Toddlers & Tiaras

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Common Sense Media says

Informative docu focuses on child beauty pageants.
greenON: Content is age-appropriate for kids this age.
yellowPAUSE: Know your child; some content
may not be right for some kids.
redOFF: Not age-appropriate for kids this age.
not for kidsNOT FOR KIDS: Not appropriate for kids any age.

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What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this reality show is all about child beauty pageants -- which is a hot-button issue for some people. Physical beauty is definitely emphasized, but contestants also talk about practice and hard work. Questionable parenting techniques are highlighted and parents sometimes come off looking bad. Depending on your view of pageants, you'll either be appalled or reassured by what you see. Either way, there's no strong language, violence, or drinking/smoking to worry about.

  • The importance of physical beauty, especially as it relates to a child's success, is discussed. Children sometimes appear sexualized by their costumes or performance. Discipline, practice, and working hard to attain goals are also topics of discussion.
  • Some parents believe that pageants help them save money for college or will lead to careers in the entertainment industry. Others are simply continuing a family tradition, and/or supporting their child's interest in them. Occasionally a child is shown being forced to perform. Children sometimes act bratty or demonstrate poor sportsmanship when losing an event. Parents, especially moms, are often shown criticizing other parents, judges, and their own kids for poor performances.
  • Not applicable.
  • The way that the little girls are all dolled up -- and the way they wiggle their hips -- has sexualized undertones. There are swimsuit competitions, but one pageant director specifically says that she doesn't want the girls looking too sexy and that she prefers one-piece suits for that reason.

What's the story?

TODDLERS & TIARAS is a documentary-style look at the world of child beauty pageants. With limited subtitles identifying just the place and who's speaking, the stories are told by the participants themselves, with no narration. Every episode focuses on a different pageant, following a handful of contestants from a few days before the pageant to the immediate aftermath, and all the highs and lows in betwen.


Is it any good?

 

The show does what it's supposed to do: tell its story simply and well. The storytelling itself isn't exploitative (fairly impressive given the subject matter) and seems to be mostly objective, although there's at least one scene in which a mother constantly criticizes and coaches her daughter through a gym practice as the camera focuses on a sign explicitly telling parents not to -- which might be seen as a comment on the mother.

In the end, whether or not you'll enjoy Toddlers & Tiaras depends entirely on whether you find child pageants exploitative or innocently entertaining. Either way, think carefully about the messages that tweens and kids might take away from watching.


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What families can talk about

  • Families can talk about beauty pageants, particularly those featuring young children. What standards of beauty are they based on? How do you think participating in (or just watching) these competitions impacts kids?

  • Families can also discuss how it changes a reality/documentary show when there's no narrator explaining what's going on. Does it make a difference when a show is told in the voices of the participants? Does that make a difference in your opinion of the pageants?


This review was written by Anne Louise Bannon
Adult
February 24, 2011
 
ridiculous
Most of the mothers here should be charged with child abuse from plucking eyebrows to infant drinking soda and coffee. Just what we need parents making kids look ridiculous. This is about the parents dream not the kids.

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Teen, 15 years old
February 25, 2011
 
Entertaining (as most reality shows) but horrible people...
This is a reality show, so as they all are, this is entertaining. But I really hate seeing parents forcing their kids to do things they hate, kids being horrible to their parents and sassy and acting older than they are, and parents raising their kids with the message that being sexy and getting money is all that matters in life. I hate seeing the babies and toddlers putting in FAKE teeth, getting spray tanned, and all that stupid stuff. All the parents care about is the money and the way they get it is by exploiting their children. Kids might get bad ideas from the awful kids on this show. The parents often let rude remarks and sass go without any punishment. The kid can get whatever they want as long is their beauty keeps giving parents money. Whenever I watch this, I just think "Thank God I don't have horrible parents like these." Some of these parents just make me sick (and that's coming from a normal 14 year old girl). I once saw a mom swear at their baby, force coca-cola down an infant's throat to keep her awake, and force a kid who was scared into getting their eyebrows waxed. Parents, PLEASE never do this to your children.

