Modern Family (ABC)

common sense media says

Fresh take on sitcom families includes some iffy content.


parents & educators say
  • 63% say there are positive messages
  • 60% say sexual content is an issue

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this sitcom revolves around three different families -- including a homosexual couple and their adopted daughter and a post-mid-lifer and his much younger second wife and stepson. Expect some suggestive jokes, particularly in relation to/at the expense of the homosexual characters, and additional sexual innuendo. Although the characters generally seem to mean well when you get down to it, there's some stereotyping and plenty of dysfunction. Patriarch Jay wrestles with his son Mitchell's sexuality and often jokes about Mitchell's partner and their lifestyle. Language includes words like "damn" and "bitch," adult characters drink socially, and there's frank discussion of topics like teen pregnancy. The show's main goal is to elicit laughs, but there are some touching moments that celebrate family ties, too.

Positive messages: The series presents three different types of families; it makes light of their squabbles and differences of opinion, but it also promotes an underlying message that the ties that bind can outlast the inevitable bumps in the road.
Positive role models: Though often portrayed as dysfunctional, all of the show's adult characters strive to do their best in their relationships with their partners and kids. Some characters are portrayed stereotypically.
Violence: Instances of violence are rare and are always intended for laughs, but their messages are sometimes questionable. In one scene, for example, a boy shoots his sister with a toy gun -- so his dad shoots him (and inadvertently hits a bystander as well) to show him how much it hurts.
Sex: Some sexual situations/innuendoes between married couples, as when a woman reminds her husband that she keeps the baby oil in her bedside table (wink, wink). Frank discussion about teenage pregnancy (teens list classmates they know who have had babies or are expecting) between kids and parents. Both heterosexual and homosexual couples show affection (hugs, carresses, etc.) toward each other.
Language: Intermittent use of words like "damn," "bitch," and "hell." Occasional use of derogatory words used to describe gay characters ("creampuff," for example).
Consumerism: Not applicable.
Drinking, drugs, & smoking: Adults drink wine and/or mixed drinks socially and at meals.

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What to talk about

Talk to your kids
  • Families can talk about how this series compares to other family-centered shows. Does the content seem more or less realistic than others? Do the central relationships seem non-traditional to you? How are they different from other sitcom families?

  • How does your family compare to the characters in this show? What aspects of your family might be considered non-traditional?

  • How does the media portray relationships in general? Why do you think topics like unplanned pregnancy, divorce, sex, and and sexual identity are dealt with so frequently in TV shows and movies?

What's the story?

What's the story?

MODERN FAMILY traces three very different branches of the same family tree. Patriarch Jay (Ed O’Neill) is recently married to the beautiful Gloria (Sofia Vergara) -- whom people often mistake for his daughter -- and new stepdad to her son, Manny (Rico Rodriguez). Jay’s grown son, Mitchell (Jesse Tyler Ferguson), tries to be patient with his dad’s discomfort over his same-sex lifestyle, but he’s happy with who he is -- and with his long-time partner, Cameron (Eric Stonestreet), and their adoptive daughter, Lily. And Mitchell’s sister, Claire (Julie Bowen), rounds out the picture with her own three kids, her husband, Phil (Ty Burrell), and their struggles with common parenting woes like overscheduled calendars and negotiating teen dating.

Is it any good?

Is it any good?
 

Modern Family accomplishes just what it sets out to do: It updates the classic family sitcom to reflect the ever-changing canvas of American family life. Though its primary intent is to entertain -- and it offers plenty of laughs -- the interplay between the characters is often heartwarming, reminding us that family relationships are rarely perfect but always play important roles in shaping who we are.

Because the show's content touches on mature topics like sexuality and divorce and includes some salty language ("hell," "damn," "bitch," etc.) and sexual innuendo, this really isn’t a show for tweens. Much of the humor revolves around Mitchell and Cameron's lifestyle or Jay's unconventional marriage to his much younger bride. But for teens and adults who can put the chuckles into context, Modern Family is a sharp comedy with characters that reflect society's modern definition of "family" -- and might make viewers a little more forgiving of the idiosyncrasies within their own clans.

