Reality Bites (PG-13, 1994)

common sense media says

Comedy about 20-something slackers isn't for kids.


parents & educators say

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this film features 20-something recent college graduates who drink, smoke, and sleep around. There are few consequences for their behavior, save for a very mild subplot in which one of the characters takes an AIDS test (she tests negative). However, the characters generally mean well, and parents who don't object to depictions of sex and drug/alcohol use may find their behavior towards each other acceptable.

Positive messages: The characters generally mean well, but they take everything from sex to drug use very casually.
Violence: Not applicable.
Sex: Characters are shown engaging in casual sex with multiple partners. One character has an HIV scare.
Language: Not applicable.
Consumerism: Characters explicitly discuss the merits of the Big Gulp. Dominos is mentioned and is featured in the narrative as is Evian.
Drinking, drugs, & smoking: Characters are shown smoking cigarettes and marijuana and drinking beer and other alcohol.

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What to talk about

Talk to your kids
Families can talk about movies' responsibility. Should movies that target teens and 20-year-olds simply reflect their behavoir -- or does seeing characters drink, smoke and have casual sex on screen glamorize their behavior?

What's the story?

What's the story?
REALITY BITES opens with a speech in which college valedictorian and fledgling documentarian Lelaina (Winona Ryder) expresses her general dissatisfaction with the world she's about to take on. That vague angst is the most consistent plot thread running through the film as Lelaina and her three buddies Vickie (Janeane Garofalo), Sammy (Steve Zahn), and Troy (Ethan Hawke) labor at worthless jobs, play drinking games, cavort for Lelaina's documentary cameras, and look for love. Lelaina and Troy seem meant for each other, but when she (literally) bumps into an older, slicker television executive (Ben Stiller), a predictable love triangle ensues.

Is it any good?

Is it any good?
 
Boy, oh boy do the characters who inhabit Reality Bites love to talk. They talk about their love lives, their search for meaningful work, their favorite TV shows. They talk about their lame parents, their boring jobs, their slacker friends. It's not that all the talk isn't occasionally amusing; on the contrary, the dialogue is smart and bubblegum-culture-savvy enough to provoke chuckles amongst Gen X parents. It's just that the characters take themselves so incredibly seriously, and never shut up.

Overall, the movie is not without charm or laughs, and although the ending is supposed to be happy, it is rather shallow. Anyone over 25 will find the main characters rather insufferable, while those under 25 might find it dated.

Movie themes & details

Movie Details
Studio: Universal Pictures
Director: Ben Stiller
Cast: Ben Stiller, Ethan Hawke, Winona Ryder
Genre: Comedy
Run time: 99 minutes
Theatrical release: February 18, 1994
DVD release: July 21, 1998
MPAA Rating: PG-13
MPAA explanation: some language, drug content and sensuality

This review was written by Joyce Slaton
 
 

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