphasis is placed on pursuing your dreams, and the couple is very supportive of each other's wants and needs. Characters care for both their elders and their children with grace. A couple of sour notes: Lots of swearing, and a man drives after some drinks and no sleep.
Violence: No overt violence, but some potentially upsetting scenes related to poverty -- families shoehorned into very small apartments, for instance.
Sex: A man propositions a woman, but indirectly and awkwardly. One mention of "hanky panky," but in a jovial, respectful manner. Sexual tension, but the focus is on the couple's burgeoning emotional attachment, not what would happen if they got naked.
Language: Lots of swearing, usually involving "f--k" -- as in "for f--k's sake" and "f--king brilliant."
Consumerism: Very little, though the street musician sings in front of a CD store with the name fully displayed.
Drinking, drugs, & smoking: Some smoking in pubs; lots of drinking in social situations.

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Families can talk about what makes this movie so different from typical Hollywood romances. How does the main couple connect without having sex? Do other movies rely too much on establishing relationships primarily through getting physical? How do most movies define "love"? Is that realistic? Families can also discuss the fact that movies often portray the pursuit of dreams. Do these dreams seem attainable? If not, how do you keep the faith?

What's the story?

What's the story?

Glen Hansard, frontman for beloved Irish indie-rock band The Frames, stars as an unnamed musician who sings on the streets of Dublin. During the day, he plays Van Morrison songs, but at night, he sings his own compositions -- sad, affecting tunes -- with a passion that has no relationship to audience size. One day he meets a young woman (Marketa Irglova) who turns out to be an accomplished, impoverished Czech immigrant who plays the piano beautifully but sells flowers and cleans houses to make ends meet. They're soul mates, and theirs is a story of the transformative power of love and music.

Is it any good?

Is it any good?
 

John Carney's musical ONCE is one of those gems that so rarely graces the big screen these days: a truly good movie. That Carney, who once was a member of The Frames himself, could fashion such a moving, romantic film without resorting to the ho-hum boy-meets-girl, boy-loses-girl formula is a testament to his talent as both a writer and a director. Deftly and lightly, he lets emotions build up quietly for maximum impact. The relationship between the two leads develops as if in real life: unhurriedly but with great force.

The movie's songs aid the storytelling -- but, unlike most musicals, they pour out naturally, as you'd expect when two accomplished musicians unite. In "Falling Slowly," a haunting melody, the pair sings in harmony: "I don't know you/But I want you/All the more for that." In fact, the movie itself plays like a great song; you could listen to it over and over and rediscover something new each time.

Movie themes & details

Movie Details
Studio: Fox Searchlight
Director: John Carney
Cast: Glen Hansard, Hugh Walsh, Marketa Irglova
Genre: Musical
Run time: 85 minutes
Theatrical release: May 16, 2007
DVD release: December 18, 2007
MPAA Rating: R
MPAA explanation: language.

This review was written by S. Jhoanna Robledo
 
 

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kra
adult
 
Way too much cussing, otherwise great!
I really, really liked this movie. The language was an extreme disappointment, F this, F that. But, really, that's all there was that was objectionable in the movie for me. There's a little drinking and such, but not over the top or anything. There's one guy who's strung out on heroin or something, but you don't see him doing it and they certainly don't make it look glamorous. Overall, the movie I think had a positive message about the sanctity of friendship and marriage. And some great music as well! I'm not even in to the style of music in the movie and I'm planning on buying the soundtrack. I don't think kids should see it with all the cussing (do kids really need to experience that?), but if you're able to get past a million and one F-bombs, this is a pretty solid movie. I suspect my wife and I will buy it.

Mr581
teen, 18 years old
 

DaddyFlip
parent of 15 year old
 
No #!#!#!#!#! way!
Disclaimer: I have NOT seen this film. However, I can assure CSM.org and anyone who cares to read this that any review filling all five Language pucks for the f-word is NOT appropriate for 14-year olds and, in my opinion, not appropriate for anyone else. So much for the "handpicked for your family" feature. The Titanic wouldn't have sunk had it not been for that big hole in its side after it hit that iceberg. If there is a major flaw, then it's flawed. One bad apple spoiled the bunch. I could go on.

 
A must see for every one ten yers old and up
This movie was like a breath of fresh air. More than entertainmen with its moving theme and refreshingly convincing characters, it showed how cinema could createsomething akin to a magical experience of "dropping in" to someone else's life and enjoying the time spent there1 The songs written by the characters were so good we can't wait for the release of both a DVD and a CD!

barb42
adult
 
A Classic--Don't miss it!
This was a lovely experience, and so suitable! Another reviewer said the Ratings Board members should suffer eternal punishment for giving this film an "R" rating. I agree. This film is incredibly suitable, as well as being OUTSTANDING. The ONLY reason it's rated "R" is the use of the F word, usually as an adjective, i.e. "That's F-ing fantastic!" I was worried about taking my 12 yr old to an R movie--no need! I wasn't embarassed, not once--except when I bought the tickets!