TV themes & details

TV Details
TV Rating: TV-PG
Network: ABC
Cast: Ed O'Neill, Jesse Tyler Ferguson, Julie Bowen
Genre: Comedy
Where to watch: ABC

This review was written by Emily Ashby
 
 

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What parents & educators say

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Based on 30 parent & educator reviews:
  • 63% say there are positive messages
  • 60% say sexual content is an issue
  • 50% say there are positive role models
  • 47% say language is an issue

Most useful reviews by all members

patton1942
teen, 14 years old
 
Keeps me in Stitches
A very funny show that keeps me in stitches every time. Altough some episodes have a little sex taking the charecters are very funny.

danalew67
parent of 7 and 9 year old
 
Good, fun, show for the 13+ crowd!
This is one of the most realistic shows for our time. It captures how families have evolved and still connects how important families are, however they are formed. Families are dysfunctional, there is no perfect family. This is a great show of how people work through their issues, insecurities, fears and continue to progress and grow as individuals and families. And sometimes it is laugh out loud hysterical!

kristine568
kid, 12 years old
 
LUV IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i LUV this show i have never missed an episode plus what is so bad about a gay couple kissing its not like you child doesnt know what gay means or anything

JesusLuvsYew
teen, 18 years old
 
So weird! But in a good way:)
This show is super funny! Homosexuality isn't for children though. Unless they already know about it, and are mature about it.

cocosimon
teen, 18 years old
 
LOL I love this show so so so so so so so so much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

csparenteducator
educator and parent
 
May be ok for young adults and older but not for children.
Our family will not watch it. Yes, it may be what the world of today calls a "modern" family but we believe in the "traditional" family. So, where is your "Common Sense" in promoting non-traditional families?!?

me4ever55
kid, 12 years old
 
Awesome show
This show is way 2 funny i can't stop laughing after i watch an episode. me and my family watch it every wendesday a good show for people 13 and up.

Wyrmhole99
teen, 14 years old
 
I love this sitcom. It is about a modern family, including a "normal" family, a gay couple, and a couple where one is middle-aged and one is young. It is very funny, but has some suggestive dialogue. There is some language, but nothing a preteen can't handle. There is a bit of sexual content, in some episodes more than others, but for the most part, this show is not all that bad.

izzy358
teen, 14 years old
 
AWESOME SHOW
I really love this series. It is very funny and it is incredibly true. The issues the family struggles with are very relevant, and I think the show is just plain awesome.

agentcheesecake
teen, 16 years old
 
Perfect Show For Everyone!
I think Modern Family is a great show for 10 and up. You get a funny, extremely realistic inside view on different "modern families" in America. It is also a great way to bond with your family, because it is a show everyone can enjoy. There is some sexual content, but barely any. The kids walk in on the parents having sex, but that is actually the most inappropriate thing I have seen on that show, and you couldn't see anything anyway. Besides, in this case, it was a true act of love between two people, not a low hookup like on Jersey Shore. This show is one of the best that has come along in years. If I was a parent, i wouldn't be concerned.

AwesomeNoora
teen, 18 years old
 
Great show!!!
Awesome show!!! It does use a bit language, but is great in all!!! It has some sexual content. 3 kids walk in on thjeir parents having sex. Only glimpses are shown of skin, though man is grasping womans buttocks, pushing her into him. A 13 year old girl is told to get a bra for her 'boobies', and there is a gay coupleAlso, a 17 year old gives his girl friend a picture of them having sex that lights up...

Madbax21
teen, 14 years old
 
Undescribable
Absolutely hilariously amazingly gorgeously fantastically brlliant series.

mambobird
teen, 15 years old
 

coolbrees09
teen, 14 years old
 
great show, watch it every week

0hMyGlee
teen, 14 years old
 
I LOVE THiS SHOW
This show is so freaking funny! My family and I will sit an watch an episode every night. It's like bonding time over Modern Family.

Spongebob Fan
kid, 13 years old
 
Funny Show for Mature Tweens & Up
I think that it's hillarious with funny jokes and episode plots. I love it how they three completely different families in one family together. This is a seriously hillarious show that I am extremely happy I didn't miss out on! The sexual content is just a few innuedos between characters occasionally, and a talk about teen pregnancy and breast feeding in the first episode, which was awkward for me and my mother to watch, but it only happened once. The language is simple words that are easily overlooked "hell", "d**n", "b**ch","gay",and things that gays are called in offense to them. The drinking is just wine every once in a while, which, you know, is expected. Also, some violence also not too noticeable, like a man shooting his son with a toy gun (as punishment) then accidentally shooting his daughter's boyfriend. The positive messages are although this family seems dysfunctional, it has love and caring and getting along, which I personally adore. Also, good role models like Manny's mother who wants her "two favorite boys" to get along. This show will go over MANY children's heads and some young, immature, tweens possibly, so mature tweens & up should be the only ones able to watch "Modern Family."

 
Truly a great show!!!
I LOVE this show. its funny beyond belief and fairly clean. there are some iffy spots so I reccomend this show for age 12 and up. a great watch!

moonnila
kid, 13 years old
 
<3
It's awesome and it potrays each family really well! Though it can get gross sometimes...

happyfrogssing
kid, 13 years old
 
my favorite!
i love this show! its my favorite (other then victorious)! some parts can be a bit inappropriate for under 12-13 year olds, but it always has a good message by the end of each episode, and it very funny and entertaining.

kgari
parent of 12 year old
 

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