Melissa & Joey (ABC Family)

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Former child stars' sitcom has grown-up edge.


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What parents need to know

Parents need to know that even though it stars former child actors Melissa Joan Hart and Joey Lawrence, this sitcom isn’t meant for tweens. The characters’ dialogue often refers to issues like underage drinking, sex, and marital unrest. Language -- including multiple variations of “hell” and “ass,” as well as frequent use of words like "suck" and "screw" -- is also on the strong side. That said, the show does center on a strong female character who’s dedicated to balancing her work and personal lives and ensuring the well-being of her niece and nephew, and it aims to convey messages related to responsibility, appreciating others, and the importance of family ties.

Positive messages: The show celebrates the bonds that exist among family members of all types. Traditional gender roles are reversed, with a woman as the primary breadwinner and a man overseeing the kids’ needs and caring for the home.
Positive role models: Mel takes her responsibilities to her niece and nephew seriously and strives for a healthy relationship with them. Joe’s methods are unorthodox, but he always manages to drive home important lessons about being responsible, appreciating others, and valuing education. 
Violence: Not applicable.
Sex: Adults discuss details of their relationships, sometimes alluding to sex. Some passionate kisses. Mention of strippers and a woman looking like a “hottie.”
Language: Multiple uses of “ass” and “hell,” as well as words like “suck,” “screw it,” and “pissed.” Also some references to body parts (“vagina”) and name-calling, like “buttface.”
Consumerism: Not applicable.
Drinking, drugs, & smoking: Mel frequently makes references to her wild teen years, which included plenty of underage drinking. 

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What to talk about

Talk to your kids
  • Families can talk about family members’ roles within the household. How are responsibilities assigned in your home? What are your chores? Does gender play a role in who does what? Why or why not?

  • What defines a family? How has that definition changed over the years? How does the media reflect that change?

  • Teens: How do you deal with adversity? What resources do you have to cope with the difficulties in your life? What are some of the challenges you’ve overcome? Was the experience rewarding?

What's the story?

What's the story?

MELISSA & JOEY centers on rising political star Mel (Melissa Joan Hart), whose fast-paced lifestyle gets a little more hectic with the arrival of her niece, Lennox (Taylor Spreitler), and nephew, Ryder (Nick Robinson), who end up in her care after their mom gets sent to jail and their dad skips town. In over her head, Mel decides to hire a nanny -- but fate sends her an unlikely rescuer in the form of Joe (Joey Lawrence), an unemployed finance guru who becomes the family’s surprisingly capable “manny.”

Is it any good?

Is it any good?
 

First the good news: Hart and Lawrence could easily build careers playing opposite each other, with the chemistry they established in the TV movie My Fake Fiance carrying over to this new endeavor. Even in Mel and Joe's dislike of each other onscreen, it’s easy to like the combination they create, and the show benefits from their presence. Unfortunately, the show as a whole doesn’t quite measure up to the standards of its stars. Like the frazzled Mel, viewers are always one step behind the action, trying unsuccessfully to keep up with the show’s frantic pace.

Still, there are some sweet moments as the show's unlikely family makes small progress in bonding, and the gender-role shake-up -- with Mel furthering her career and Joe holding down the fort at home -- livens things up. But overall, the show doesn't live up to its stars, and the use of strong language (mostly “ass” and “hell," but there’s a surprising amount of it) and references to underage drinking and sex ensure that it’s not for tweens.

TV themes & details

TV Details
TV Rating: TV-14
Network: ABC Family
Cast: Joey Lawrence, Melissa Joan Hart
Genre: Comedy
Where to watch: ABC Family

This review was written by Emily Ashby
 
 

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carleyandrews
teen, 14 years old
 
it is so so but i would watch it!!!!

jameymff
kid, 13 years old
 
Very cute show! Love it!
Melissa and Joey is a nice show if your in the mood to chuckle. It has a positive energy and is a feel-good comedy! Love it!

cheerbee113
kid, 12 years old
 
Awesome Show!!!
My mom and I love this show we watch it together all the time!! Its one of my fave shows!!!

Megan Drago
teen, 14 years old
 
i love this show

irishabby
teen, 14 years old
 
ok
its good.

movie dude
kid, 12 years old
 
lol
LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! melissa makes rude comments 2 joey like, hes bald! buttface! screw u! stuff like that. overall a really funny good time!!!!!

kpnna
kid, 12 years old
 
Great and funny show!
[QUOTE=jameymff]Melissa and Joey is a nice show if your in the mood to chuckle. It has a positive energy and is a feel-good comedy! Love it![/QUOTE] He read my mind. Also, parents, make sure you watch the show before your kids do.

kittygyrl726
kid, 11 years old
 
Tweenage sh0w
This show is soo funny. Mellissa and Joey are a perfect match!

kkmovie
adult
 
Older kids and Adults will enjoy. Kids not so much...?
I loved the show. I saw the movie they were in and it was great. This show was awesome too. It's more of a teen+ show. I personally don't think it's a kid show at all. Plus, it's a show similar to "Who's the Boss". Overall it's a really good. It's about a family dealing with typical issues. Kids might be disinterested???

DaddyFlip
parent of 15 year old
 
Great sitcom- my family's favorite show
My daughter and I can't get enough of this series. I have it on DVR and have seen the first nine episodes twice- they can't make them fast enough for us. While I wish they would tone down the language- it's just not necessary to make these scripts shine- it's not a deal breaker (we do not use any "language" in my home, so even the light stuff stands out). The other thing I hope to see go soon is Mel's references to her sordid past. While it is true that people can change for the better, and this is a good message, Mel isn't all THAT better yet. At some point, she needs to move on and quit bringing up how bad she was and concentrate on how she should be- so she can set the right standard for her niece and nephew. It seems her style of guardianship is "at least you didn't do this", which is a parental cop-out. Joe does a better job of directing the family, but he's not perfect either. Despite its shortcomings in some areas, this is a spectacular sitcom that I hope will run for awhile. This is the only ABC Family show I allow in my house- the rest is trash that is not age or family appropriate at all. This one is a gem that I highly recommend for high schoolers.

47rachez
teen, 15 years old
 
it's a bit innapropriate
the show is really good, but it is a little innapropriate

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