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Teen, 17 years old
October 7, 2009
 
All I can say is wow
yes, wow. Well, it's a terrible show dont EVER watch it. Its just teaching kids they have to look pretty to get somewhere in the world. Even though they dont want the girls looking sexy, it's full of striptease and brattyness. And its the parents who'll be paying, believe me, all you pagaent moms who are out their on common sense reading this review now. You could all you some, right now. I dont know about you, but I wouldn't want my four year old looking older than me.

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Parent of 7, 9, 12, and 12 year old
October 3, 2009
 
Passion for Pageants
As my children compete in pageants, it's cool to see some of the other little girls out there and use some as examples to show my daughters what NOT to act like. My daughters may be divas, but they're not brats! The only bad part is that they show so many horrid pageant children, people stereotype pageant people like me! The other day when I took my kids grocery shopping and wore my pageant mom shirt, people kept shooting us these really weird looks. I don't see what's wrong with pageants- they teach my kids self confidence and how to take charge of situations!

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Teen, 17 years old
July 29, 2011
 
Entertaining but the whole idea is inappropriate...
Like most reality television, it is entertaining. However, this show really does make me sick. Seeing these parents pushing their children into doing things they don't want to do, all because they are trying to live their own dreams through their child. I don't see any positive messages in this show. The parents are pushy and drive their children to win; while the children are bratty and act like complete diva's; the parents are to blame for this. It really does pain me to think about what these young girls are going to be like when they're older... The clothing is at most times inappropriate and the movements of these young girls' routines have sexual undertones. It disgusts me to think of the amount of pedophiles out there that would be watching these young girls wearing and acting inappropriately. So this is an entertaining show, however when you think about it, the whole idea of it is truely sad.

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Teen, 15 years old
August 6, 2010
 
Not good.
I give it 2 stars because if your my age it's fun to watch just for a laugh. However, the idea of this show is terrible. Beauty pageants only do two things for a young girl: they tell her that being beautiful is the only way to feel good about yourself, and if you lose, you aren't beautiful. But I think the show does showcase the craziness, and, sometimes cruelty of the mothers who put their children through this. One quote in an episode I saw was from a mother, saying: "I started putting her in pageants when she was nine months old. She didn't know what was going on, but I liked it, so..." That was an exact quote! So that just shows how revealing yet funny this show can be.

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Teen, 14 years old
July 23, 2009
 
I hate the whole idea
I just hate the whole idea of the show. They are turning the little girls into something their not. they make them wear makeup, and the outfits are just outrageous for little girls. i saw a comercial trying to get people to watch it and a little girl was being very hateful and rude. its just turning the litle girls into little monsters.

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Educator and Parent of 6 and 11 year old
September 25, 2010
 
I like and dislike this show for many reasons!!
I love and hate this show at the same time. I love this show because and inspired my child to compete in pageants!! When I was watching it my child asked me if she could do what they were doing, I was skeptical at first, but she enjoys dressing up and being on stage! But I don't like it because pageant moms have gotten a bad rap because of how the show potrays them on tv. People need to realize that TV is TV and the producers ask the parents to be dramatic for ratings, and most pageants and pageant parents don't behave like that. Also I dont know why they show so much sexy suff on that show most pageant moms don't let their children dance like that. I'm torn between the good and bad aspects of the show because most people don't realize that directors cut out boring material and put in bad/exiting/sexy material in.

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Teen, 14 years old
August 23, 2011
 
egh...
this show... is awful, these mothers force their dreams onto their toddlers and pocket every last dollar they earn in these awful pageants. Those girls are in agony but are told that they love pageants, so they believe that they do.

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Teen, 17 years old
February 26, 2011
 
Just....uhg.
Terrible isn't a strong enough word to describe this show.

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This review was written by Anne Louise Bannon
Topics:arts and dance, music and sing-along
TV rating:TV-G
Network:TLC
Genre:Reality TV

This review was written by Anne Louise Bannon
 

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