Modern Family

 Review

Common Sense Media says

Fresh take on sitcom families includes some iffy content.
greenON: Content is age-appropriate for kids this age.
yellowPAUSE: Know your child; some content
may not be right for some kids.
redOFF: Not age-appropriate for kids this age.
not for kidsNOT FOR KIDS: Not appropriate for kids any age.

Find out more

Quality
 
Sometimes media can be age appropriate but a real waste of time. Our star rating assesses the media's overall quality.

Find out more

Parents say

Kids say

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this sitcom revolves around three different families -- including a homosexual couple and their adopted daughter and a post-mid-lifer and his much younger second wife and stepson. Expect some suggestive jokes, particularly in relation to/at the expense of the homosexual characters, and additional sexual innuendo. Although the characters generally seem to mean well when you get down to it, there's some stereotyping and plenty of dysfunction. Patriarch Jay wrestles with his son Mitchell's sexuality and often jokes about Mitchell's partner and their lifestyle. Language includes words like "damn" and "bitch," adult characters drink socially, and there's frank discussion of topics like teen pregnancy. The show's main goal is to elicit laughs, but there are some touching moments that celebrate family ties, too.

  • The series presents three different types of families; it makes light of their squabbles and differences of opinion, but it also promotes an underlying message that the ties that bind can outlast the inevitable bumps in the road.
  • Though often portrayed as dysfunctional, all of the show's adult characters strive to do their best in their relationships with their partners and kids. Some characters are portrayed stereotypically.
  • Instances of violence are rare and are always intended for laughs, but their messages are sometimes questionable. In one scene, for example, a boy shoots his sister with a toy gun -- so his dad shoots him (and inadvertently hits a bystander as well) to show him how much it hurts.
  • Some sexual situations/innuendoes between married couples, as when a woman reminds her husband that she keeps the baby oil in her bedside table (wink, wink). Frank discussion about teenage pregnancy (teens list classmates they know who have had babies or are expecting) between kids and parents. Both heterosexual and homosexual couples show affection (hugs, carresses, etc.) toward each other.
  • Intermittent use of words like "damn," "bitch," and "hell." Occasional use of derogatory words used to describe gay characters ("creampuff," for example).
  • Not applicable.
  • Adults drink wine and/or mixed drinks socially and at meals.

What's the story?

MODERN FAMILY traces three very different branches of the same family tree. Patriarch Jay (Ed O’Neill) is recently married to the beautiful Gloria (Sofia Vergara) -- whom people often mistake for his daughter -- and new stepdad to her son, Manny (Rico Rodriguez). Jay’s grown son, Mitchell (Jesse Tyler Ferguson), tries to be patient with his dad’s discomfort over his same-sex lifestyle, but he’s happy with who he is -- and with his long-time partner, Cameron (Eric Stonestreet), and their adoptive daughter, Lily. And Mitchell’s sister, Claire (Julie Bowen), rounds out the picture with her own three kids, her husband, Phil (Ty Burrell), and their struggles with common parenting woes like overscheduled calendars and negotiating teen dating.


Is it any good?

 

Modern Family accomplishes just what it sets out to do: It updates the classic family sitcom to reflect the ever-changing canvas of American family life. Though its primary intent is to entertain -- and it offers plenty of laughs -- the interplay between the characters is often heartwarming, reminding us that family relationships are rarely perfect but always play important roles in shaping who we are.

Because the show's content touches on mature topics like sexuality and divorce and includes some salty language ("hell," "damn," "bitch," etc.) and sexual innuendo, this really isn’t a show for tweens. Much of the humor revolves around Mitchell and Cameron's lifestyle or Jay's unconventional marriage to his much younger bride. But for teens and adults who can put the chuckles into context, Modern Family is a sharp comedy with characters that reflect society's modern definition of "family" -- and might make viewers a little more forgiving of the idiosyncrasies within their own clans.


