Weeds (Showtime)

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Raising kids (and more...) in the 'burbs. Adults.


parents & educators say
  • 55% say sexual content is an issue
  • 55% say language is an issue

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this addictive (pun intended) dramedy about drug dealing in the suburbs is definitely not for kids. The main character, Nancy, makes parenting decisions that most people would disagree with -- especially deciding to sell marijuana to provide for her two sons. Her friends and family members are likewise flawed, complicated people whose behavior is questionable at best and unbelievably irresponsible and cruel at worst (Nancy's best friend has a habit of belittling her overweight daughter, for example). Most conversations are peppered with strong language; partial nudity and uninhibited sex scenes are common, and the themes are unquestionably adult-oriented. That said, it can be both funny and insightful, too, and grown-ups might get a contact high just by watching.

Positive messages: Don't look for positive messages here. Although the Botwins love each other, their family relationships are constantly tested and twisted beyond most people's breaking point. Selfishness is often rewarded, and plenty of illegal activity takes place without a hint of consequence.
Positive role models: Nancy ostensibly has her family's best interests at heart, but most of her
day-to-day actions -- dealing drugs, flirting with drug dealers -- are risky and illegal and make her far
from a model of good behavior. Her friends and family members aren't
much better; her accountant is one of her best clients, her
brother-in-law is cheerfully self-serving (and doesn't hesitate to lie
to get what he wants), and her best friend does things like hide
laxatives in her overweight tween daughter's chocolate stash. The
affluent characters are all white; most of the African-American
characters are somehow involved in the drug business, while the Latino
ones are almost all domestic servants and/or heavily involved in the drug trade.
Violence: Somewhat sporadic depending on the season/episode, but it can be quite shocking when it happens. Stand-off scenes between drug dealers include lots of guns; Nancy participates in a drive-by; other bloody wounds appear (some from gunshots, some from other sources -- like animal attacks). Several abrupt deaths. Also some beatings and car accidents.
Sex: Infrequent full-frontal nudity and lots of partial nudity (breasts, buttocks, more). Frequent sex scenes (some fairly explicit, even for pay cable, and some involving teen characters). A character takes a young boy to a "massage parlor" as a coming-of-age treat. Sex toys show up on occasion.
Language: Frequent and explicit; nothing is bleeped. "F--k," "s--t," "a--hole," "pu--y," etc. -- they're all there.
Consumerism: Few specific product names are mentioned (though Nancy does love her Diet Coke), but most of the denizens of Agrestic are very materialistic.
Drinking, drugs, & smoking: The show's premise is closely tied to marijuana -- growing it, selling it, smoking it, baking it into pastries, etc. Later seasons expand to cover more of the illegal drug industry. Adults and teens also drink regularly, and some use drugs like cocaine.

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What to talk about

Talk to your kids
  • Families can talk about how far they'd go to support each other in times of crisis. Was becoming a drug dealer Nancy's only option to provide for her kids?
  • Part of the reason Nancy originally got involved in the drug business was to maintain her family's affluent, gated-community lifestyle -- is that a reflection of society's values? What points is the show making about the McMansion lifestyle?
  • Do the people on the show seem like a realistic reflection of upper-middle-class suburban life? Are any of the characters good role models? Why or why not?

What's the story?

What's the story?

After being widowed abruptly, Nancy Botwin (Mary-Louise Parker) is left with few options for supporting her two sons, teenage Silas (Hunter Parrish) and younger brother Shane (Alexander Gould). She needs serious cash flow to maintain their lifestyle in the ritzy, upper-middle-class gated community of Agrestic, so she starts selling pot. Nancy's friends and family members aren't exactly candidates for the Role Model of the Year Award, either. Her friend Celia (Elizabeth Perkins) routinely taunts her overweight tween daughter, Isabelle (Allie Grant), going so far as to secretly swap the girl's chocolate stash with chocolate-flavored laxatives. Nancy's brother-in-law, Andy (Justin Kirk), is gleefully manipulative and selfish, whether he's exchanging X-rated instant messages with his nephew's girlfriend (while pretending to be said nephew) or lying to get into rabbinical school so he can avoid being drafted. And Nancy's accountant, city council member Wilson Doug (Kevin Nealon), is one of her best clients.

Is it any good?

Is it any good?
 

WEEDS isn't the first TV show to expose the dark side of life in the suburbs, and it almost certainly won't be the last. But it's probably safe to say that it's the only series that goes behind the facade in such a large cloud of marijuana smoke. Of course, just about everyone has some good mixed in with the bad. The trauma of her husband's death has left Nancy very much at sea, and all she can do is get through one day at a time. She cares deeply about her sons and honestly wants what's best for them, even if her very questionable parenting choices don't always make that clear. And Andy really likes being part of a family -- he just has trouble understanding that he's supposed to be one of the grown-ups. Even Celia has a softer side, though she doesn't show it often.

Thanks to complex, interesting characters like these and some very sharp writing, Weeds can be both laugh-out-loud funny and poignantly dramatic. But it's definitely meant for adults. The rampant drug use -- not to mention the frequent scenes of people buying, selling, baking, and growing the stuff in the first place -- is only one of many red flags. Most of the characters swear like sailors (though they're not as bad as the folks on Deadwood), the often-explicit sex scenes include partial nudity (including a teen girl in at least one case), teenage characters drink and do drugs, all of the show's African-American characters are involved in the drug business (and most of the Latino ones are domestic servants), and supporting characters have resorted to blackmail, arson, and beatings. One thing's for sure -- life in Agrestic may be complicated, smoky, and sometimes even shocking, but it's certainly never boring.

