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All parent reviews for Where the Wild Things Are

Age
8
Average rating based on 185 parent reviews:
  • 49% say violence is an issue
Adult
October 23, 2009
 
I don't understand all the negative reaction to this movie. It is a good movie--even though it is not the typical shiny, happy movie for kids--we have enough of those. I've seen many comments on what a violent movie it was. There was only one iffy scene (the arm scene). I thought the interaction between the characters was wonderful. The movie didn't wrap everything up in a nice tidy package at the end either. It made you think. And, different people can have different ideas of what the movie meant to them. I enjoyed taking my kids to a movie that made them question and think about things afterwards. While I wouldn't say that my 9 & 12 year old kids loved it, they did say that they liked it and thought it was different. And, I think different is a good thing.

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Adult
January 31, 2010
 
Should remain unseen
**** Mild spoilers ahead**** This was one of my favorite books as a child and one of my least favorite movies as college student. To those who know Jonze, it's not surprise the way the film ended up. It's angst-ridden and filled with light easy-listening indie pop music. I'm not one for nostalgia but this film utterly failed to capture the spirit of the book. It seems like Maurice Sendak, who was involved in the making of the film, forgot what he wrote more than 35 years ago. The book had a story of adventure and freedom, while the film is overly-dramatic, filled with almost constant sadness. There's nothing wrong with a film departing from the book its based on, but this film is a poor one even in a vacuum. The constant sorrow in the film takes away from what could be a very touching scene of Max leaving the island. Because the characters are so sad throughout the film, there's no real change in emotion in the final scene. Jonze puts the monsters in constant conflict with each other, back and forth between love and hate and it gets tiresome very quickly. However it is incredibly beautiful and the animation/puppetry is stunning. Children will likely be frightened by the violent interactions and probably turned off by the slow pace and dialogue that will likely be over their heads.

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Parent of 7, 7, and 10 year old
October 23, 2009
 
Bleak & Depressing
We are usually a pretty laid back movie family -- not much gets to us. We just loaded up the boys and took them to see this movie. They've been so excited because Daddy reads this book to them all the time, just as his Dad did for him. We are so disappointed we are almost as angry and miserable as the characters. Dark, Depressing, Bleak,Angry, Miserable, Destructive, Lonely ... those are the words that come to mind when attempting to describe the message and tone of this film. How could Zemeckis do THAT to such a beloved children's story? I have always read that book as the story of one little boy's wildly active imagination, never as the monsters that are coming from the dark recesses of his troubled mind. We have spent the last hour discussing the reality that we do not find a single thing in that movie acceptable and the boys are asking why everybody in the movie is so mad and sad. Tickets for Family of 5 + Snack Packs for the Kids = $50 down the drain and a family deflated by the whole experience.

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Adult
October 22, 2009
 
about children, not necessarily for children
Not sure why people are upset that they can't take their small children; wait for Astroboy, or see Chance of Meatballs still in theaters. It may be that the age appropriateness of the book needs re-evaluation. In the book and film the boy is threatening a dog with a fork after all. Get a babysitter and go see this movie, or take your older child if you must. It is excellently directed, will have you laughing, and your heart palpitating. The rumpus is fun, but there is always an edge of peril. The film deals with loneliness, and fear, and trying to cope with those things in a healthy way, rather than acting out (sometimes violently) and alienating the very people (or monsters) you love. The photography is gorgeous, and the monsters are incredible replicas. I think Jonze does a fair reading of the book, and interprets it into film beautifully.

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Parent of 3 and 5 year old
March 16, 2010
 
Now there's two hours I'll never get back...
In a child's book made into a full length movie, I expect plot events to be, you know, added. (Think, Polar Express, etc.) Here, it's just the events from the very short book, spread over time mixed with sleeping in a pile, throwing dirt, and many violent and petty arguments. Some have said it's all metaphorical, that each wild thing represents parts of Max or his family. However, I don't believe we know enough about his family to make any informed connections. We only see them at the very beginning, centered mostly around truly disturbing behavior in Max. Honestly, he needs evaluation and probably medication. Max looks to be about age 10 or 11, and my 3-year-old would be in trouble for behaving as immaturely as he does. So, if you are in a Child Psych 101 class, analyze it in your thesis paper, include which wild thing is who and why...knock yourself out. However, as a movie experience: dark, depressing, and so boring, even the mother character falls asleep at the end.

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Adult
October 22, 2009
 
OK for families who prepare their kids
I took my three boys, ages 3, 8, and 10 to see it. They all liked it and my husband and I were very happy with how the book had been turned into a movie. I had read an article interviewing Spike Jonze and Maurice Sendak, so I knew that it was a "real movie" with "real kids" discussing difficult emotions and not just a feel-good happy movie. I talked with my kids ahead of time and that helped prepare them.

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Parent of 9 year old
October 23, 2009
 
I took my 8 yr old step-son to this movie for his birthday. We had been reading about it and knew that it wasn't really a "kids" movie but we still wanted to see what it was about. I personally loved it, with a 8 yr old that has been through many issues with his mother and some anger problems this move was perfect! It showed him that he was not alone when he felt certain ways. I also loved the way that dialogue was meant for kids, it helped him to get into it more. I think this is a great movie.

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Parent of 10 and 12 year old
October 24, 2009
 
A deep moving film that will definitely get your kids to think!
I loved this movie and used it as a teaching tool about expressing feelings. My children are in a single parent home and have displayed some of the same emotions that Max has. Kids can learn from this that anger isn't the way to solve feelings of sadness or lonliness. I love the slower pace and the fact that the film wasn't in your face with resolution. Life isn't like that. It has a much more subtle ending that shows unconditional love.

