Revolutionary Road (R, 2008)

common sense media says

Intense adult drama shocks but doesn't awe.


parents & educators say
  • 100% say language is an issue
  • 67% say sexual content is an issue

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this 1950s-set adult drama deals with themes that are probably too intense for younger teens. It explores a marriage on the brink of destruction, which can be painful to watch, and tackles subjects like infidelity, gender roles, abortion, and mental illness. The main characters fight constantly in long, drawn-out scenes and seem unaware of the effect their conflict is having on their children. There's also some nudity (bared breasts) and sex, as well as language, drinking, and era-accurate smoking.

Positive messages: A husband and wife tear each other apart verbally and emotionally. They mean well but are hobbled by personal dissatisfaction, an inability to communicate, and predefined gender roles. They seem unaware of the effects of their relationship on their children and fight bitterly, loudly, and somewhat physically. Friends and neighbors care about them but can't seem to help but judge their decisions. Couples are unfaithful and betray the people close to them. Communities try to unify over a shared activity but fail. A woman contemplates terminating a pregnancy.
Violence: A couple continually indulges in long, loud, drawn-out fights that lead to them either stalking off or challenging the other to hit them. Plenty of tears and insults.
Sex: A woman's breasts are bared in a scene in which she's trying to appear casual after sleeping with a married man. A married couple has sex on the kitchen counter (no nudity); another couple, not married to each other, has sex in a car (lots of noises and movement, but again, no nudity). Many conversations about trysting.
Language: Runs the gamut, from the milder "damn" to "bulls--t" and "f--k."
Consumerism: Not applicable.
Drinking, drugs, & smoking: Characters smoke constantly (accurate for the era) and drink socially. Beer is consumed, but there seems to be a preference for hard liquor. Characters get drunk and cheat on their spouses.

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What to talk about

Talk to your kids
Families can talk about how the main characters' relationship/interactions make teens feel. What kind of parents were they? How do you think children are affected by a relationship like April and Frank's? Also, how does the era in which the story is set shape it? What were the 1950s and 1960s like for men and women? Were gender roles limited? Why did April and Frank -- and scores like them -- try to adapt? How did they try to retain their individuality? Were they successful?

What's the story?

What's the story?
"It takes a backbone to lead the life you want," declares April Wheeler (Kate Winslet), a twentysomething 1950s mother of two who's rediscovering her own spine in this forceful drama based on a novel by Richard Yates. Stuck in the 'burbs, her ennui increasing with each passing day and her marriage headed for the rocks, she begs her husband, Frank (Leonardo DiCaprio), to chuck it all and head to Paris. Meanwhile, Frank whiles away the days trying to do as little work as possible at the Manhattan office where his father once clocked hours. His discontent is growing, and he wonders why his life has become strained. April's plea steers him down the road not taken, but he's not as sure as his wife that he wants to take that route. Will what's meant to save them lead to their undoing?

Is it any good?

Is it any good?
 

There's no doubting Winslet's acting prowess. Her April is wasted, exhausted, emotionally spent, and fighting to be alive. It's a sight to behold. As man-child Frank -- who can't quite reach his lost wife because he's lost himself -- DiCaprio starts out as if playacting but soon delivers a performance so raw that you forget who he is; by the movie's end, it feels as if we're intruding, but we can't look away -- he's that compelling. The rest of the cast is also strong.

But like April and Frank, who once seemed destined for a bright future, REVOLUTIONARY ROAD doesn't fulfill its promise. Though beautifully shot and well-acted, the film is hobbled by somewhat prosaic storytelling. Expository scenes come one after another, relieved by equally expository flashbacks. (AMC's Mad Men does this era so much better.) Yates' novel, on the other hand, is near perfect and heartbreakingly observant. Which isn't to say that our hearts aren't broken by the movie version; they are. But we recover quickly -- and with material as powerful as this, we really shouldn't be able to walk away intact.

Movie themes & details

Movie Details
Studio: Paramount Vantage
Director: Sam Mendes
Cast: Kate Winslet, Kathy Bates, Leonardo DiCaprio
Genre: Drama
Run time: 119 minutes
Theatrical release: December 26, 2008
DVD release: June 2, 2009
MPAA Rating: R
MPAA explanation: language and some sexual content/nudity

This review was written by S. Jhoanna Robledo
 
 

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What parents & educators say

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Based on 3 parent & educator reviews:
  • 100% say language is an issue
  • 67% say sexual content is an issue
  • 33% say violence is an issue
  • 33% say there are positive messages
  • 33% say there's too much drinking, drugs, or smoking

Most useful reviews by all members

eastside01
teen, 17 years old
 
Revolutionary Road shocking and disturbing.
Talented director Sam Mendes gives us the tragedy of suburbian life. The movie stars actor Leonardo Dicaprio and wife of Sam Mendes Kate Winslet. The movie can get carried away by the fighting and depression but it is great acting on their part plus the Oscar-nominated support Michael Shannon is pure. If you want to see a happy reunion with these two than don't see it, but if you want to see two great actors acting great than see it.

Jane Austen fan
parent of 18 year old
 
Perfect for mature teens
"Revolutionary Road" is a complex drama telling the story of a young couple who get sick of the mundane regularity of their lives. They attempt to change their lives for the better, with drastic results. "Revolutionary Road" ia a grown-up film with superb performances from Kate Winslet and Leonardo DiCaprio. I am not saying that teens won't like it but I do think that it i one for mature-thinking teens. There is a fair amount of swearing (mainly the f-word) in the argumentative scenes and some religious parents might have a problem with the abortion theme. In my opinion, this is a must-see. Stellar performances, a fine script and a gripping story. Not many laughs - it is a depressing film - but I highly recommend it and it presents a powerful, very positive message - follow your dreams.

