Raising Helen

  • Review Date: October 10, 2004
  • PG-13
  • Genre: Comedy
  • 2004
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Common Sense Media says

Light drama with some appealing moments.
greenON: Content is age-appropriate for kids this age.
yellowPAUSE: Know your child; some content
may not be right for some kids.
redOFF: Not age-appropriate for kids this age.
not for kidsNOT FOR KIDS: Not appropriate for kids any age.

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What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this movie has some strong language. Characters drink and smoke. Helen's smoking, imitated by one of the children, is evidence of her carefree lifestyle; we see her wearing a nicotine patch after she has to begin to be more responsible. Similarly, as the fun aunt she approves of a fake ID for an underage girl; as the parent, she does not. And before she has the children, she has casual sex, but afterward she is ready for a more complete relationship. An underage couple plan to have sex but are stopped in time. Some members of the audience will find the movie's portrayal of public school to be unfair. A strength of the movie is friendship between diverse characters.

  • Tense and sad moments.
  • Sexual references and non-explicit sexual situations.
  • Brief strong language.

What's the story?

Helen (Kate Hudson), a young woman who thinks she has everything she wants, including a glamorous job in a modeling agency. She gets to go to parties and wear chic clothes and be the cool aunt to her sisters' children, the fun one who thinks that fake IDs are great and shows that you never really have to grow up. But then Helen's sister and brother-in-law are killed in an accident and it turns out that they left their three children not to the older, stable, potpourri-loving earth mother sister Jenny (Joan Cusack) but to Helen. Helen is willing, if a bit shell-shocked. But for the first time she has taken on some problems that can't be solved with a dazzling smile. The three children show her how messy, exhausting, painful, more exhausting, expensive, scary, difficult, and then even more exhausting life can be. She will think of it as an unbearable burden. She will have to leave Manhattan for Brooklyn and take time from her job for an emergency involving shoelace-tying. She will make mistakes and let people down. She will worry that she is not up to the challenge. And she will get a chance to find out whether she is.


Is it any good?

 

This latest take on a familiar setup is not a romantic comedy, as suggested by the trailers and commercials. RAISING HELEN is more of a light drama with some comic and tragic moments. It has a solid script and a strong cast led by the deliciously twinkly Kate Hudson, with Helen Mirrin as her boss, Joan Cusack and Felicity Huffman as her sisters, Sakina Jaffrey as one tough bat-wielding mother of a neighbor, and John Corbett providing guidance, support, and some romantic interest as the Lutheran pastor who is principal of the school. That puts it way ahead of garbage like Cop and a Half and Curly Sue.

Hudson is fine as Helen in the early scenes, enjoying her own deliciousness as mistress of her universe. What's more fun to watch here is the way Hudson holds up as Helen's world falls apart around her. Helen isn't sure she can give or deserve the kind of affection required by the children and by the pastor. Helen must also be willing not to be completely loved every single second. Hudson shows us as an actress that is a lesson she has already learned.


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What families can talk about

Families can talk about how they think about plans to care for children in case of tragedy. Why did the children's parents choose Helen instead of Jenny?


This review was written by Nell Minow
 
Great movie!
This is a great movie for girls 13 and up. I watched it at a sleepover with two of my friends and I loved it! There is some implied sex, Helen unbuttons a guy's shirt, then they go into his house and close the door anda teenager goes to a hotel after the prom with with another boy. The S word is said once or twice. Other then that, it's an awesome movie! I laughed, almost cried, and truly enjoyed it.

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Teen, 16 years old
April 9, 2008
 
really gret movie!!! I liked it very much!!!

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Teen, 17 years old
April 9, 2008
 
Tweens and teens will love it!
Raising Helen is a good movie for tweens and up but I would not see this movie with a five year old. It was a great message and wonderful actors!! Pretty good for anyone who wants to see a light-hearted family movie.

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Adult
April 9, 2008
 
This was a great movie!
Raising Helen was great! There was a good amount of sexual content but it was handeled in a moral way, especially twords the end. It was a movie that made you laugh cry and watch a second time. Because of some mature issues though I wouldnt recomened this for pre-teens.

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April 9, 2008
 

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Teen, 18 years old
April 9, 2008
 
i cried and laughed
Raising Helen is a great movie for kids to watch epecially if you have recently lost someone in your life that means a lot to you. It's a great movie for kids at all ages starting at 9/10. It makes you cry, it makes your sides hurt because your laughing so hard, and it makes you feel like you're going to get in trouble because you feel like your in the movie and you're one of the characters that are going to get in trouble for leaving the prom, or going to a motel with a guy that's about to get kicked out of school.

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Teen, 18 years old
April 9, 2008
 
Raising Helen is raiseing laughs!
A light drama for most people (Off a age) Maybe not Kate Hudsons best flim....or maybe not Oscar worthey, but a nice flim for a girls night out.

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Adult
April 9, 2008
 
good movie for intended audience
The thing I liked best about this film is that it realistically portrays a pastor as a human being.

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Parent of 11 year old
October 26, 2009
 
GREAT GREAT GREAT MOVIE !!!!!!! ONE OF THE BEST MOVIES EVERRRR !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The things to worry about are mentioned in the CSM review.. mild non-explicit sexual references which are age appropriate 11-12 = iffy content 13+ = GREAT MOVIE A MUST WATCH !!!!!!!!!!!!! A MUST WATCH !!!!!!!!!!!!! PERFECT PERFECT PERFECT PERFECT PERFECT PERFECT PERFECT PERFECT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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This review was written by Nell Minow
Studio:Buena Vista
Director:Garry Marshall
Cast:Hayden Panettiere, John Corbett, Kate Hudson
Genre:Comedy
Run time:119 minutes
Theatrical release date:May 28, 2004
DVD release date:October 12, 2004
MPAA rating:PG-13
MPAA explanation:thematic issues involving teens

This review was written by Nell Minow
 

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