Facebook "friends" have access to just about anything posted on their friends' pages -- and your friends see everything you write or post, too (you can set up different levels of sharing in your privacy settings, but many people let their friends see everything). Which begs the question: If you have a Facebook page, should you ask your kids to "friend" you so you can see what they're up to?

Unsurprisingly, experts' answers range from "Absolutely not! It's an invasion of privacy" to "As long as they're in my house and I pay the Internet bills, they're friending me." So, what's a parent to do? Read our tips and tell us whether you and your kids are "friends."