Sign Up Message
Sign up for our weekly newsletter
Each week we send a customized newsletter to our parent and teen subscribers. Parents can customize their settings to receive recommendations and parent tips based on their kids’ ages. Teens receive a version just for them with the latest reviews and top picks for movies, video games, apps, music, books, and more.
Please enter an email address.
Please check your email address for possible typos.
Sorry, you must be 13 or older to subscribe to our weekly newsletter.
Sign me up!

What families can talk about

  • Families can talk about how this series compares to other family-centered shows. Does the content seem more or less realistic than others? Do the central relationships seem non-traditional to you? How are they different from other sitcom families?

  • How does your family compare to the characters in this show? What aspects of your family might be considered non-traditional?

  • How does the media portray relationships in general? Why do you think topics like unplanned pregnancy, divorce, sex, and and sexual identity are dealt with so frequently in TV shows and movies?


This review was written by Emily Ashby
Parent of 7 and 9 year old
November 18, 2009
 
Good, fun, show for the 13+ crowd!
This is one of the most realistic shows for our time. It captures how families have evolved and still connects how important families are, however they are formed. Families are dysfunctional, there is no perfect family. This is a great show of how people work through their issues, insecurities, fears and continue to progress and grow as individuals and families. And sometimes it is laugh out loud hysterical!

Flag as inappropriate 
Kid, 13 years old
April 4, 2011
 
LUV IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i LUV this show i have never missed an episode plus what is so bad about a gay couple kissing its not like you child doesnt know what gay means or anything

Flag as inappropriate 
Educator and Parent
September 26, 2010
 
May be ok for young adults and older but not for children.
Our family will not watch it. Yes, it may be what the world of today calls a "modern" family but we believe in the "traditional" family. So, where is your "Common Sense" in promoting non-traditional families?!?

Flag as inappropriate 
Teen, 18 years old
April 12, 2011
 
LOL I love this show so so so so so so so so much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Flag as inappropriate 
Teen, 14 years old
April 29, 2011
 
I love this sitcom. It is about a modern family, including a "normal" family, a gay couple, and a couple where one is middle-aged and one is young. It is very funny, but has some suggestive dialogue. There is some language, but nothing a preteen can't handle. There is a bit of sexual content, in some episodes more than others, but for the most part, this show is not all that bad.

Flag as inappropriate 
Teen, 18 years old
May 21, 2011
 
So weird! But in a good way:)
This show is super funny! Homosexuality isn't for children though. Unless they already know about it, and are mature about it.

Flag as inappropriate 
Teen, 14 years old
April 7, 2011
 
Keeps me in Stitches
A very funny show that keeps me in stitches every time. Altough some episodes have a little sex taking the charecters are very funny.

Flag as inappropriate 
Teen, 14 years old
April 19, 2011
 
AWESOME SHOW
I really love this series. It is very funny and it is incredibly true. The issues the family struggles with are very relevant, and I think the show is just plain awesome.

Flag as inappropriate 
Teen, 14 years old
April 7, 2011
 
Undescribable
Absolutely hilariously amazingly gorgeously fantastically brlliant series.

Flag as inappropriate 
Teen, 14 years old
January 1, 2011
 
I LOVE THiS SHOW
This show is so freaking funny! My family and I will sit an watch an episode every night. It's like bonding time over Modern Family.

Flag as inappropriate 

This review was written by Emily Ashby
TV rating:TV-PG
Network:ABC
Cast:Ed O'Neill, Jesse Tyler Ferguson, Julie Bowen
Genre:Comedy

This review was written by Emily Ashby
 

Review It

Share your review with others

Hang on! You need to be a member to post your review.
A safe community is important to us. Please observe our guidelines.
About our rating system
ON: Content is age-appropriate for kids this age.
PAUSE: Know your child; some content may not be right for some kids.
OFF: Not age-appropriate for kids this age.
Learning ratings
BEST: Really engaging, great learning approach.
GOOD: Pretty engaging, good learning approach.
FAIR: Somewhat engaging, OK learning approach.
NOT FOR LEARNING: Not recommended for learning.

Great alternatives handpicked by our editors

 

vote now

Will you see Modern Family?


Already seen it? What do you think?

 

Been There? Tell us about it