FutureWWEDiva2010
teen, 18 years old
 
depressing movie
disturbing ending! I like the actors better in titanic. this movie depressed me.

Charlie Chaplin
parent of and 7 , 10 , 12 year old
 
Not good for any age to watch!
I watched this movie because the good actors attracted my attaention and somewhere someone told me it was a good movie! I felt trapped watching it. I wanted to finish it hoping that somewhere there will be some good lesson or maybe a better ending. Man, it went from bad to worse. I felt sick afterwards. If i want my teenagers to see a really sick bunch of characters, while teaching them how to not treat your spouse, I would choose this movie!

 
Okay for older teens and adults, no children
It's dissapointing that the review on violence made no mention of the abortion that Kate Winslett carried out in the movie. THere is a lot of blood and it is a very traumatic part of the film. It causes me to wonder if the movie was even watched in the entirety by the critics.

dicapriofreak94
teen, 15 years old
 
Good, but depressing film
Very well done movie. Brilliantly acted and directed, but highly depressing movie. I watched this movie, knowing that it would not be/end happily, but I was very surprised really at how depressing it really was. I won't give anything away, but just be prepared for a good but very sad movie. There are two sex scenes, one couple have sex on the kitchen counter, and another in the car. There is no nudity, but you definitely get the idea at what they are doing. The F word is said a few times, but not an excessive amount. I would recommend this movie to people who can handle some very depressing moments.

Poison Ivey
teen, 17 years old
 
If it werent for dicaprio/winslet (perfect couple) I would have hated it
I guess it was a good movie; the only reason i picked it off the shelf was because i had been deprived of leonardo and kate movies since I saw titanic. There is a lot of smoking, swearing. But sex was no worse than any other R movie, and it was farely laid back in that department for it's rating. There was no nudity and you could clearly see in one scene the people were fully clothed. I found it a little boring but I guess overall it was pretty ok, sad. :(

caseypuppy1
teen, 18 years old
 
GREAT MOVIE IFFY FOR TWEENS
LOVED THIS MOVIE!!!!! the actors are wonderful and you were able to relate and feel for both kate winslet's character as well as Leonardo Dicaprio's character WONDERFUL MOVIE

bubbleboy
teen, 15 years old
 
Achingly Real and Undeniably Powerful
"Revolutionary Road" is among the finest films I've seen. As great as "American Beauty" is, this one should go down as Mendes' masterpiece. Kate Winslet's April (who poses question of mental ilness) is the best work done by an actress in 2008, or possibly the decade. DiCaprio gets off to a bumpy start as Frank, but soon becomes so real that he dissolves into Frank's guise. Michael Shannon (as a mentally unstable realtor's son) is simply outstanding, unflinching and brilliant. The film tells the story of Frank and April Wheeler, a couple living out the seemingly perfect suburban lifestyle, though underneath the mask of suburbia their world is falling apart. He secretly wants to be a bigshot, to step out of his father's footsteps and his cubicle on the 16th floor of the Knox building; she wants nothing more than to lead a remarkable life, to do somehing extraordinary. When the two realize that their dreams are hopelessly out of reach, they attempt to move to Paris. Though underneath their sunny outlook on the idea, they each know that it could never work. While battling their inner demons, salvation comes from a walk through the woods with their realtor's mentally ill son (a brilliant Michael Shannon) cursed with saying anything that comes to mind. The placing of his character in the film is brilliant, as he outright says what lies inside Frank and April. The fight scenes between the couple are raw and deeply affecting, and the film is beautifully and artfully shot. *SPOILER ALERT* When April finds she is pregnant, she desperately decides to abort the child, feeling it an intrusion on her dream. But when Frank tells her not to she obeys. That is, until a fight when he tells her he "wishes to god" she had done it when she has the chance. Wanting to escape the hopelessness of suburbia and give Frank what he asked for, she does, resulting in her death. Through the story there are heartbreakingly true and insightful lines (courtesy of a brilliant script), most notably when April declares to Frank "Our entire lives are based on this great premise that we're superior to the whole thing, but we're not. We're just like everybody else. Look at us, we've bought into the same ridiculous delusion, this idea that you have to settle down and resign from life the moment that you have children." That's good stuff. This is a film with heavy subject matter, brief nudity, language, and some graphic (though fully-clothed) sex scenes, so not for the youngsters.

Ladylollipop1
teen, 15 years old
 
Needs a Very mature viewer who is not easily upset.
A very sad film, maybe one of the saddest i've seen, be prepared for that. The sex isn't grpahic and is short but should still not be witnessed by young audiences. It's definately not a family film and married couples should probably not watch it. It is however worth a watch as it is quite brilliant and not as adult as everyone says. Even if you don't like the story watch it for the brilliant acting from the leads!

wannabemoviecritic
teen, 15 years old
 
GREAT MOVIE
I loved it! I found it also very depressing. I'm 12 and my parent doesn't even know I watched it (children have thier methids) I'm really just trying to say that if you want your kids to see something "uplifting" then go rent Barney and friends. If you want your kids to see something brilliant let them watch this.

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