Rain Man

Movie review by Elliot Panek, Common Sense Media
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age 16+

Drama about autistic savant has profanity, mature themes.

R 1988 134 minutes
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age 14+

Based on 15 reviews

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age 13+

Based on 42 reviews

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A Lot or a Little?

The parents' guide to what's in this movie.

What Parents Need to Know

Parents need to know that Rain Man is a 1988 movie in which a selfish and greedy sports-car salesman (played by Tom Cruise) discovers, in the wake of his father's death, that he has a brother he never knew he had, a brother who is an autistic savant (played by Dustin Hoffman). This movie contains some strong language, including frequent use of "f--k," and two instances of Cruise's character calling Hoffman's character "retarded" and "f--kin' retarded." There are some intense scenes in which Raymond becomes distressed, prone to horrific screams and near-violent outbursts. There's a scene where sex is insinuated (moaning and movement under the sheets) and a brief glimpse of a breast. Prostitution is alluded to. Cruise's character smokes cigarettes. This movie deals with mental health issues, though it requires little understanding of these issues on the part of a young viewer; characters possess the same ignorance and biases a child is likely to have.

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Spencer H.
Spencer H. Adult
April 1, 2020
age 15+

Great message, great performances but not for younger kids unless you show them an edited version

This is a drama about Tom Cruise who is a self absorbed car dealer who learns to turn into a decent, selfless human being when he discovers he has a much older brother who is an autistic savant played by Dustin Hoffman. The acting is fantastic Hoffman definitely deserved his second Oscar for this, Cruise although maybe too young in reality to be Hoffman's brother (let's face it Hoffman is old enough to be Cruise's dad in real life), is equally excellent and the chemistry he has with Hoffman is among the finest in cinema history. That being said as other reviewers have pointed out the language is very strong. Cruise uses many f-words and while it helps us to understand his frustrations with Hoffman it is also excessive. There is a brief comic sex scene but both Cruise and his girlfriend are not shown having intercourse. They are hidden by a comforter and Hoffman walks in on them misunderstanding what they are up to. It is played strictly for laughs. Later Cruise's girlfriend is seen in the bathtub and a brief glimpse of her nipple may be visible. Were it not for the profanity and that one scene this film could easily qualify as a PG rated film but instead it is rated R for those reasons. Some of the scenes of Hoffman getting upset are intense, but it is to demonstrate what autistic savants can be like and it gives adults and kids a better understanding of who they are as people. This movie also glorifies Hoffman's characters abilities which is excellent and shows that people with his disability are extraordinary. It's a shame this movie is rated R because it really could be an excellent PG rated family friendly film but it does occasionally play on television and of course they have Clearplay machines which can edit out the strong language and sex and make the film on the PG level. Catch it on TV or watch it with a Clearplay if you have kids under 15 because the message in this movie about love and acceptance is fantastic. If your kids are 15 and up they should be able to handle this fine unedited. Its a movie with great messages for pre-teens and teens to learn. It's just a shame about the language and one sex scene.

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Too much sex
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March 26, 2020
age 18+

Older teen

Mature theme Female breast nudity Sex scene

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What's the Story?

When yuppie misanthrope Charlie Babbit's father dies at the start of RAIN MAN, he leaves most of his fortune to his autistic, institutionalized son Raymond (Dustin Hoffman), the brother Charlie (Tom Cruise) never knew he had. Charlie kidnaps Raymond from a mental institution, and they travel across the country in search of a new home and a new intimacy. Exquisitely photographed by John Seale, the first half of the film is an austere road movie, with the American West as a backdrop and Cruise and Hoffman playing off one another like old pros. Things become more complex when Charlie realizes that long-forgotten events from his childhood are locked inside Raymond's photographic memory.

Is It Any Good?

This is a quiet, understated gem of a film, one that richly rewards the patient viewer with an unforgettable emotional experience. Many films that depict those with mental or physical disabilities exploit the character's handicap for quick-fix audience sympathy. Rain Man never indulges in this. Despite it being responsible for autism becoming part of the common vernacular, Rain Man does not dwell on the affliction's parlor-trick-like aspects.

Instead, we follow the ups and downs of Raymond's relationship with Charlie and with the world at large. Each success is followed by a setback, until we begin to question how we define "success." Charlie longs for Raymond to change but gradually, subtly, changes the terms with which he loves him. The film refuses to take the easy way out by demonizing institutions of mental health. In the end, we are left to wonder what is best for Raymond and whether or not Charlie is any less emotionally isolated than his brother.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about issues surrounding mental health in Rain Man and in general. Should we expect people who have trouble communicating with others to adjust or accept mentally ill people as they are? Are mentally ill people sick and in need of a cure? Are the doctors at the mental hospital as compassionate and well-meaning as Charlie?

  • In the time since this movie was released, what has changed in society's understanding of mental health and mental illness? If this movie were released today, how do you think it would be different?

  • When this movie was released, Dustin Hoffman won an Oscar for Best Actor in a Leading Role. What do you think would be the challenges for an actor playing someone who is an autistic savant? What kind of research do you think would go into learning and rehearsing for this role?

  • How do the characters in Rain Man demonstrate compassion? Why is that an important character strength?

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