10 Things I Hate About You (ABC Family)

common sense media says

High school-set comedy raises important issues for teens.


parents & educators say
  • 67% say sexual content is an issue
  • 33% say there are positive messages

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this teen-targeted series based on the same-named 1999 film includes frequent references to sex -- including comments about girls’ bodies, use of terms like “get laid,” passionate kissing, and mention of teens’ sexual experience. Popularity is a key concern, and one central character uses her social status to terrorize all but her closest friends, and her behavior goes unchecked by her peers and adults. Expect some intermittent strong language (“bitch,” “ass,” and the like) and references to teen drinking (though nothing is shown). Kat and Bianca’s father -- who never wavers in his protection of them,  even when they defy him -- is the show's strongest positive role model.

Positive messages: The series has a strong focus on high school social structure, and many characters are preoccupied with popularity and how to achieve it (though others apparently couldn't care less). Still, although characters like "mean girl" Chastity use popularity as an excuse to be cruel, others stand up for themselves, and there's a strong father-daughter relationship at the heart of the series.
Positive role models: While Bianca admits it’s worth
giving up her dignity for social acceptance, Kat sticks to her personal code and
has unwavering self-esteem (even though her strong will makes her stand-offish). The girls’ over-protective father is a sympathetic character whose concern for his daughters is understandable in light of his affection for them. But teachers are cast as weak and, in at least one case, willing to give in to Chastity’s demands because of her father’s standing on the school board.
Violence: Not applicable.
Sex: Many references to sex. Teens have romantic relationships, and there's a good bit of passionate kissing and even some mild groping. Kat and Bianca’s dad often warns them of boys’ not-so-innocent intentions with warnings like “boys want to put a baby in you.” Teens toss around terms like “getting laid” and discuss girls’ appearances and cup sizes. Bianca alludes to Kat’s previous sexual experience. 
Language: Occasional use of words like “ass” and “bitch." 
Consumerism: Not applicable.
Drinking, drugs, & smoking: Teen drinking is implied at parties, but nothing is shown, and the drink is said to be non-alcoholic beer. 

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What to talk about

Talk to your kids
  • Families can talk about social pressure. Teens: How have your experiences compared to those of the show's characters? What pressures have you faced? How did you respond to them?
  • You can also discuss how the show portrays teen sexuality. How does seeing and hearing about sex on TV impact real teens' behavior?
  • How does the series compare to the movie? How have the issues that teens face changed since it came out? Do you think this series offers an accurate, realistic view of current teen life?

What's the story?

What's the story?
Inspired by the 1999 film of the same name, 10 THINGS I HATE ABOUT YOU chronicles the struggles of the Stratford sisters, Bianca (Meaghan Jette Martin) and Kat (Lindsey Shaw), as they adapt to a new school. Socialite Bianca longs only for acceptance into Padua High’s popularity nucleus, but when her sharp-tongued, feminist sister butts heads with the school’s self-appointed diva, Chastity (Dana Davis), Bianca knows she has an uphill battle ahead. On the romantic front, Kat’s unruliness turns the head of mysterious Patrick (Ethan Peck), and Bianca is being heavily pursued by resident nice guy Cameron (Nicholas Braun). The only thing the sisters can count on is the persistence of their protective father, Walter (Larry Miller), who will do anything to ensure that they stay safe -- and untouched by the opposite sex.

Is it any good?

Is it any good?
 

This series probably isn’t what Shakespeare had in mind when he wrote The Taming of the Shrew. It’s peppered with bold sexual references and innuendo, many of which come from the teens’ father (though he's otherwise an admirable role model). What’s more, Chastity’s nasty behavior toward her social inferiors raises issues related to tolerance and fairness, and Bianca’s willingness to forego her dignity for social standing sends some iffy messages to tween and teen girls. Add to that the occasional strong language and casual references to teen drinking, and it’s clear that this show (like the movie before it) isn't meant for tweens.

On a positive note, while Kat takes defiance to a new level and is frequently (and unabashedly) rude, her self-assuredness and strength in the face of social pressure are good examples for teens. Cameron, too, displays positive qualities like sincerity and integrity, and his attraction to Bianca is more than just physical. Bottom line? The content is too mature for tweens, but teens are likely to enjoy it -- just be sure to follow up with a discussion about the issues that arise if yours do tune in.

TV themes & details

TV Details
TV Rating: TV-14
Network: ABC Family
Cast: Larry Miller, Lindsey Shaw, Meaghan Jette Martin
Genre: Comedy
Where to watch: ABC Family

This review was written by Emily Ashby
 
 

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What parents & educators say

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Based on 3 parent & educator reviews:
  • 67% say sexual content is an issue
  • 33% say there are positive messages
  • 33% say language is an issue

Most useful reviews by all members

Jbobsession11
teen, 13 years old
 
Tween show
I do agree with some people that somethings they say are a little bad but a child about 9 has probably heard things in school already so it's not a big deal if they were to watch the show cuz their not making a big deal about it in the show.It's high school stuff.And when children get older they will hear this kind of stuff.

hannahns94
teen, 17 years old
 
Great Teen Show
Kat isn't afraid to be herself, no matter what others say.

