Pay It Forward (PG-13, 2000)

common sense media says

A bit syrupy, but sentimental teens may enjoy it.


parents & educators say
  • 57% say there's too much drinking, drugs, or smoking
  • 43% say sexual content is an issue

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this movie has some strong language, and characters abuse alcohol and drugs, including heroin and marijuana. There are references to the most severe domestic abuse. There are some fights, one resulting in mortal injury. A character attempts suicide. Another shoots his gun, though no one is injured. A character dies tragically. There are sexual references and a discreet sexual situation. A character's burn scars may be upsetting. Pre-teens and teens may be especially concerned by the violence that occurs at a school, despite the metal-detectors kids walk through as they enter.

Violence: Brief fight scenes, character mortally wounded, sad death.
Sex: Sexual references and situations.
Language: Some strong language.
Consumerism: Not applicable.
Drinking, drugs, & smoking: Characters abuse alcohol and drugs.

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What to talk about

Talk to your kids
Families can talk about the pay it forward idea. Would it work? What favors would family members like to do? Why is "routine" so important to Eugene? Why do we see him ironing his shirt twice in the movie? Why do we see Eugene sitting at a student's desk when he talks to Trevor? Why does Trevor say that "it has to be hard?" Families should also talk about Trevor's comment that the most important thing is watching people, paying attention to things they may not even know they need. Some families will also want to dicuss whether there is a religious allusion in the death of one character.

What's the story?

What's the story?
Seventh grader Trevor (Haley Joel Osment) has every reason to believe that life is harsh and painful. His parents are alcoholics and his father is either absent or abusive. He walks into school every day through a metal detector. Outside his classroom window is an endless expanse of desert. And his mom works two jobs in a city filled with despair, Las Vegas. But then his teacher Eugene (Kevin Spacey) encourages his students to "backflip" the world into something better. He does not expect much -- maybe a clean-up of some graffiti. But Trevor decides to do three important favors for people who need them. Then, instead of allowing them to pay it back, he will ask each of them to "pay it forward," doing three favors for other people, and asking them to do the same. One of Trevor's favors is to bring his mom Arlene and Eugene together, though it turns out that it is not just to make them happier. Arlene and Eugene put all of their effort into making sure they do not get hurt again until they learn that it is risking hurt that makes us alive.

Is it any good?

Is it any good?
 
If the theme of PAY IT FORWARD appeals to you and you'd like to see three of the finest actors ever put on film, then you are the audience for this movie. If it sounds syrupy, go see something else. Haley Joel Osment portrays Trevor as an extraordinary child, wise and sensitive beyond his years because of what he has had to face, but still completely believable as an 11-year-old. Helen Hunt is heartbreaking as Arlene, a recovering alcoholic with a history of loss and abuse. And Kevin Spacey is breathtaking in a role that is a departure from the tough and wily guys he often plays.

Trevor's idea doesn't always work, but when it does, people are transformed, not by the favors others do for them as much as by the favors they do for the next people in the chain. We get a glimpse of its impact as the story is interwoven with scenes four months into the future, as a reporter tries to track down the source of the mysterious acts of generosity.

Movie themes & details

Movie Details
Studio: Warner Bros.
Director: Mimi Leder
Cast: Haley Joel Osment, Helen Hunt, Kevin Spacey
Genre: Drama
Run time: 123 minutes
Theatrical release: October 20, 2000
DVD release: May 15, 2001
MPAA Rating: PG-13
MPAA explanation: mature thematic elements including substance abuse/recovery, some sexual situations, language and brief violence

This review was written by Nell Minow
 
 

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What parents & educators say

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Based on 7 parent & educator reviews:
  • 57% say there's too much drinking, drugs, or smoking
  • 43% say sexual content is an issue
  • 43% say there are positive messages
  • 43% say language is an issue
  • 29% say violence is an issue

Most useful reviews by all members

Media Lover
teen, 15 years old
 
An amazing and emotional film
this one of my favorite movies. some of it may not be completely ippropriate, but the overall message is what really sticks, and it is definetely a good message. This movie definetely deserves its PG-13 rating. It is an AMAZING movie, and anyone who watchs it will love it.

Ashnak
adult
 
Excellent movie with a good world view
This movie is based on a true story, which makes it better.

