Yours, Mine, & Ours

  • Review Date: March 5, 2006
  • PG
  • Genre: Comedy
  • 2005
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Common Sense Media says

Blended family tale remake is mediocre.
greenON: Content is age-appropriate for kids this age.
yellowPAUSE: Know your child; some content
may not be right for some kids.
redOFF: Not age-appropriate for kids this age.
not for kidsNOT FOR KIDS: Not appropriate for kids any age.

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What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this movie includes crude humor, lots of drinking, and some questionable humor around homosexual stereotypes. There's a scene where beer kegs arrive at a teen party, adults drink liquor on dates and the housekeeper pours herself a martini when she's supposed to be babysitting. Kids engineer elaborate situations to break up their parents' marriage, creating domestic chaos (food, paint, toys, furniture, and pets -- here including a pig -- all in an uproar). Parents kiss and embrace; an adolescent girl kisses a boy at school, discovered by her new, and newly jealous, stepsister. One kid vomits while seasick on a boat. Language is mild, but includes homophobic jokes.

  • Noisy efforts by children to break up their newly married parents
  • Antic, comedic violence, as kids, parents, and pets crash, fall, and, on occasion, fight.
  • Romantic/soon married couple kisses, briefly embraces in bed (cut to bed filled with sleeping children).

What's the story?

In YOURS, MINE & OURS, Coast Guard Admiral Frank Beardsley (Dennis Quaid) re-meets his beautiful high school sweetheart, Helen North (Rene Russo). Both have lost their spouses and have large numbers of kids (he has eight, she has ten, six of whom are adopted). They marry without telling their kids of ahead of time. Of course, the kids are unhappy with their abruptly changed living conditions. Helen's children are artistically inclined and free-spirited (the conduct family discussions using a "talking stick"); Frank's are regimented, used to following orders and running a "tight ship." (His kids come with a nanny, played by the wonderful Linda Hunt, here reduced to inglorious reaction shots.) Frictions between the kids first cause arguments (including competition between the two teen girls over a cute boy at school). Eventually, the children decide to break up their parents' marriage. They stage events --including two boys dressing up as girls and a discussion of two girls kissing -- that will cause arguments over parenting choices.


Is it any good?

 

A remake of the 1968 Lucille Ball-Henry Fonda vehicle, Yours, Mine and Ours is less a movie than a series of kids-in-an-uproar scenes. Unfortunately, most of these scenes are neither comic nor clever. The set-up never pays off, as the characters remain one-dimensional and the emotional stakes only vaguely sketched. Given the traumas that lie behind the kids' resistance to change, the film's treatment of their struggles seems careless. Yes, it's a comedy, but it's not very funny.

Frank and Helen succumb to the kids' machinations and are on the verge of splitting and he's offered a promotion by his Commandant (Rip Torn), which means he and his kids can move away to Washington, DC and leave the Norths in Connecticut. At this point the plot falls apart completely, as the kids reverse course and must engineer, at the last minute, their parent's reconciliation. It's predictable but also nonsensical.


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This review was written by Cynthia Fuchs
Adult
April 9, 2008
 
Cheaper by the dozen?

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Teen, 15 years old
April 9, 2008
 
i laghed
it was the most hillarious thing i have ever seen

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April 9, 2008
 
LOVED IT!!!
Yours Mine and Ours is a very good movie. Even thought the kids are trying to break up there parents, they learn that they love each other like family. I recemend this movie to anyone at any age. There is one scene that made me cry but I loved it.

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Kid, 13 years old
April 23, 2010
 

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Kid, 11 years old
January 2, 2009
 
entertaining comedy for kids
yours mine and ours has some mild violence and is fine for kids

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Teen, 18 years old
April 9, 2008
 
4 words Cheaper by the Dozen

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Kid, 12 years old
July 22, 2010
 
Cute, funny, and a good family movie.

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Parent of 12 year old
March 22, 2009
 
Enjoyable and light hearted
Really enjoyed this movie and didn't see major issues with it. As an only child, my daughter appreciated seeing the kids learn to get along with each other and the siblings support each other towards the end. Although there are parts that are questionable, such as an out of control teen party and a drinking nanny, the general message is clear that such behavior is not acceptable.

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Teen, 16 years old
March 6, 2009
 
this is my favorite!!!
i love this movie!!! its funny, entertaining, and very well done. the best part is obviously drake bell. i would recommend this to anyone and everyone.

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Parent
April 9, 2008
 
Much better than Cheaper by the Dozen
I don't think that the Common Sense Review does this movie justice. It may be formulaic, but it's a formula that works. I love this movie and would probably let my kids watch it. The book is fantastic and this remake does a good job of bringing it up to date. It is far better than the similarly themed "Cheaper by the Dozen" and carries real heart along with it's schmaltz. Even when siblings are born to the same family, it's sometimes difficult to get along. The movie shows the best parts of being a family, standing up for one another, and cheering each other on. I don't think it's in the theaters anymore now, but definitely a good rental.

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This review was written by Cynthia Fuchs
Topics:book characters
Studio:Panorama Entertainment
Director:Raja Gosnell
Cast:Dennis Quaid, Rene Russo, Sean Faris
Genre:Comedy
Run time:90 minutes
Theatrical release date:November 23, 2005
DVD release date:February 28, 2006
MPAA rating:PG
MPAA explanation:some mild crude humor

This review was written by Cynthia Fuchs
 

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