TV themes & details

TV Details
TV Rating: TV-MA
Network: Showtime
Cast: Elizabeth Perkins, Kevin Nealon, Mary-Louise Parker
Genre: Comedy
Where to watch: Showtime

This review was written by Betsy Bozdech
 
 

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What parents & educators say

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Based on 11 parent & educator reviews:
  • 55% say sexual content is an issue
  • 55% say language is an issue
  • 55% say there's too much drinking, drugs, or smoking
  • 36% say they noticed product placement
  • 36% say violence is an issue

Most useful reviews by all members

 
I AM ABSOUTLEY OBSESSED WITH THE SHOW
but its deff not for anyone under 17 or 16. I mean teenagers these days smoke pot but they dont need more encouragement. I love the show. Its amazing but its not for youngings

Cooldee
parent
 
Drugs are bad!
This show has no highlights at all! Block this show!

 
Teens
Weeds is a great show for adults. Teens can relate to the charecters. The show goes in deep story lines. The story lines are very complicated all thought they deal with drugs. I think the Weeds tells everyone how bad drugs are even though the people in the show smoke and sell it they show what happons when you do it there are a lot of negative things. And that will make people not want to do drugs. The show is not a normal tv 14 if parents think Sex And The City was bad they have not seen Weeds even South Park is not as bad as Weeds anything on Showtime or HBO has a lot of Bad Words since it is a premeum chanel they can show and say what they want. I dont know if I have ever seen a show that has this much profanity They will put to many Fwords and Swords They will say a lot of Religious jesters that are bad the jesters will include bad words. A average Epesode would have about 10 15 fwords at the least. Sex goes on a lot. We see breasts and Bottems. The violence is not to bad in the early seasons around season 4 it gets bad. All and All Weeds is a good show but not for people under 14

natejoseph123
teen, 18 years old
 
i love this show
this is a great show. while i gives a fictional setup of just how many adults use weed, i dont think its that far. it also shows very little damage that weed gives to the adults. its a great and funny show. i love it. let your kids watch it, it wont kill them.

 
Not for kids
I heard that this show was really good. I bought it off of itunes and I watched the first four episodes. I hatted it. It was horrible. Not for kids. I dont even think its for adults.

 
Weeds is 4 everyone
i luv weeds it is so addictive. it is all about sex, drugs and money but conveys deeper messages about serious matters such as drug abuse, sex, politics and racial discrimination. therefore everyone should watch this show to be entertained and educated.

Liver
teen, 14 years old
 
Enjoyable but explicit.
A fantastic show with SOME good role models. I started watching this when I was 11 and really enjoyed it. For parents: The sexual content is rather explicit but isn't too frequent eg. once every few episodes when the plot is complex but sometimes there can be quite a few scenes in just one. Violence is not an issue but as it is in the drug world deaths do occur, but hardly ever gruesome ones. Drug use is really frequent with main characters ingesting and manufacturing every illicit drug under the sun, so a large concern for some of you. I suggest you watch it with your kids and if you feel uncomfortable with them viewing it then it's your decision.

bwaais
adult
 
Excellent
Bien qu'elle nécessite une maturité d'esprit cette série vaut le coup d'oeil. Des enfants trop jeunes peuvent être cependant influencé par la séries. Sorry, but I speak french only.

 
GREAT Addictive Dramady
Consistently keeps you waiting for what's going to happen next, very interesting characters, and beautiful scenery. One of the best shows on TV right now. Its not really suitable for kids at all due to explicit sex scenes and very adult situations, but for teenagers and adults it is a fantastic show that really gets you hooked. The drug use is actually very mild, showing people smoking weed but that's really it, other drugs are shown but they are condemned and not seen being used.

 
Wonderful
LOVE IT. My mouth hung open threw all 6 seasons.

nuh-tah-shha
kid, 12 years old
 
this show is great......it makes you always want to know what will happen next

 
it sucks
horrible show....I recommend 18 or older, lots of bad words, c**k, p***y.... it's pathetic that my brother that is 15 watches it everyday

Rawrrr
teen, 14 years old
 
Bloody amazing.
This has to be one of the best TV programs i've ever seen!

ipeterg123
teen, 16 years old
 
Very good, impressive
Well its no secret, people smoke marijuana (shocker) so stop complaining, this is a great show with great characters a great story and an original idea. It swears a lot but not more then most 14 year olds say every day while you arn't looking. some sex, some violence. Very good blend and a very good show

nic1992
adult
 

ac7193
teen, 17 years old
 
Love it!!!!!
I LOVE this show. I rented Season 1 on Blu-ray from Blockbuster yesterday. Immediately, I was hooked! I couldn't stop watching it. It finished and I still wanted to know more. This show is for mature audiences only. It has some sex scenes and some violence. Drugs take a major role in this show. I would recommend it to everyone who is comfortable watching mature themed films.

KrissyKillz
teen, 16 years old
 
Drugs Aren't Bad. Mkkaayyy.
It is a very comical show. I highly reccomend it for all ages. :)

KittehNomsU
teen, 15 years old
 
It's inappropriate, but hey, my conversations as a ten year old were just about as explicit.

Cityofbonesfan019
teen, 15 years old
 
Incredible show
Absolutly amazing and funny.... my favorite show on tv.. it is mature but as long as you dont make a big deal about it (and be mature) you'll love it

tylerkippert
teen, 15 years old
 
Weeds is Great
This show is great. Although, they use every cuss word you can think of, there is a lot of nudity and sex, and of course, drugs. If your child is mature enough to handle these things, then they can watch it with supervision.

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