 
A wonderful movie
This was a touching movie, although some people may not like it. It was well acted, but I did not like the ending. I thought it was just put in so there was a sad moment, but overall it was still a great movie.

shanno15
teen, 16 years old
 
great acting in this movie, makes you cry throughout the whole movie especially the end

matt_m
teen, 18 years old
 
Brilliant Motion Picture
*Sex - Mother works at a strip club *Violence - Stabbing near end *Language - Frequent profanity *Social Behavior - The point of the movie was about helping other people *Commercialism - None *Drugs/Alcohol - Child helps mother beat drinking problem Rating:***** (5/5)

yugiohsux
teen, 17 years old
 
Okay for mature and older children
I thought that "Pay It Forward" was a great movie... But look out for language. (3 times the word: Jesus christ is yelled) I know that it is based on a true story so it should decrease the crime level. Long Live Haley Joel Osmont! _ _ l l o

shopping ...
teen, 14 years old
 
SAD
this movie was incredibly sad. The movie is about a young 11/12 year old boy trying to make a difference in the world. The movie does claerly have many positive messaes about carring for others to make the world a better place and helping people in need ect......... But even though the film has positive messages you must keep in mind it is a very sad and somewhat vilont film. Characters talk about abuse they suffered or someone else suffered including beating and burning. Some vilonce iseven shown on screen including a young boy being stabbed in the stomach and constint somewhat scary arguments between characters. The ending is sad and heartbreaking but the ending does show that if you try hard and dont give up you can make a diffrence. Some parts of this film i have to edmit where even to intense for me to watch. That is why i recomend pay it forward to teens ages 13 and up.

golden retriever7
kid, 12 years old
 
Pretty Good
Pretty Good. I mean I thought it would be a really bad movie but it turned out to be pretty good. I was watching tv when my mom changed the channel to this so I had no choice. she said it was good and my mom has good taste so yeah that's why. PS: I was going to cry at the ending.

Sgt-Samson
teen, 16 years old
 
Good concept, but the movie has some funny moments, but mostly sad moments that are too much for teens.

MacPippy
parent of 10 and 12 year old
 
better for slightly older kids - teens upwards
watched this with our 9 & 11 yr olds. 9 year old prob a bit young. had lots of questions about why does everyone drink in it; the way the film runs 2 parallel stories (trevor & the pay it forward story lines) was a bit lost on him. the stabbing upset him good bit, so in hindsight, was probably a too mature for him; talked about the pay it forward concept afterwards with him to try and lighten the mood for him. good movie. love the concept.

Mom and movie ...
parent of 11 and 13 year old
 
Excellent message and move, but NOT a "Family Film"
Pay It Forward was a moving film about cause and effect and consequences. It hit home about anyone's actions causing ripples in the water of the world. If you have the chance to see this, I would recommend you do. It is a story and a concept you won't ever forget. BUT -- our DVD box on the back says "Extraordinary Family Film" NOT! It totally depends on how old your family members are!!! I would say anyone below 14 shouldn't see it. There is alcoholism, drugs, violence, bad language, and sexual situations. The ending would not be one a younger child could handle. SPOILER SPOILER SPOILER What I think would most disturb any younger viewers though is the fact that the boy this story is about is killed at the end. It was incredibly emotional for the 3 adults I watched this with and there is no way our children could have handled this hopeful story with this sad end. Though the point is poignantly made about this boy's effect on the world, it is a hard ending to take.

lozzie98
kid, 13 years old
 
sad
ah, i cried. our yr 6 teacher let us watch it and it's M15+ anyway. sad movie

RhythmofLove1997
teen, 14 years old
 
o my gosh!
i frikin love this movie, has an absolute fabulous message. deep for sure so uh probably not best for kids under 12. honestly, i wouldnt watch it again, its a one time movie for me, its quite sad, for anyone who hasn't watched it, it is sad so i recommend watching a comedy or something. aside from the sadness it has some of its funny parts, most certainly touching i mean ive never really been touched by many movies but this makes the the list. i would recommend it to anyone, just know that its sad, also i think Haley Joel Osment does a fantastic job. he plays as an 11 almost twelve year old seventh grader named Trevor who has every right to hate like, but he takes this social studies class with Mr. Simonet (Kevin Spacey, who also does a fantastic job) Mr. Simonet encourages the kids to go out and make a difference in the world. Trevor goes out and starts something called "the pay it forward plan" meaning if i did something nice for you, you would have to go out and keep the chain of good deeds going. I don't want to say to much, its a movie you'll just have to watch. I can't say enough about it, i love it, and thats rare for me to like a sad movie.

personator
teen, 14 years old
 
kinda disturbing and sad. My seventh grade class watched this. A few kids cried. I had to hold back the tears b/c I don't like the idea of crying at school. All in all good movie. Some iffy stuff. After the teacher and Mom have made love, the next morning Trevor refers to it as a sleepover. Some drug abuse, Trevor's Mom slaps Trevor(but apologizes after that). Very emotional and moving. Cool but if your kids cried during Marley & Me or Romona & Beezus they are not emotionally ready to see this film cuz it will totally make them cry.

