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The Bachelor

(Rated TV-PG, Reality TV, Starring Chris Harrison, Where to watch: ABC, VH1, DVD)
  • Is it age appropriate?

    About our ratings

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    Not age appropriate for kids under 14, age appropriate for kids over 99; suggested age 14.
  • Is it any good?

    2.0
  • Common Sense says

    Reality "fairy tale" with questionable values.

Why We Rated This iffy for Ages 14–18

What to watch out for

  • Messages:

    Many of the young women are portrayed as catty, desperate, and insecure; most seem to have no goals other than to snag a husband. Few contestants of color, and all are very slim and attractive.
  • Violence:

    Not an issue.
  • Sex:

    Lots of skimpy outfits and bathing suits; many close-up shots of passionate kissing. In some episodes, the bachelor goes on overnight dates with individual women. Frank sex talk.
  • Language:

    Some bleeped words, name calling. Words like "bitch" and "sucks" are common.
  • Consumerism:

    Lots (typical for reality TV competitions) -- the camera zooms in on sponsors' products frequently, and there are always mentions of specific hotel chains, such as the W.
  • Drinking, drugs, & smoking:

    Drinks on dates; the women drink at the house.
 

What Parents Need to Know

About The Bachelor

Parents need to know that although this is a "reality show," it's clearly not reality. Plus, the contestants make catty comments and backstab each other, wear revealing clothing and bathing suits, and sometimes drink too much. The Bachelor kisses several of them, and a few go on overnight "fantasy" dates with him. There is some frank sex talk and occasional profanity ("bitch").

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Families Can Talk About

  • Families can talk about the show's unrealistic premise. Teens will understand that this isn't how the dating world really works (most people don't go on dates with five other competitors; spend long periods of time in hot tubs, fancy hotels, and limos; or get rejected in front of millions), but they may have questions about some of the show's messages, including the idea that a young woman is a failure if she's single and that marriage is the ultimate goal for a woman. Ask your kids about the show's artificial setting and how it affects the dating process. Can you really find true love in six weeks? What do kids think about marriage? Do they think the show accurately represents how young people feel about getting married and finding a partner? Would they ever consider competing in a show like this? Why or why not?

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Most Recent Reviews

  1. Kid Reviewer Age 10
    Lives in Illinois
    I rate this title iffy for age 10 and give it 4.0
    My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content
    • Inappropriate language
    • Excessive consumerism
    • Negative message
    • Negative role models

    Racy, but it just depends.

    I watch this show with my friends, but it can be a bit racy and can have bad language. After all, the show is about finding love.

  2. Adult Reviewer
    I rate this title on for age 17 and give it 4.0

    Easy to get hooked

    Can't wait for the next season

  3. Teen Reviewer Age 17
    Lives in Ohio
    I rate this title on for age 2 and give it 5.0

    it was great

    the last espiode was very instering because i liked the way that travis played with monas' mind a bit at the last cermoney, and also the way that he kept sara guessing if she was the one for him or not. so yes i hope that there is another season of the batchelor.

  4. Adult Reviewer
    Lives in California
    I rate this title off for age 17 and give it 1.0

    Not really a good show for anyone.

    This show is just plain awful, for kids and for adults. It is called reality tv, but there is no reality involved. Only supermodel types are chosen and the bachelor has a scant few weeks of interaction to decide who to be with, so his decision is based basically on who is the most beautiful and who annoys him the least. The social message from this show is ridiculous. Waste of time.

  5. Adult Reviewer
    Lives in Indiana
    I rate this title off for age 17 and give it 0.0

    Definitely not for kids

    Why would anyone let a child watch this? It's awful.

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