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Modern Family

(Rated TV-PG, Comedy, Starring Ed O'Neill, Julie Bowen, Jesse Tyler Ferguson, Where to watch: ABC, Online)
  • Is it age appropriate?

    About our ratings

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    Not age appropriate for kids under 12, age appropriate for kids over 16; suggested age 13.
  • Is it any good?

    3.0
  • Common Sense says

    New take on sitcom families includes some iffy content.

Themes in this show include:   family relationships

Why We Rated This iffy for Ages 13–16

The good stuff

  • Messages:

    The series presents three different types of families; it makes light of their squabbles and differences of opinion, but it also promotes an underlying message that the ties that bind can outlast the inevitable bumps in the road.

  • Role models:

    Though often portrayed as dysfunctional, all of the show's adult characters strive to do their best in their relationships with their partners and kids. Some characters are portrayed stereotypically.

 

What to watch out for

  • Violence:

    Instances of violence are rare and are always intended for laughs, but their messages are sometimes questionable. In one scene, for example, a boy shoots his sister with a toy gun -- so his dad shoots him (and inadvertently hits a bystander as well) to show him how much it hurts.

  • Sex:

    Some sexual situations/innuendoes between married couples, as when a woman reminds her husband that she keeps the baby oil in her bedside table (wink, wink). Frank discussion about teenage pregnancy (teens list classmates they know who have had babies or are expecting) between kids and parents. Both heterosexual and homosexual couples show affection (hugs, carresses, etc.) toward each other.

  • Language:

    Intermittent use of words like "damn," "bitch," and "hell." Occasional use of derogatory words used to describe gay characters ("creampuff," for example).

  • Consumerism:

    Not an issue.
  • Drinking, drugs, & smoking:

    Adults drink wine and/or mixed drinks socially and at meals.

 

What Parents Need to Know

About Modern Family

Parents need to know that this sitcom revolves around three different families -- including a homosexual couple and their adopted daughter and a post-mid-lifer and his much younger second wife and stepson. Expect some suggestive jokes, particularly in relation to/at the expense of the homosexual characters, and additional sexual innuendo. Although the characters generally seem to mean well when you get down to it, there's some stereotyping and plenty of dysfunction. Patriarch Jay wrestles with his son Mitchell's sexuality and often jokes about Mitchell's partner and their lifestyle. Language includes words like "damn" and "bitch," adult characters drink socially, and there's frank discussion of topics like teen pregnancy. The show's main goal is to elicit laughs, but there are some touching moments that celebrate family ties, too.

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Families Can Talk About

  • Families can talk about how this series compares to other family-centered shows. Does the content seem more or less realistic than others? Do the central relationships seem non-traditional to you? How are they different from other sitcom families?

  • How does your family compare to the characters in this show? What aspects of your family might be considered non-traditional?

  • How does the media portray relationships in general? Why do you think topics like unplanned pregnancy, divorce, sex, and and sexual identity are dealt with so frequently in TV shows and movies?

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  1. Parent Reviewer
    I rate this title on for age 13 and give it 5.0
    My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate language

    • My highlights are:
    • Positive messages
    • Good role models

    Good, fun, show for the 13+ crowd!

    This is one of the most realistic shows for our time. It captures how families have evolved and still connects how important families are, however they are formed. Families are dysfunctional, there is no perfect family. This is a great show of how people work through their issues, insecurities, fears and continue to progress and grow as individuals and families. And sometimes it is laugh out loud hysterical!

  2. Teen Reviewer Age 13
    I rate this title on for age 9 and give it 5.0

    LOVE IT!!!!!

    Soooooo funny! The jokes will "fly over" little kids heads. they won't get it.

  3. Teen Reviewer Age 16
    I rate this title on for age 13 and give it 4.0
    My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content

    • My highlights are:
    • Positive messages
    • Good role models

    Good teen-ish show

    I like this show because it places homosexuality as a "modern" and "normal" thing, which it is. I really don't think a gay that looks like he's 60 could make it with a woman who could be my older sister, though.

  4. Adult Reviewer
    Lives in Georgia
    I rate this title on for age 11 and give it 1.0
    My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content

    Better for teens, but l am letting my middle schooler watch

    Enjoyable and mostly ok sitcom the whole fam can watch together

  5. Adult Reviewer
    I rate this title on for age 12 and give it 3.0
    • My highlights are:
    • Positive messages

    Needs the benefit of "2 ½ men” writing/directing

    Love it, but refer to the review title before the show meets the network "axe". From a P/T writer who laughs to coking from "2 1/2 men" that is also "Big Bang Theory" comedy caliber, timing and humor crucial to this continued broadcast.

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