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If your kid has access to tablets, phones, or computers, 

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there's a chance they'll be exposed to pornography.

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For many parents and caregivers, this is a big concern.

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Here are six things you can do if you're worried
your young child has seen pornography.

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First, Stay calm and positive.

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Remember that it's normal for kids to
be curious about sex and their bodies.

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If it turns out your child looked
for pornography on purpose, 

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take this opportunity to steer them
toward more appropriate resources.

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Next, Ask some questions.

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This begins with reassuring your
kids that they're in a safe space.

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Then, slowly and without judgment, try to get
some more information about what they saw.

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Third, Be ready to listen.

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Once you know how your child saw the 
image or video and what exactly they saw,

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it's important to check on how they're feeling
and give them a chance to ask questions too.

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Next, Take action, if necessary.

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Based on your conversation, you'll have a better idea
of how seeing the pornography affected your child.

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If you're concerned they may be experiencing
trauma because of something they saw,

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a professional counselor may be able to help.

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Fifth, Model and encourage critical thinking.

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Remind children that they shouldn't
believe everything they see.

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It's important that kids know they can question
and reject the messages they receive from

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ads, TV, movies, and other media.

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And finally, Improve online safety.

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Parental controls and internet filters can help you limit
access to adult content on devices at home.

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That said, filters shouldn't take the place
of age-appropriate conversations 

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and clear rules about pornography.

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For more helpful tips and advice, visit us
at commonsense.org/families.