Tyler Perry's Why Did I Get Married? (PG-13, 2007)

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Tyler Perry's latest comedy has adult themes.


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What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this film is too grown-up for the younger members of Tyler Perry's ultra-loyal fanbase. Though there's no explicit sex, and the language is fairly mild (occasional uses of "ass" is about as strong as it gets), the movie's themes -- infidelity, deception, and vulnerability within a marriage -- are definitely meant for adults. Also expect plenty of sexual innuendoes, some characterizations bordering on stereotype (the leech-like ex-wife, the shopping-crazy mistress, etc.), and social drinking.

Positive messages: Overall, the relationships portrayed are fairly loving, though one couple bickers quite a bit. But two husbands cheat on their wives, and one is quite vicious and humiliating in the way he jokes about his wife's weight (he even makes her drive alone while he travels by plane so he can avoid paying for two seats for her).
Violence: A dinner table conversation ends up becoming a verbal free-for-all. A wife hits her husband with a wine bottle. Later, a husband hurls his wife's Blackberry at the wall.
Sex: Couples kiss and cuddle (and try to figure out whether to have sex). Conversations are peppered with stories and innuendoes about venereal diseases, bedroom behavior, and more.
Language: Not too much swearing, but numerous uses of the words "slut," "ho," "ass," and even "mortherf-" (the person stops before saying "f--ker").
Consumerism: Fancy cars (Mercedes) and designer duds signify a comfortable lifestyle for many of the couples, but it doesn't feel like a commercial.
Drinking, drugs, & smoking: No smoking, but some social drinking (wine at dinner and at a reception). One character admits to drinking way too much.

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What to talk about

Talk to your kids
Families can talk about how this movie portrays marriage. Does it seem real, or is it Hollywood-ized? If so, how? In movies, why does marriage seem so difficult? Is it that way in real life? Families can also discuss why Tyler Perry is so popular. Have you seen his other movies? What do they have in common? Who are they targeted at, and why do they appeal to that audience? Do you like him better as his character Madea or as a "regular" actor? Why?

What's the story?

What's the story?
Tyler Perry's ensemble drama WHY DID I GET MARRIED? follows the relationship ups and downs of four couples--lifelong friends who take a vacation in the mountains to catch up on one another's lives and wind up airing their dirty laundry in the process. Lawyer Diane (Sharon Leal) can't seem to stay away from work, despite her pediatrician husband Terry's (Perry) pleas to spend time with him and have another baby. Famous psychologist/author Patricia (Janet Jackson) and her architect spouse, Gavin (Malik Yoba), seem perfect on the outside but are aching after the death of their son. Hair care guru Angela (Tasha Smith) and Marcus (Michael Jai White), an ex-pro football player, can't stop bickering. And Sheila (Jill Scott), a housewife, can't seem to get much love from Mike (Richard T. Jones), her not-so-better-half, who spends his days either needling her about her weight or cheating on her.

Is it any good?

Is it any good?
 
There's no denying Tyler Perry's talent. As a writer, he has a pretty good command of voice; he's able to capture a woman's point of view in addition to a man's. As a director, he's sure-footed, confident in his ability to tell a story. Still, that doesn't mean that this film -- which he both wrote and directed -- is a great movie. Interesting, yes. Enjoyable, sure. Funny, pretty much. But the parts are greater than the whole.

In short, everyone's relationship is a mess, which any filmmaker worth his salt knows makes for good storytelling fodder. But here, the material's bogged down by unsurprising life lessons -- you can't get everything you need from your spouse, for starters -- and expository dialogue that tells, not shows. When Sheila loses it after discovering Mike's infidelity, she announces that her life is "nothing" without him. But we only know it because she says so. When Patricia breaks down and cries over her lost child, she says she's been suffering all this time -- but we haven't witnessed any of it. Basically, the characters talk too much and don't do enough, leaving the film slack. Nevertheless, the cast has chemistry, with Scott as the breakout star for her nuanced performance. Sheila is so pathetic, so beaten down, and yet so sadly believable that when she finally finds herself (and a new man), it's hard not to clap and holler.

Movie themes & details

Movie Details
Studio: Lionsgate
Director: Tyler Perry
Cast: Janet Jackson, Jill Scott, Tyler Perry
Genre: Comedy
Run time: 113 minutes
Theatrical release: October 12, 2007
DVD release: February 11, 2008
MPAA Rating: PG-13
MPAA explanation: mature thematic material, sexual references and language.

This review was written by S. Jhoanna Robledo
 
 

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Nook01
adult
 
I laughed so hard
Great film. Seen it twice.

feliciastory
parent of 8 and 9 year old
 
I laughed the hole time they all are very funny.
They don't have alot of bad mouth talking .

supnse
adult
 
Awesome,a must see,very entertaining,and full of laughter,and some tears
Well, what can I say. I LOVED THIS MOVIE!! Best one I've seen in years. I went to see this movie 3 different times. So needless to say I loved it. It had class, laughter,tears,and joyful ending. Very well done Mr. Perry. I saw The play version on DVD. Michael wasn't as ruthless in the play. Love all the characters, even Terry's and Dianne's role. A must see for every couple.

Karluveva13
teen, 14 years old
 
This movie will have you talking to the tv.It is a good movie like all of Tlyer Perry movies.

sodalover44
kid, 11 years old
 
I think it`s perfect for tweens
When I was in my parents room I watched part of it and I loved it but then my parents changed the channel

Teebaby
adult
 
The dinner scene alone is worth the price of admission!
Nice change seeing professional, (mostly) well-adjusted Blacks on film. No shootings, drugs, broken homes, etc. to contend with. I laughed so hard at times, I missed the beginning of the next scene. I found myself feeling things as this movie went along. Usually I go, and it's just a movie. I walked away from this movie feeling like I was watching my friends. Maybe that's because everybody knows somebody like the characters portrayed in this movie. There was drama, comedy, uh-oh o no she di'ent moments in this film that I loved! Throw in a little love, forgiveness, and redemption, and you can call this one a hit. Loved it! Tyler, you did it man! I hope this is not his last movie :-)

brookann13
teen, 16 years old
 
Loved it!
This movie was absolutely fantastic! I laughed and cried along with the characters throughout the movie.

ironkid21
kid, 13 years old
 
This was a really good movie. It can relate to married couples. There was just some inappropriate talk. 9+

Prototype79043
teen, 16 years old
 
Perfect for all ages
People need to know what can happen when you abuse your marriage.

lil mamma sexy
parent of 19 year old
 
like it it was good i give it 100%

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