Jadenp
teen, 15 years old
 
Great movie with inspiring messages. It made me want to help people, and coincidentally I have since watching it today. I just called 911 to save a woman being attacked and possibly raped in my neighborhood. Very good movie, a charactder swears a lot. 15+ sh**ts. Some sexuality. Drinkig throughout. Emotional.

 
Not For Kids
I feel like the positive message of this movie, paying it forward, is lost in the sea of inappropriate content. The relationship between the teacher and mother seemed out of place (from a writer's perspective), and was inappropriate for kids to be witnessing. I am a 22-year old college student, and I was shocked at what they put in there. The language was really rough and suggestive. This is not a kid movie, or a teen movie; this is an adult movie. Parents can summarize the idea of paying it forward to kids, but this is really not a good one to let them watch.

 
Pay It Forward Review
Rebecca Varberg Professor Jossart English 110 November 7, 2011 Pay It Forward The world is a large place with millions of different kinds of people. Some are good and some not so much. Sure chances of changing the world are pretty slim, but what if one person tried. If that one person was successful in helping someone else and it then caused that person to help other people, maybe changing the world would be possible. Could this be realistic or will people just remain the same as they are today? A young boy, Trevor McKinney (Haley Joel Osment), who is troubled by his alcoholic mother, Arlene McKinney (Helen Hunt), and fears his abusive absent father, Ricky McKinney (Jon Bon Jovi), is working on his social studies assignment. This assignment is extra credit and asks the students to think of something to change the world and put it into action. Trevor comes up with the plan to do a favor for three people in need, but instead of those people returning the favor back to him, they pay the favor forward to three different people in need and it keeps building from there. The people that Trevor picked were a drug addicted homeless man, Jerry (Jim Caviezed), his emotionally scarred and burned social studies teacher, Mr. Simonet (Kevin Spacey), and a class mate that was always being bullied, Adam (Marc Donato). Trevor doesn’t think that his three people paid the favor forward, so he believes his project was a complete failure. Although throughout the movie you see that reporter, Chris Chandler (Joy Mohr), is slowly tracing this successful story back to Trevor. Trevor would not be able to see much of his accomplishment with this project because at the end of the movie, Trevor dies by being stabbed by another student, who is bullying Adam. This movie is the perfect example of how a movie should be; it makes you laugh, cry a lot, and it is something that stays in your heart and keeps you thinking for weeks afterwards. This movie seems realistic when it comes to the problems faced by people in everyday life. These real life problems that affect everyday people are alcoholism, divorce, drug addictions, child abuse, and so much more. If you were to go into any classroom and talk to ten to twenty students, you would probably find students that are facing these problems at home. This is an extremely horrible thing that children have to deal with and I think that people sometimes just look the other way and try to ignore it. Movies like this will hopefully open people’s eyes and they will learn that they can do something to help. This movie shows that it takes one person to start a movement to change someone’s life for the better. The part of the movie that was unrealistic is changing the world. Yes, one person can make a difference, but they cannot change the word. The movie shows that Trevor’s plan to “Pay It Forward” works, but it is a movie. In real life, I could not picture people doing the favors that were done in this movie, for example the first favor you see is someone giving away their Jaguar car to the reporter, after the reporter’s car is damaged. It would be wonderful if “Pay It Forward” could happen, but it is highly implausible. The world would be a beautiful place if only people would be willing to help each other and not expect a favor back. I never heard of this movie before, up until a couple weeks ago when a friend came over and suggested we watch the movie. I now would recommend everyone to watch it. It may not have the happiest ending, but it shows that one person can make a difference no matter what their age. Some one that is in their teens could impact the world just as much, if not more, than someone in there fifties.

paigenatane
teen, 15 years old
 
Amazing
A wonderful story with amazing messages. There is some violence, including severe but healed burns on one character and one character death. There is a mild strip club scene and one mild, not revealing sex scene. There is some brief language. One character is an alcoholic but this is a great point to talk about to your kids. Overall, a great movie. Watch with your kids and discuss everything. Such a thought-provoking movive. One of my favorites.

sambob!!!123
kid, 11 years old
 
okay but not excellent
oits a good movie but it has too much achohol and smoking involved and it has strong language

 
Great Movie!
I think this is a great movie! Its definately an eye opener. Very sad at some points and inteligent at others. I suggest viewing this movie as it is one of the best I've ever seen..

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