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Adult
October 28, 2009
 
A little dark, but still very good.
The movie was a bit darker than I had expected but I thought overall it was a good adaptation of the book. Young children will definately be scared by this movie. Also, some children might easily miss the positive message in this movie and focus on some of the bad behavior. Parents should be prepared to talk to their children about the movie.

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Parent of 10 year old
November 10, 2009
 
Great re-imagination of a great Classic
I loved it. My Fiance Loved it! Tripp liked it OK. He didn't remember the book too much so we revisited it after wards and He liked the characters - he was able to identify the roles each of the characters plays int he boys life and could relate to his own issues. Some people are shying away because they think it's too scary, but if you only look at the trailer, you will not get the full breath of the story. Althought it can be a little tense at moments, It is not really a violent movie nor is it really scary. A must watch for young and old

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Adult
April 12, 2010
 
Do not buy it, rent it or watch it
Despised it. It was awful- I usually pre-screen movies I think might be questionable for my kids. Unfortunately I didn't with this one. It was awful, depressing, brooding, disturbing, dark and weird. I would not recommend this movie for anyone, ever. I wish I could get it out of my head, and even more so my children's! Do not buy it, rent it or watch it. Seriously.

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Adult
April 16, 2010
 
BEST MOVIE of the decade!!!
My children all loved the book, and grew up listening to all of Maurice Sendak's books over and over upon request. I am not usually one to go to the movies, my forte is reading. My oldest son saw the movie, he is a sophmore in college, and told me I needed to see it. He confided that he cried. It has taken me months and months to getting around to finally seeing it, and I can't begin to say enough WONDERFUL things about it!!! What I don't understand is the gloom and doom reviews it was given with so much talk about how scary it was. Personally I think it was incredibly thought provoking and insightful in portraying childhood in all its glory. I would have no problem showing it to any child five and up as it was not Hollywood violent and the subject matter, language, and visuals are all appropriate.

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Parent of 8 and 9 year old
February 23, 2011
 
This movie was just a nightmare. I regret having taken my kids to see it.

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Parent of 7 and 9 year old
October 21, 2009
 
Lazy and uninvolved parents leave your kids at home; the good parents take their kids
This movie is not for lazy parents. Uninvolved parents should leave their kids home. You are dead wrong if you think you can take your children to this movie without talking with them before, maybe during, and definitely after. The messages around lonliness are very powerful. The messages are around family, love, caring about others...it's really about Emotional Intelligence. And these messages are very complex, intimate, moving, and nuanced. The cinematography is intense and the directing is just odd enough to shake up the "normal" way that movies try to show personal connections. There is real value in this movie. You can teach your children to develop their own values with this movie. Just do it actively. If you're lazy with your kids, then don't take them until they're 16.

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Parent of 18 year old
April 5, 2010
 
Definitely not?
How did this movie make it into theaters? This is the worst movie I've ever seen in my life. I reccomend you dont see this movie unless you feel like wasting your time.

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Adult
November 6, 2009
 
When my girlfriend and I left the theater (feeling sorely disappointed though slightly less weighed down by those pesky dollars) I told her that I thought this movie must be the visual adaptation of a child regression psychotherapy session on acid for a severely dysfunctional child. I take it back...its just a dysfunctional kid on acid. There's nothing to get here, no key that unlocks all of the mysteries and intricacies of the plot or concepts involved. Its not even artistic, really...Sure it looks great, but there are much better written, directed, and acted movies that artistically portray the perspective that life is hard when you're a kid....as if we don't remember, and they don't know. Even if they "liked" the movie, the unexplained dysfunctional interactions between the characters would be confusing to any child, esp those from dysfunctional homes.... Please, don't waste your money...

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Parent of 12 year old
October 19, 2009
 
Violent and Depressing
I went to the movies with my husband, our son and a friend of his, both kids are 10 years old and were amazed at how much "disguised" violence the movie had. We saw a lot of 2, 3 and 4 year olds and believe me, their parents will have a LOT of explaining to do. After several episodes of pure rage from the main character, there were no apologies or consequences. Bad message. The "wild things" are actually physically violent towards each other, instead of the cute and cuddly giants the preview seems to show. I apologized to the kids for not reviewing it before going to check it out. It was dark and depressive. If your kid doesn't have a violent spirit, you are better off skipping this one.

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Adult
March 9, 2010
 
Dark/violent for kids...disappointing for adults.
My 14 year old enjoyed it but this movie felt like a looooong nap to me sprinkled with bits of inappropriately violent/dark scenes...I was really looking for ward to this one--not great to sit through though.

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Parent of 10 and 13 year old
October 20, 2010
 
Perfect for older kids, but not for tweens
I really disliked this movie. I had a hard time getting past the first two minutes of the movie. First scene of him attacking a dog?? Loved the book though!

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Parent of 7 and 11 year old
November 23, 2009
 
FINALLY, A BOY'S MOVIE WITHOUT SUPERHEROS!!!
Loved, loved, LOVED this movie. My son (just turned 6) and I saw this together; we've been reading the book for the past 3 years. For the most part, it was clear to him why Max and other characters were angry or upset or sad, etc. We talked about it during and after the movie. He also initiated questions when it wasn't clear..."Mama, why is Max destroying his sister's stuff? Why is he mad at her?" The movie let me peek into a "boy's world" (building a fort, dirtball fights) and into the heart of a child dealing with the loss of a parent through divorce. It was refreshing to watch a live-action movie geared towards 7-9 year old boys without the scene-stealing superhero. I believe this was his first live-action movie and he was riveted from start to finish. I highly recommend it for 6+ and discussions about feelings and empathy at their level.

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