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Movie Trailer Bait and Switch
Your Comments:Honestly, you're better off getting Netflix, and staying home. There are a few things not everybody gets about the nature of studios, theaters, and the MPAA. The rating doesn't mean a thing. Why would that be? The MPAA is not a government entity. It's a corporate advisory board. They can't sanction anything. The MPAA came about in 1922, as a concern of the 6 largest major studios - Disney, Warner, Fox, Columbia, Paramount, and Universal. It's a cartel. Essentially the rating system is a gentleman's agreement between those studios about the content of their films, so they wouldn't offend too many people and therefore lose revenue - it has more to do with the revenue. Furthermore, the "ratings" make it harder for independent film that might have artistic merit instead of another dumb, cookie cutter, Harry Potter or whatever trite pre-packaged, snooze fest designed to empty the pockets of the lowest common denominator because they're dumb enough to fall for it again. Theaters - most are part of large national chains, like AMC, Loews, Carmike, etc, and trust me on this one, they are doing what they are told. So if you have a complaint about a film or content, you should not complain to your local theater. Once again, they are doing what they are told. A rude ticket seller or unclean bathroom, go ahead. Don't like the movie? You sat through the whole thing - you aren't getting a refund. If you don't like the food at a restaurant, do you eat the whole thing and THEN complain? I worked in the theater industry for five years, most of it as a manager. I've built prints, assembled trailer packs, done countless Thursday night changeovers, and I've dealt with every complaint you've ever had. Every little quibble and this, that, the other, I've heard it. Chances usually are that about 65-75% of whatever trifle you have to gripe about, is far beyond the control of the theater staff, and if you call corporate, they are going to give you a gift cert or pass to shut you up. That's the way it works. And in case any of you are wondering, the answer is most definitely YES - the general public comes off as far below what most would consider "intelligent." I mean YOU. I also mean your precious child who won't stop crying, which makes a lot of other people angry, including the maltreated, overworked, and underpaid staff. And for the Love of God, keep your feet off the seats! TRUST me on this. We are told what trailers to put in. The point of this missive is this - the theater is acting on orders of the studios, who own and run the MPAA you trust to make things "safe" for the kiddos. They don't - they only care that you keep BUYING. The ratings exist to tell you what to go to - what that means is that when a PG movie comes out, you'll go to it because you're willing to pay to take the kids to the movies, because there's a kids movie out. (In other words - you fell for it!) The studios are too large to really care about whether or not you're offended. Once again, get Netflix. It puts the power into the hands of the consumer.
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Rules of the Road for Texting
Your Comments:I actually have only ONE rule when it comes to texting while driving. I don't do it - I either call the person back or I wait until I get home or wherever I'm going and it's safer for me to be texting. It's pretty simple really - I don't want to get hit with a massive ticket from the police (I think the government gets enough of our money at this point already), and then have to pay even more for auto insurance, or worse, run some poor person over. You see, there's this thing I also have - about death. It's just not me. I figure if I'm gonna go out, there's no way it's going to be doing something as stupid as texting while driving, you know what I mean? Not that I plan to anytime soon, but texting while driving is just dumb.
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Battling Stereotypes Tips
Your Comments:For some reason, I think of something Denis Leary said about racism. The bit went that he knew for a fact that it wasn't genetic - "I have a three year old, you know what he hates? Naps, ok folks?" It rings very true, and with all representations of any group in the media you have to be able to demonstrate to your children that it is just entertainment and that racism is wrong. What helped me was that my folks had friends of different races, and getting to know them I came to see kind of the -this is horribly inane and maudlin, but whatever - people-ness of everyone, and that each individual has their own worth. Granted, there are people who live up to stereotypes - no one likes to admit it, but there are. Deal with it. There are white people who are crackers, white trash, trailer trash, to the core - you see a lot of them at Wal Mart (again, a stereotype but it does hold true - the greatest is hearing vaguely southern accents at a Wal Mart in the Pacific Northwest, and knowing that those people aren't from the south) and come to think of it, one of the most famous ones left office on Jan. 20th and another one is resigning her governorship (ouch!) but I'm getting off topic. I think the best thing to do is to emphasize to your kids that they shouldn't let entertainment do their thinking and informing of the relative value of individual people for them. http://personalmoneystore.com/moneyblog/2009/07/08/racist-valley-swim-club-reverts-1950s-thinking/
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Music and Your Kids Tips
Your Comments:Well, one of the things you have to remember is that ever since the 50s, there's an almost institutionalized gender gap. (For instance, Benny Goodman was universally popular - Elvis was not.) Resultantly,you have to bear in mind that the music your kids are going to like is NOT what you like. Some might be - Michael Jackson for instance, but there are always going to be exceptions to the rule. So you kind of have to let them listen to what they like, but also impose a sort of democratic atmosphere when it comes to the noise they make. For instance, when I was a teenager, neither myself or my sister was allowed to blast the stuff they we were into but not everyone else was, and if we wanted something to play on the main stereo, we had to select something everyone liked - I had it relatively easy, because I love a lot of classic rock, and since that was the era my parents grew up in...it's also easier to talk Dad into putting Jimmy Buffett or Alice Cooper on during car trips than the Backstreet Boys, which also worked in my favor. However, you can't convince anyone to listen to Metallica, which is when the portable CD player and headphones comes in handy. However, when it comes to the content, there's only so much control you can exert, and it also depends on your childrens' personalities - some kids are going to gravitate more towards Top 40 fluff, some kids are going to be into jazz or classical, and then you can also end up with the teen metalhead or punk rocker (totally me - and I STILL listen to Slayer!) Eventually, you have to face the reality that there's only so much you're going to be able to do, and the iron fist won't work forever. (Some are born to rebel, and they will.) The only thing you can really do is get them to understand that entertainment is just entertainment, and it isn't to be taken too seriously or literally. It's the same with video games and movies - they are going to see it or hear it eventually, and you have to prepare them to be handle things in a mature and rational fashion. The Spice Girls will eventually not suffice.