Aliie.marie_96
teen, 15 years old
 
amazing showw, teaches teens what they need to know.
by 13 which i am your child most likely knows what everything is . and you cant blame tv. their friends are some what the blame. in my opinion this show just teaches you how to deal with it. im 13 a teen i need to know what to do when im not ready for a relationship and what to tell a guy when im not trying to hurt him. or how to talk to my parents about things. by the way ever heard of pg13 . yes well this hsow is basically pg13 and i think teens starting at 13 should be allowed to whatch it . by the way my mother whatches it with me . every new episodee . she loves it!!

justLoviNickJonas
teen, 16 years old
 
A funny teen show!
This is a fun show for teens 13 and up. Bianca is a social butterfly and will do anything to be popular. Kat, her older and strongminded older sister is very different. She has very strong opinions, and is strong minded. The show features some swears, b----,a--,crap,sucks but the language is better in the show than the movie. Also, some kissing, but most of the content is high school humor and sexually. They also talk about sex. The girls father is very overprotective which can be good or bad. Overall, 10 things I hate about you is a funny show for teens 13-14 and up.

nadiasexiibaby123
teen, 16 years old
 
I love it!!!!

manooo_manooo
teen, 14 years old
 
great Show!
i love this show! But their are some bad stuff sexual reference etc. But it still rocks!

manda17
teen, 18 years old
 
Maybe not for your child
There are some things that may be inappropriate, but of course, your kids probably have heard everything used before if they're 12. It's much more appropriate than the movie, but has crude humor.

BluePanda
teen, 14 years old
 
Good for tweens and up, not for younger childeren
I think I've seen a clip of it where Kat was drunk, I don't think that's very good, the sexual stuff seems ok, girls get pregnant, (it was their choice to do that), and people kiss all the time.

beccster49
kid, 13 years old
 
love the show!

heymondayfan
teen, 16 years old
 
love the movie, love the show!
this show is hilarious! i love that they used people who can actually ACT for once. im going to high school soon and i think it shows the social structure, but the cheesy thing is how the head cheerleader is the most popular girl in school which isn't always the case. its a classic stereotype. i like how bianca shows her insecurities, a problem for incoming freshmen, and how kat stands her ground. the only problems anyone would have is cussing which isnt that bad. and the part where the teacher gives in to chastity's bickering is pathetic too. but other than that it is a fantastic show!

greenactress
teen, 15 years old
 
Anyone could see this!
If this was a movie it would be PG-13, which pretty much every 10 year old would still go see, and sense it's on T.V. they will. And no one will stop them most likely, but luckily this show is fine and you are in no danger with your kids. It has some inappropriate content here and there but it's subtle and not a big deal at all. It's mostly comedy and for some stupid laughs, i like it, it's not amazing but it's not bad in anyway or form, i've also seen the movie, and the movie is way worse than this show, this might actually be PG if it was a movie, so calm down, let your kids watch it,there is nothing on this show that they wouldn't see or hear anywhere else in their daily lifes.

dadoftwo
parent of 15 and 17 year old
 
Used to watch it, but just gave it up May 2010
My family with a 16 year old boy and 14 year old girl watched this show regularly. It was a little edgy sometimes, but we decided that it would provide a positive opportunity to discuss the bad choices that some characters were making. But the episode we just watched actually had one of the main characters going to a clinic with her soon to be partner to test for STDs before they had sex. They discussed the number of partners they had already had, and made it seem like the more the better. While they end up arguing just before consummating the relationship, it was still shocking to see them planning this up to the point of laying in the back of a van half dressed. In the same episode, they have a boy announce that he is gay.

taymomsenfan
teen, 17 years old
 

Yus The Bus
parent of 12 year old
 

BarbiPiXi
kid, 13 years old
 
For mature tweens and teens
I am 10 years old and I love this show! Yes, there are some sexual references and drinking but that's what kids that age do! And for once it's real, unlike High School Musical which is so cheesy and stupid!

ravereviews
parent of 12 year old
 
good for teens, not for kids!
Not a bad show, but it is definitely not for young kids! Only kids over the age of 14 should be allowed to watch for sexual references and other thematic elements. It is based off the Heath Ledger movie with the same name, which is an adaptation of shakespeare's Taming of the Shrew. It is humorous, and can be used to teach teens about how to make good/bad decisions about dating/parties/drinking, etc.

iluvmyipod
teen, 17 years old
 
Great show
I love this show. Kat is a great role model who shows that you don't have to be popular in high school to be happy. When you watch this show it just makes you smile no matter what. I totally admire it

dasiygirl18
teen, 15 years old
 
Depends.
I like the show. They do have somethings that aren't okay for younger kids to hear but that depeneds on the kids watching the show and how they can handle it. They do show how to handle some problems well and how growing up really is now a days.

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