Totally500
teen, 15 years old
 
A Music Film that hits the right notes
That was a great film. The music was great i was like "Wow" My favorite in this movie is Falling Slowly. Lots of F-bombs but thats about it

William C.
teen, 16 years old
 
It's called 'Once' because you can only watch it once ...
Totally CRAP! It was so boring and all the songs sounded the same.... Maybe they were all the same songs.... Don't know.... I have no idea how it won so many awards!

CrazyNachoFreak
teen, 15 years old
 
17 and older only!!!
I'm 14 and i'm not able to watch this movie. Waaayyy to much language dropping the f bomb a whole lot. I'm just going off what my parents have told me hear but i can tell that it is deffinatly Not appropriate.

Scovillian3
teen, 17 years old
 
One of the mest romances of all time!
This unique exploration of REAL LIFE with beautiful music is surprisingly fresh. No movie of this genre has ever successfully made a real love story out of real life. THe music is very simplstic, and it never feels boring. There are many very emotional moments that can tend to hit you when you're not expecting. This movie only has one sexual reference ("hanky-panky"), but it deserves its R rating. In the beginning, the 'F' word is dropped pervasively and occasionally slows down. The 'S' word is used once or twice in a song lyric as well. BUT THE MUSIC IS BEAUTIFUL! ALso, there is a brief shot of the main character pretending to smoke from an empty hookah, but again, it is empty. Love can be confusing, and sometimes anger-inducing, but it will always come to fruition... or will it? Watch the movie to figure out. The vocals are spotless, the instrumentation is well-done, the acting is immaculate, and it make for a one-of-a-kind success. Recommended for re-watching many times. 5 STARS.

CrashMagoo66
teen, 14 years old
 
A Very Touching Film
This movie is the kind of movie that comes around once in a lifetime. When I was 10 I saw this movie, and even though it's R there is nothing to worry about. There is some use of the F-word, but you would hear that much F-words in 20 minutes in a 4th grade cafeteria. Everyone should see this movie. It's about a man who is a street performer that falls for a flower saleswoman and together they record a week's worth of music. The music is so astonishing and emotional that I almost cried when they played Falling Slowly. It's a romance about life, not sex. All in all, this is now one of my favorite films of all-time.

JCH
adult
 
Not appropriate for under 17!
I can not imagine thinking this movie appropriate for those under 17, based on the language alone. Every other word is f**k. Should we really be telling our 13-year-olds that this kind of language is OK by letting them watch this movie? OK, the movie's content is not offensive, but it is rated R for language, and that recommendation should be followed. I am disappointed in Commonsense for recommending it for age 13.

 
Beautiful
The most achingly beautiful film I have seen for some time. This is undoubtedly tied for my absolute favorite films of all time, along with American Beauty, Pan's Labyrinth, and some others (I'm a rather indecisive person when it comes to my favorite movie). The just plain simplicity and beauty in the film is amazing, and the songs are hauntingly mesmerizing, especially "Falling Away". With that one song the movie moved me more than any other movie ever has, and watching the two characters put it together quite possibly the highlight of the film. In all seriousness, you MUST see this film.

earthgurl
teen, 15 years old
 
Shouldn't be R!
More PG-13 than R, just a lot of language. Pretty good, kind of boring for teens at times.

penguin_kid
kid, 13 years old
 
great movie!! best musical ever! touchiness overcomes swearing
great movie, really touching, TONS of swearing though, if your my age. really doesn't deserve the R rating. The great emotional content in this movie really overcomes the swearing. Amazing music, but you have to get used to the Irish accent.(which takes about 30 minutes.) great, great is all i can say.

trebleclefjordan
teen, 18 years old
 
wonderful movie
This is a fantastic movie for everyone, and kids should definitely be allowed to see it. Trust me parents, they've heard this language already and it's not going to hurt them if they hear it 10 times in this movie. Once is one of the best movies of the year.

 
I wore out the soundtrack
I rarely spend money on a movie, but I saw this one twice in the theatres, and I bought the soundtrack which transports me back to the sweetness that is Once. The f-word is a constant, but delivered in a lilting Irish accent, it's more of an endearment than an offense. That said, I'm still not sure when it's appropriate for my kids (13 & 15) to see it. And I do want them to see it. A friend described the movie as 'pure' - not so much morally but more in how it's delivered. Great movie!

catrambone
parent of 13 and 15 year old
 
An Engaging Musical
If your hung up on foul language you might want to screen this first and decide for yourself if it's appropriate for your kids. I,for own, am not bothered by the f word and don't try to shield my kids from it. I think the good messages and the love and art of creating music displayed by this picture far outweigh a few f bombs.

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